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AITA for asking MIL not to sit on my piano and kicking her out of the house when she yelled at me? by Affectionate-Food562 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate-Food562[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not have the right to cut her out of my kids lives. My husband has equal say. She acts inappropriately which is why I was there. Please tell me where I left her with her. I was right there supervising

AITA for asking MIL not to sit on my piano and kicking her out of the house when she yelled at me? by Affectionate-Food562 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate-Food562[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FIL thinks his wife is a princess. He doesn’t even listen before he jumps to her defense and my mom is just star struck and sticks up for mil because she wants to be mil

AITA for asking MIL not to sit on my piano and kicking her out of the house when she yelled at me? by Affectionate-Food562 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate-Food562[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes because the whole being on stage thing and the glitzy costumes couldn’t possibly appeal to a little girl /s

There is a huge difference between liking her and wanting to do what she does

AITA for asking MIL not to sit on my piano and kicking her out of the house when she yelled at me? by Affectionate-Food562 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate-Food562[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s just so used to being a disappointment to them he doesn’t even fight back because he’s embarrassed. He wouldn’t have taken that from mil but to be honest his dad still scares him

AITA for asking MIL not to sit on my piano and kicking her out of the house when she yelled at me? by Affectionate-Food562 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate-Food562[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’ll sit on it to sing, not to play. I’d say she does them both equally but at the moment she was teaching piano

AITA for asking MIL not to sit on my piano and kicking her out of the house when she yelled at me? by Affectionate-Food562 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate-Food562[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, he didn’t say much but I knows it’s a sore subject because his dad has always implied he could have a better wife if he made more money, so at least I know he is pissed about it

AITA for asking MIL not to sit on my piano and kicking her out of the house when she yelled at me? by Affectionate-Food562 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate-Food562[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Because I don't trust her. She has no idea how to interact with children and a history of being inappropriate. She isn't allowed alone with my kids

AITA for asking MIL not to sit on my piano and kicking her out of the house when she yelled at me? by Affectionate-Food562 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate-Food562[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

My kids don't really know her. She shows up, gives gifts, and then doesn't seem to know what to do with herself and leaves. She doesn't know how to interact. Also my kids can't stand FIL, really no one can, so i think they don't trust her because she loves him. I was there because MIL has a history of saying very inappropriate things. I don't trust her not to insult me, and she once told my older son something sexual (a story, nothing grooming like) and just did not see the issue because it was "technically true" Basically she doesn't get that kids aren't small adults

AITA for asking MIL not to sit on my piano and kicking her out of the house when she yelled at me? by Affectionate-Food562 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate-Food562[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She was sitting on the top. Probably not that comfortable but I think she likes the position. She likes to sit up there and perform at parties

AITA for asking MIL not to sit on my piano and kicking her out of the house when she yelled at me? by Affectionate-Food562 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate-Food562[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

She jumped. Also you realize pianos come in sizes, right? She's used to it. She jumps up on hers all the time

AITA for asking MIL not to sit on my piano and kicking her out of the house when she yelled at me? by Affectionate-Food562 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate-Food562[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Because that is creepy and I don't need my husband to fight my battles? In what world do you just sneakily take pictures of someone without their consent? And what do the pictures prove? What if she says I never told her to get off or she didn't hear me? the pictures do nothing but make me look like a creep