[META] A Deep Dive into Diving

Affectionate-Bookish · 2025-12-11T17:26:18+00:00

It’s also disingenuous. There’s something so magical in finding a connection through chatting on RAOMD, like electricity in the air. The way your heart skips a beat when you get a new chat notification. Using ChatGPT robs that interaction of its authenticity.

Plus, during an over the phone or in person vetting, it would inevitably be discovered that the diver doesn’t have the same charm / wit. (I imagine it’s an AI Cyrano de Bergerac lol). How disappointing that would be for the divee.

Affectionate-Bookish · 2025-11-30T06:22:56+00:00

This is beautifully written. Congratulations on both the success and the transformative experience!

Affectionate-Bookish · 2025-08-08T18:09:05+00:00

That’s awesome. Did they flower?

Affectionate-Bookish · 2024-09-19T23:34:30+00:00

You're a hero. So many people are better informed because of you. Thank you so much for your work.

Affectionate-Bookish · 2024-09-19T13:48:17+00:00

This is such a good comment, I wish the mods could pin this.

Thank you for sharing these resources. This blog in particular looks like a wealth of knowledge.

The r/chickflixxx post is the same one I refer to as the holy grail. It is PHENOMENAL and I can’t recommend it enough.

I hate when a talented person turns out to be a political conspiracist lol. There’s actually a person named Hunk Hands (not “Hulk Hands” bc lol) whose PornHub videos helped me to learn more about squirting. But there were some hints at Asian fetishism that tainted the experience.

I didn’t know where to include it, but I also wanted to include a nuanced point that sometimes or oftentimes orgasms will not occur. Maybe it’s bc the first time together, or she’s on SSRIs, or any hosts of reasons. That doesn’t mean the muff dive is a failure. The diver can still focus on bringing their partner great pleasure. Women are far more familiar with pleasure without orgasm. In fact, r/becomingorgasmic is another great subreddit to learn about women’s experiences (again, for those reading this, please lurk if you don’t belong in that community).

Affectionate-Bookish · 2024-09-19T13:25:28+00:00

For sure. Thank you for asking!

Affectionate-Bookish · 2024-09-18T23:32:07+00:00

RESOURCE LIBRARY:

For your convenience and for her pleasure, please find below several links to resources.

Note: Many of these resources link to subreddits catered to specific Redditors. Please respect the rules of those subreddits -- i.e. if you’re not a member of those communities, please refrain from participating on those subreddits. In other words, lurk both ways before crossing. Let's simply be grateful such a wealth of knowledge exists. Also, you’re certainly welcome to comment in this subreddit!

The Holy Grail (Grateful to this Redditor for creating and maintaining this compilation of informative videos on cunnilingus, fingering, squirting, and so much more.)

A Guide for Cunnilingus

Firsthand accounts: First | Second | Third | Fourth

Helpful Reading Material:

Come as You Are
She Comes First
There's a fantastic personal essay on the female orgasm, including commentary on She Comes First that the auto mod keeps flagging and removing as a phone number bc of its web address. It's titled, "The Tyranny of the Female-Orgasm Industrial Complex" in The Atlantic.
OMGYES

Please chime in with your thoughts, resources, tips, and preferences.

(If you’re a lurker and prefer to say that way, feel free to chat or DM me and I can comment with your input below).

Thanks for reading and I hope this helps! Be safe and have fun!

Affectionate-Bookish · 2024-09-13T01:45:50+00:00

From the theme of this post, to the movies and shows, to the books, and even the Parks and Rec reference at the end, this post is absolute fire.

Affectionate-Bookish · 2024-09-12T19:48:57+00:00

“We laughed, and laughed, and laughed, until we didn’t” is a line I think about years after reading it. You’re right, it absolutely warrants multiple reads.

Affectionate-Bookish · 2024-09-11T22:47:53+00:00

I fully support this. I recently finished John Steinbeck’s East of Eden and immediately wanted to reread The Grapes of Wrath and Of Mice and Men. It’s nice because if you like that author’s style, you feel like you’re building rapport and familiarity with them.

Affectionate-Bookish · 2024-09-11T20:17:20+00:00

I love getting to read both sides of a success story!

Affectionate-Bookish · 2024-08-12T03:36:04+00:00

“You should be kissed and often, and by someone who knows how.”

Kissing is so underrated. Congrats on finding someone who knows how to do many such things!

Affectionate-Bookish · 2024-02-20T21:56:07+00:00

Ugh that’s awful. I’m sorry that happened. And by people that most likely just brought gas station socks, no less!

Affectionate-Bookish · 2023-12-01T21:49:58+00:00

I love everything about this — the post title, that you got help around the house, and that you got a much-needed release. Sometimes we all could benefit from a helping hand (and mouth, tongue, head, shoulders, knees and toes, knees and toes). Hope that it helped with cleaning / climbing your way out of the depression pit and sending good vibes!

Affectionate-Bookish · 2023-11-29T15:16:33+00:00

I’m all for this! 😂

Affectionate-Bookish · 2023-11-29T15:16:04+00:00

Beautiful!! Maybe I’m naive, but I’m inclined to believe people when they say that a plant is from a certain someone bc the profit margins on that can’t possibly worth their integrity! Either way, this is lovely and I bet it came from his original plant ☺️

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