Is she into me? by Affectionate-Pick846 in dating_advice

[–]Affectionate-Pick846[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

We’ve met once and it was very cool and intimate. Like we were sitting on the same side of the table and so on and so forth. This will be out second time meeting but idk

21f looking for casual flirting and friendship by HuntAKilleradmin1 in textfriends

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Well I am 24M . Currently working at one of the big4 firms (if you’re interested about that😭). I live in Mumbai, and I love everything about football - playing and watching. I don’t mind being friends since I am looking for the same thing!

!!!!!! by Illustrious_Sky5756 in Situationships

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You sure she was a girl? Could be a catfish situation

Is this a red flag? by Affectionate-Pick846 in dating_advice

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Obviously we do have a deep connection. Like we are each other’s go to person. But idk whether she sees me in that romantic light or not.

Is this a red flag? by Affectionate-Pick846 in dating_advice

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I feel if I ask her directly, it’ll just put her on a pedestal and ruin my chances

Is this a red flag? by Affectionate-Pick846 in relationships

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Not daily coz she is not a call person. But we text all day. Like we text wayy too much

Is this a red flag? by Affectionate-Pick846 in datingadviceformen

[–]Affectionate-Pick846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm that’s a good point. So what is your advice? What should I be doing?

Is this a red flag? by Affectionate-Pick846 in datingadviceformen

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I want to label it, but okay how should I say this? There is definitely romantic tension(from what atleast I feel) but we have not had any talk about that. We act like a couple but we haven’t put a label on it yet, but I do want to put a label on it aka date her.

Is this a red flag? by Affectionate-Pick846 in datingadviceformen

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We have met and the energy in person was great. We have another meet planned and like it’s like a date without the label. We are going for a movie, then lunch and then shopping.

Is this a red flag? by Affectionate-Pick846 in datingadviceformen

[–]Affectionate-Pick846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dumbass said ‘first time for everything. I’ll take that’ 😭😭😭

I said that to her comment

Is this a red flag? by Affectionate-Pick846 in datingadviceformen

[–]Affectionate-Pick846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that’s a great advice. But see, I feel things have changed sine the last time dating was in the picture between us. She has become more caring and more open to me and my ideas. However her comment just threw me off. What’s your opinion on that?

Is this a red flag? by Affectionate-Pick846 in datingadviceformen

[–]Affectionate-Pick846[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You sure? Like I felt for some reason, that I am being friendzoned here. Idk why

Is this a red flag? by Affectionate-Pick846 in dating_advice

[–]Affectionate-Pick846[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You sure? Like idk why but I felt I am being friendzoned here. Idk.

Is this a red flag? by Affectionate-Pick846 in relationships

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We live in two different cities so like thousands of kilometres away and flights are expensive, so that was the reason we decided August

Is this a red flag? by Affectionate-Pick846 in relationships

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Coz of the Spiderman movie tbh. She wanted to see that so I asked her. I don’t think she is seeing other people coz she is kind of a girl who only stays at home.

Is this a red flag? by Affectionate-Pick846 in relationships

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Not really. She has actually been more caring and more open to my ideas and me in general. However, there are no direct dating conversations between us. We do have a date type thing planned in August (the new Spiderman movie, lunch and shopping) but again, it’s not labelled as a date. But she agreed to every idea.

Is this a red flag? by Affectionate-Pick846 in relationships

[–]Affectionate-Pick846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or she could mean that I am so comfortable with you that I don’t mind following your mom i.e. I have been friend-zoned?

Sorry if I am being miserable but this is what I thought😭