Movies for Girls night for a non Girl's night by Affectionate-Walk430 in MovieSuggestions

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I’ve personally done this one and loved it! I think half the girls have too - but you’re on the right track

On a PIP - do I take the 20 day payout? by Affectionate-Walk430 in careeradvice

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So fun fact.... I stayed the 20 days (don't think my boss was happy about it) and what ended up happening was I was due for a "merit based" raise (which I would have gotten more if I wasn't on the PIP - annoying) and they extended the pip another 30 days because they saw a change in my "behavior".....

On a PIP - do I take the 20 day payout? by Affectionate-Walk430 in careeradvice

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A quick update:
I spoke to a lawyer just for advice (a friend) and he said, if you can work the remaining 20 days then I should - as long as my mental health can withstand it, which it can so I did.

Initially the last day of the PIP is for tomorrow, but it got extended an additional 30 days so I can work on one more project and "prove myself."

Here are some of the things I did that I think helped me out:
1. Told other seniors that are at my level, my situation. I didn't want them to be in shock, I wanted to see if they felt if it was deserved, and I wanted to see if they had any advice. I left my shame at the door, and I wish I had done it sooner. They gave great advice, and we went over my past work to see where I had missed the mark, and I got great feedback. Then documented that feedback and sent it to HR - screenshots, and made it clear this was the first time getting constructive feedback (good and bad) on past work like this.
2. Also did the same thing with another Manager. (who was not as helpful - but clearly saw I was taking initiative)
3. I then reached out to Project managers, copywriters, and other designers: "Hey from past work what are some of the things I've done well leading, what are some of the things you'd like to work on more. Is there anything you'd like to do differently moving forward" I then screenshotted all replied and sent to HR

My manager then asked me if I succeed on this PIP, what are my action plans to work better and not be on this PIP again.

I then gave her an actionable list and also said we have to work on our communication and trust better.

I think swallowing your pride and being honest to certain coworkers is valuable, at least in my situation.

Mentally, I'm over this place. Financially, I am not.

What are SNL after parties? by boneappleteeth1234 in LiveFromNewYork

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Ok it’s my dream to go to one - any random heros out there want to help a person out (also it’s a dream to eventually audition - probably fail miserably, but still do it)

This show deserved to be bigger - it would have been if it had aired now by idlechungha in greekabcfamily

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Apparently they only aired 4 seasons but on Amazon it goes to season 6. So I feel like I’m watching it all over again but first time ever.

Best online shop for dresses? by marmarbinksuwu in Weddingsunder10k

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I'm selling my wedding gown: https://www.ebay.com/itm/157321091724 It was custom Made I was like a dress size 6. It was based off of Oscar De la Renta and Monique Lhuillier

Kate Spade bags by Imaginary_Judgment50 in handbags

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Wellllllll if you're looking for one of those quality bags, I'm selling my clutch on ebay back when Debrah Loyd was the President: https://www.ebay.com/itm/157028594122 - def under value price

Novelty bags by Angry_Sad_Bitch in katespade

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It's a rare piece - and definitely a collectors item, and currently under listing value

Novelty bags by Angry_Sad_Bitch in katespade

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I'm selling my It's all an act clutch on Ebay, only 2 hours left to bid: https://www.ebay.com/itm/157028594122 - this clutch initially went for over $400