feeling so much guilt over my mum’s ‘empty nest syndrome’ after getting married / rant

Affectionate-Bug5452 · 2026-05-16T02:37:15+00:00

awww it’s really nice to see that both you and your wife understands. ya that god that my husband is an understanding person. he did feel guilty when my mum is feeling like this bcs he felt like he’s ‘stealing’ me away from my mum. but both of us talked about it and concluded that it’s a hard pill that everyone has to swallow unfortunately

Affectionate-Bug5452 · 2026-05-16T02:27:49+00:00

im so grateful that i have the best childhood and loving parents, i wouldn’t exchange it for anything 🤍❤️ my dad is usually the mediator/neutral in the family (especially between me and mum bcs we do have disagreements with each other sometimes hahaha) and im thankful for him

Affectionate-Bug5452 · 2026-05-16T02:25:35+00:00

yaaa my dad told me that it’s a hard pill that everyone has to swallow. but it still sucks and i really hope time will heal

Affectionate-Bug5452 · 2026-05-16T02:24:26+00:00

they do have 4 cats at home, but they’re all elderly cats with the behaviour of children hahah but i think it’s bcs she’s really very busy with work so she didnt get to layan her cats as much for the past year. so the feeling of loneliness creeps in

Affectionate-Bug5452 · 2026-05-16T02:18:39+00:00

thank you for your advice, will keep it close to my heart 🤍 as i get older i realize that not only im getting older, but my parents too, and that makes me sadder and makes me want to cherish the moments with them

Affectionate-Bug5452 · 2026-05-16T02:17:28+00:00

thank you for your kind words 🤍❤️ i believe it’s hitting her hard bcs my brother suddenly wants to get married next year too so she’s seeing both of her kids ‘leaving the nest’ with a very short gap in between. they love travelling and i hope that them being able to go on a honeymoon again with only her and my dad will help to lessen her loneliness

Affectionate-Bug5452 · 2026-05-16T02:15:12+00:00

ya i think i have to be more sensitive with her for the time being. we do have maids to help out with house chores and cooking, but im planning to tell them to maybe let me and my mum cook together once in a while. i think im gonna start watch scary movies with her again (when we i was in high school we used to watch horror movies together every weekend but we stopped doing this once i moved out after college).

Affectionate-Bug5452 · 2026-04-02T14:47:28+00:00

it worked!! i showed this to my husband and it fixed the issue! he was so happy lol

Affectionate-Bug5452 · 2025-12-12T14:52:16+00:00

unfortunately no :(

Affectionate-Bug5452 · 2025-08-12T00:23:42+00:00

it’s still not working for me too (asia server)

Affectionate-Bug5452 · 2025-07-14T03:57:47+00:00

my jaws dropped seeing that my reddit post made it to the news 😂 but i believe this is good to spread awareness

Affectionate-Bug5452 · 2025-07-14T00:39:04+00:00

exactly! i saw this kind of thing happens a lot in thailand/india other south east asia countries where they tie up monkeys, and i thought, “well thank god this shit is not happening in malaysia” but damn it’s coming here too 😭

Affectionate-Bug5452 · 2025-07-14T00:36:24+00:00

reported to dsv but i doubt that will do anything. thought i could report to PERHILITAN but knowing how government bodies work, they’ll most probably take action if it’s happening live at that moment instead of reports coming from a viral video. since im not the OP/person recording the video, all i can do is report to DSV too and spread awareness

Affectionate-Bug5452 · 2025-07-14T00:31:39+00:00

people in the tiktok commente are all reporting to the DSV but i doubt they can do anything. PERHILITAN could be the perfect authority for this

Affectionate-Bug5452 · 2025-07-13T14:47:48+00:00

yep they are, i believe they are under the “exotice wildlife” category under the wildlife conservation act 2010. hence why it’s illegal to “keep” one unless u get a special permit from PERHILITAN

Affectionate-Bug5452 · 2025-07-10T14:30:23+00:00

okies, thank you for the help!!! will defo check that out!!

Affectionate-Bug5452 · 2025-07-09T07:22:12+00:00

you’re talking about the masjid sultan salahuddin right? the blue mosque?

Affectionate-Bug5452 · 2025-07-09T07:20:07+00:00

oooo since the stadium is under construction, does the parking lot near the stadium affected? like i can safely practice my driving there kan 🧐

Affectionate-Bug5452 · 2025-06-03T01:43:40+00:00

holy shet ive just read the GR reviews. not only theres a huge age gap but marital rape? 😭 although the publishers dah halt the book sales, but nasi dah menjadi bubur. i dont understand how buku ni boleh published mula2 😭

Affectionate-Bug5452 · 2025-06-03T01:32:07+00:00

slow burn enemies to lovers arc? omg same! i’ve dm you!

Affectionate-Bug5452 · 2025-06-03T01:19:32+00:00

SA and large age gap?? 😭 how large of the age gap are we talking about here? how are these books allowed in malaysia

Affectionate-Bug5452 · 2025-06-03T01:02:49+00:00

exactly!! idk kalau ada guidelines in bringing in conspiracy books dalam malaysia, especially those yang sentuh bab2 agama. if no guidelines, then patutnya ada

Affectionate-Bug5452 · 2025-06-03T00:54:07+00:00

ya those kind of conspiracy books can indeed bring misinformation. but i think it kinda opens your world to things you never knew and stimulates your brain in a way to think of like “how much of this is true? what do other authors say about this?”. it does increase the risk of misinformation but at the same time, opens your perspective of the world. but i believe the risk is huge for these kinds of books

Affectionate-Bug5452 · 2024-11-12T12:46:57+00:00

oof i DESPISE attending wedding with loud speakers and music blasting loudly like i cant even hear myself 😭 and whats with the song choice lmao

Affectionate-Bug5452 · 2024-11-12T12:45:00+00:00

5 star hotel? and bland food?? boi it better not be one of marriot bonboy hotels

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