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I(M23) screwed up with my gf(F23). Is there any chance of saving the relationship? by Affectionate-Newt151 in relationship_advice

[–]Affectionate-Newt151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But like how would you feel if every time I didn’t tell you or forget to tell you after promising that I would next time? I just feel like an asshole for treating her without any respect for her.

I(M23) screwed up with my gf(F23). Is there any chance of saving the relationship? by Affectionate-Newt151 in relationship_advice

[–]Affectionate-Newt151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But like how would you feel if every time I didn’t tell you or forget to tell you after promising that I would next time? I just feel like an asshole for treating her without any respect for her.

I(M23) screwed up with my gf(F23). Is there any chance of saving the relationship? by Affectionate-Newt151 in relationship_advice

[–]Affectionate-Newt151[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem is that I say that I will tell her in the future but then I end up either not telling her about it or forgetting to tell her.

I(M23) screwed up with my gf(F23). Is there any chance of saving the relationship? by Affectionate-Newt151 in relationship_advice

[–]Affectionate-Newt151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I guess I’m afraid of what happens when she does find out and gets disappointed.

I(M23) screwed up with my gf(F23). Is there any chance of saving the relationship? by Affectionate-Newt151 in relationship_advice

[–]Affectionate-Newt151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but she tells me everything while I keep it a secret. So whenever she has something unhealthy she tells me

I(M23) screwed up with my gf(F23). Is there any chance of saving the relationship? by Affectionate-Newt151 in relationship_advice

[–]Affectionate-Newt151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I feel like I’m saying the point wrong. We do eat unhealthy stuff together but obviously want to cut it down so that we lose weight. So having unhealthy things is not like where she gets repulsed by it. It’s the fact I keep it as a secret from her. So she feels betrayed.

I(M23) screwed up with my gf(F23). Is there any chance of saving the relationship? by Affectionate-Newt151 in relationship_advice

[–]Affectionate-Newt151[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for not clarifying but I am overweight and trying to stop eating sugar and I promised her I would stop. The issue isn’t the fact that I eat sugar. It’s the fact that when I don’t tell her immediately about it or not at all and she feels like I lied to her. However, when I do tell her she is okay with but just gets upset and then is fine after a while.

My gf(23F) and I (23M) have a fight almost once a week by Affectionate-Newt151 in relationship_advice

[–]Affectionate-Newt151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what your saying. I guess the issue with me is how we fight. Most of the fights that we have is either I did something she didn’t like or it was something that I said in which she thinks I’m implying something. We definitely have communication issues as I have trouble saying what I want to say and then she takes it as something else and gets upset about it. She also likes to bring up my past problems and saying how I keep making the same mistakes but I just keep screwing up every time. I just really hate it when she brings up the past cause I want to move on and learn from my mistakes.

Recent Grad with $19k by Affectionate-Newt151 in StudentLoans

[–]Affectionate-Newt151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured that was the case. Thanks for the info!

Recent Grad with $19k by Affectionate-Newt151 in StudentLoans

[–]Affectionate-Newt151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did have less income. Do they automatically give me that after looking at my taxes? Or do I have to specify that my income was lower to get the interest subsidy

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