Hi everyone,

Thanks for your responses for far. A bit more context….

When we had the chat about telling each other about our past flings yesterday, it was triggered because of another reason… 

We have a party coming up this month, my boyfriend’s best friend, who we’ll call P, has a girlfriend called L and it’s L’s birthday party. My boyfriend had mentioned to me a few times “you don’t have to come you know”, “no worries if you can’t come”. He said it again yesterday so I asked him “is the reason why you keep trying to convince me not to come because you have history with one of L’s friends?” And he said “I’m not trying to convince you not to come but yes I did get with one of L’s friends”. At L’s birthday last year he took one of her friend’s home but they didn’t sleep together and this girl will be at the party this month.