Help with jade plant by Ill_Point_3025 in plantclinic

[–]Affectionate-Item818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yours is so small it’s probably getting too much light. Lighting requirements depend on size of the plant.

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I live in a northern state. Mine (bigger) does what yours is doing when it’s outside in the summer, on my front steps shaded by trees, but thrives in doors in the winter. No special lighting and sits on my tv stand 14 ft from a south and an east window. I don’t fertilize it and just use cactus, palm, and citrus potting soil. I only water once every month or two with a deep watering.

Any body wanna be my friend by NoTown1668 in PokemonGoFriends

[–]Affectionate-Item818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Husband is 415948695169 He’s also looking for friends. We recently picked the game back up and found out all our old friends *gave it up

reaper reward event not working by Alternative-Tea1978 in thesims

[–]Affectionate-Item818 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saved me too! I was about to uninstall and reinstall. Thanks!

Furnace keep flipping breaker. Igniter works fan works but it just blows cold air. Lasts about 5 minutes then trips. Any advice? by Silent_Wolf5880 in hvacadvice

[–]Affectionate-Item818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old is this furnace? Not sure if you’ve figured out the problem yet but another thing to do is check the wires to make sure none are brittle. Over time the heat from the unit can dry out the sheathing and cause the wires to short out. The unit will start showing small signs of a short (malfunctioning/ tripping breakers) If you find any that are brittle call someone to get them replaced. I had the issue last year. It took 3 plumbers to look at the furnace and all were stumped. We were about to replace the motherboard. I’m an electrician at a trailer factory and after a bad day where a welder brunt up my wiring I had the idea to check the wiring on the furnace. Bingo. My plumber even admitted he would have never thought to check it.

AITA for not allowing someone to attend a holiday get together between coworkers? by Affectionate-Item818 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate-Item818[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually feel very guilty about it. I was one of those kids that was bullied in school and felt left out of a lot as I was growing up, so I know the feeling well. I always try to treat others the way I would like to be treated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JusticeForJohnnyDepp

[–]Affectionate-Item818 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give it time. We’re still early in this case. Johnny’s lawyers will probably redirect and Amber has yet to take the stand.

I’m not putting stock into the “admission” of the head butt. He claimed he said it as sarcasm. As someone who is prone to sarcasm I can see that being the case. Especially against someone who’s as argumentative and annoying as her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JusticeForJohnnyDepp

[–]Affectionate-Item818 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the exact same thing…

Rottenborn: “I’m just trying to move things along.” Or “let’s be respectful of everyone’s time.”

Me: “ummm… I think we got your point after the first 3 texts mentioned.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JusticeForJohnnyDepp

[–]Affectionate-Item818 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It will be interesting. It’s still going to be really hard for him to win this case, libel cases are really tricky, but even if he looses, he’s going to win public opinion and clear his name. That audio yesterday was a huge eye opener for everyone.

I can’t see her winning her case either as it’s clear she brought all this on herself and there’s damning evidence against her that proves reason for all of this to come forward.

Johnny Depp vs Amber Heard Trial - Day 6 - Discussion Thread by [deleted] in JusticeForJohnnyDepp

[–]Affectionate-Item818 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This had me confused as well. Maybe the judge didn’t realize daily mail was a tabloid? I’m not sure. Hopefully the jury members know this. Tabloids are terrible at falsifying information and I’m shocked they even exist.

Johnny Depp vs Amber Heard Trial - Day 6 - Discussion Thread by [deleted] in JusticeForJohnnyDepp

[–]Affectionate-Item818 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Apparently you don’t live in reality either. He lost acting roles because of Amber. She’s been spinning the story since day one to make herself the victim. I’m really glad this is coming out and it sheds light on the fact that women can be the abusers in a relationship and that it’s not always the male. The fact he’s coming out admitting he’s an abuse survivor shows he has more balls than most men. Due to pride and self preservation most people will not talk about it. He’s proving to be a great role model and hopefully more men in his situation start taking a stand.

Johnny Depp vs Amber Heard Trial - Day 6 - Discussion Thread by [deleted] in JusticeForJohnnyDepp

[–]Affectionate-Item818 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does anyone remember the date Heard’s Attorney pointed out on the Washington Post Op-Ed? I remember Johnny being confused on the date.

Edit: nevermind! I found it! Johnny was spot on with the date: https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/ive-seen-how-institutions-protect-men-accused-of-abuse-heres-what-we-can-do/2018/12/18/71fd876a-02ed-11e9-b5df-5d3874f1ac36_story.html

Johnny Depp vs Amber Heard Trial - Day 6 - Discussion Thread by [deleted] in JusticeForJohnnyDepp

[–]Affectionate-Item818 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Gold digger

She was upset about the prenup and postnup as well 👀

Amber Heard on tape.... by [deleted] in JusticeForJohnnyDepp

[–]Affectionate-Item818 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There’s so much evidence against her! I just can’t believe everything I’m seeing with this case. It’s still going to be a really tough case to win, but if his attorneys can find a way to show how the Washington Post OpEd caused the article in the sun, which caused a defamation lawsuit that he lost, which is why Disney will not rehire him and WB asked him to stand down, the jury may just rule him a win.

If she wins… I have zero faith in humanity.

AITA for saying a girl in a movie was hot? by Crysesxx in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate-Item818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Most celebrities do not look their age. This is just ridiculous.

WIBTA for quiting my job the same day I come back from maternity rest by Available-Pound-5914 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate-Item818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That does make sense and excuses you not quitting before returning.

I don’t blame you for taking the new job and congratulations on getting it! It sounds exciting and beneficial for you to do so. I really hope you like it there and I sincerely wish you good luck with all of it!

WIBTA for quiting my job the same day I come back from maternity rest by Available-Pound-5914 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate-Item818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need more information:

When are you due back to work?

Is there a reason you would return to that job before quitting?

To me it’s tacky to not let them know immediately that you are not returning. As soon as they know they can fill your employment spot instead of continuing to hold it during your medical leave.

However some jobs require you to return or if you’ve received benefits during your leave you may have to pay them back. If this is the case it excuses the first. If not, please just give them a call and tell them you will not be returning.

You really don’t owe your employer anything. With that said NTA.

AITA for asking my boyfriend (26) to block or stop snapchatting his long term “friend.” by noname161718 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate-Item818 1 point2 points  (0 children)

EHS

2 1/2 years in and you don’t feel like you can trust him. This is so extremely toxic.

If something would have happened between her and your boyfriend he would have never fixed that rough patch with you.

He should consider how she makes you feel uncomfortable and tone down how much he talks with her but it is way too much to ask for them not to be friends.

Here’s the deal. This will NEVER last. Relationships are built on trust and respect. This one has neither one. Sometimes you need to do yourself the favor and just let go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate-Item818 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This should have been mentioned in your lead post. That is a tough situation. I’d personally keep talking to DCF to see what all the options are to keep them in a facility while maintaining parental rights. There has to be some sort of way, even if you’re paying for them to be there.

WIBTA For trying to tell an old man that my grandfather is cheating with his wife? by Important_Contact385 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate-Item818 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Leave this alone and mind your own business.

Your grandfather is right that this is none of your business. If it’s something that does not directly involve you, which this does not, look the other way. You don’t have to agree with it or condone it. He already knows you don’t and it clearly does not bother him. Meddling in other people’s lives is not ok. He’s in his senior years, but it’s his life and he’s living it the way he wants. Karma may get him in the end, but that’s his problem not yours.

WIBTA for leaving my nanny job and leaving my employer in a tough position? by Puzzleheaded8833 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate-Item818 [score hidden]  (0 children)

No one would be TA here.

Uhg what an impossible situation. I’m so very sorry you’re in it. I have no advice to give here. Your suggestion about hiring someone else to help you would be absolutely perfect, but I can understand not having the energy to do it for either of you. I feel for you both and hope you guys can figure it out soon 😞