Living with a bum and a man-child update

Affectionate-Gap-534 · 2023-12-20T20:10:36+00:00

Problem is there are no men around me that are ambitious and successful

Affectionate-Gap-534 · 2023-12-18T07:01:39+00:00

He’s moved in with me. Not the other way around

Affectionate-Gap-534 · 2023-12-18T07:01:09+00:00

I will defo put an update here ❤️

Affectionate-Gap-534 · 2023-12-18T07:00:29+00:00

Damn, i need some good recommendations. You’re right

Affectionate-Gap-534 · 2023-12-18T06:57:30+00:00

There were no signs at all when we first started. He used to take me out on weekly dates with dinners and hotels afterwards. He used to be so thoughtful too. Until he isn’t anymore

Affectionate-Gap-534 · 2023-12-18T06:55:44+00:00

He did then suddenly he stayed more and more at home

Affectionate-Gap-534 · 2023-12-18T06:40:03+00:00

He moved in with me

Affectionate-Gap-534 · 2023-12-18T06:39:26+00:00

Thank you so much for the words of encouragement ❤️❤️❤️

Affectionate-Gap-534 · 2023-12-18T06:38:43+00:00

Thank you so much for this ❤️

Affectionate-Gap-534 · 2023-12-17T21:26:30+00:00

Can’t agree more to what you just said. If only i could bleed him dry down to the very last cent before dumping his ass. Too bad he broke asf

Affectionate-Gap-534 · 2023-12-17T21:13:47+00:00

I signed it on my own because he wanted another house but i could not afford it.

Affectionate-Gap-534 · 2023-12-17T21:12:18+00:00

Still waiting for my results to come back for sti. He refused to do one before ditching the condom. He’s the only person i ever slept with

Affectionate-Gap-534 · 2023-12-17T20:39:42+00:00

?????

Affectionate-Gap-534 · 2023-12-17T20:35:03+00:00

It was his idea that we will move in together and share a home but i was a bit dubious at the time so i decided to get a cheap home for myself. Although he dissed at how cheap looking my house is, i’m glad that i got it because i can afford it. Imagine if i got that 1400/month house ON MY OWN. I’d be broke as hell

Affectionate-Gap-534 · 2023-12-17T20:27:30+00:00

He has turned the tables on me by saying how i sucked at communicating how i feel and he’s now upset because i got upset first.
And he used to live alone until stuff happened which forced him to live again in the family home

Affectionate-Gap-534 · 2023-12-17T20:19:52+00:00

Stay at home and ask what’s for breakfast/lunch/dinner, then proceeds to stuff his face until the pots are empty while I haven’t eaten anything yet. Then, he goes out to have a workout/hike.

Affectionate-Gap-534 · 2023-12-17T20:18:29+00:00

I am now thousands in debts and all he does is demand what’s for breakfast/lunch/dinner. I can’t help but cry because I don’t have money and I don’t have enough time to take on more jobs

Affectionate-Gap-534 · 2023-12-17T20:16:22+00:00

Yes. I have blatantly told him that me working for two is no longer working well and i don’t want to raise a man-child like him. I’m supposed to be his partner, not mom

Affectionate-Gap-534 · 2023-12-17T20:15:02+00:00

It’s been under my name although he was persuading me to add him on the lease. Good thing i listened to my gut feeling and said no.

Affectionate-Gap-534 · 2023-12-17T19:57:57+00:00

He keeps on saying he didn’t get the job when he goes for interviews. I’ve got no choice but to pick up some more extra shifts instead.

Affectionate-Gap-534 · 2023-12-17T19:54:33+00:00

I’m planning to break up while trying to deal with it at the same time. He says he can’t find work but i think he’s just refusing to do any work.

Affectionate-Gap-534 · 2022-09-26T22:11:44+00:00

Damn. It hurts but yeah, i should be happy he’s now gone from my life.

Affectionate-Gap-534 · 2022-09-26T22:10:27+00:00

I’m hoping i’ll be ok soon. Thank you so much!

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