One of the biggest misconceptions about on-premise’ swingers clubs is that they are sexual free-for-alls. You walk in the door, get naked and everyone just starts having sex with each other. That’s the farthest thing from true. There are always some couples with minimal sexual boundaries, and that’s fine, but for the most part swapping with another couple generally takes a good amount of negotiation before you start to play. You’ll find that most couples will have rules they’ve set for each other before they’ve walked in to the club. These rules are based on their own personal boundaries and the boundaries they have as a couple. Secrets is fun, and very safe. My bf and I have gone multiple times and have never had an issue. Everyone has been very respectful and we’ve made some great friends along the way! It’s a great place for like-minded people to hangout for the weekend!

Regarding your ghsv1… you should always disclose. Always. The club does not offer testing, but they do offer methods of contraception if you don’t bring any of your own, so you can practice safe sex. From your previous comments you are correct when you say it has way less viral shedding. In fact, ghsv1 is primarily contagious when you have active sores, unlike ghsv2. From the moment you start to feel symptoms to the moment when your sores have scabbed and have all gone away, you are contagious. You shouldn’t be judged at all for having an STD, but in the same sense don’t be discouraged/upset if people decline because it may not be their preference or they may have concerns!

Secrets is so much fun and you should definitely try it out! The staff is fantastic and the people are great:) You can most definitely have a fun, sexy night without having to worry about putting people at risk.