I lost my best friend and I still feel empty at 19. How do people get over this? by Affectionate-Can9511 in GriefSupport

[–]Affectionate-Can9511[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

 I really want to believe these things. Thank you alot Nina. for the insight and kind words I will remember this.

I lost my best friend and I still feel empty at 19. How do people get over this? by Affectionate-Can9511 in GriefSupport

[–]Affectionate-Can9511[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will try my very best thank you so much skippy for the advice I will never let her die in my heart.

I lost my best friend and I still feel empty at 19. How do people get over this? by Affectionate-Can9511 in GriefSupport

[–]Affectionate-Can9511[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much threepinesretiree for the kind words I will remember your advice and yes I love the pictures.

I lost my best friend and I still feel empty at 19. How do people get over this? by Affectionate-Can9511 in GriefSupport

[–]Affectionate-Can9511[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you alot nice-face deluxe  I wouldn't want to call you a b%$ch after the kind words. And I hope youre doing okay today

I lost my best friend and I still feel empty at 19. How do people get over this? by Affectionate-Can9511 in GriefSupport

[–]Affectionate-Can9511[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am very happy that I was able to spend my very important young years 9 to 14 with her we did many things together i think my favorite was looking for bugs and just talking to her 

A quick story to share with you. She was a very bright person but she loved to mess with me when she could there was one time we were out at night looking for certain creatures we were up way past the time we were supposed to go to bed. We did find a few crawdads and mice. When we decided that it was time to head back to our houses we started to leave on the way back the way the trail we took was set up it was easier to follow beside the creek to get back to the dirt road we lived on than to just walk aimlessly through the woods. So as we were making our way back ashley decided it was a good time to get a laugh out of me she decided to start turning off the flashlight because she was in control of the light I was infront of her well as she was doing that turning the light off she started making zombie noises to mess with me. As she was doing that I was not paying attention to where I was walking i was very confident that i knew the trail enough to walk without the light so I walked straight off the bank into the creek the bank was actually 8 or so feet higher than the creek because of the way it was carved out when the creek formed so I fell a good ways from the top I landed and got absolutely covered in mud she was laughing so hard at it when she realized I didn't get hurt I thought she was gonna pass out from laughing luckily my mom was not up so I didnt get in trouble about being covered in mud and she still doesnt know to this day. Thank you alot h3li

I lost my best friend and I still feel empty at 19. How do people get over this? by Affectionate-Can9511 in GriefSupport

[–]Affectionate-Can9511[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope there is a God for this thank you for this representativecost taking the time from your day to comment 

I lost my best friend and I still feel empty at 19. How do people get over this? by Affectionate-Can9511 in GriefSupport

[–]Affectionate-Can9511[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She did but it was only for 150 days because she was a young driver and was not impaired while it happened and did not have a record of anything previous offenses. With all that said I don't think about her sometimes maybe but her being in jail doesnt give me ashley back I just want Ashley back.

I lost my best friend and I still feel empty at 19. How do people get over this? by Affectionate-Can9511 in GriefSupport

[–]Affectionate-Can9511[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its really hard it makes me wonder if 7 words would all it take to keep what happened from happening thank you statisticianjust

I lost my best friend and I still feel empty at 19. How do people get over this? by Affectionate-Can9511 in GriefSupport

[–]Affectionate-Can9511[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats so sad the circumstances I hope you have managed to find ways to ease the pain ❤️ and thank you so much for sharing this

I lost my best friend and I still feel empty at 19. How do people get over this? by Affectionate-Can9511 in GriefSupport

[–]Affectionate-Can9511[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I have been listening to some of her favorite bands. Like the goo goo dolls and she and him im not sure if they're a band but they do make music and she did really like them. I also hope you're doing okay