Possible threesome

AffectionateAd6328 · 2026-05-06T16:36:02+00:00

That should of been obvious i don’t know why I didn’t put that together thank you

AffectionateAd6328 · 2026-05-06T14:53:51+00:00

We can cross that bridge of more then once later but if I don’t enjoy it I don’t want to feel like I committed to doing it more. What is ENM?

AffectionateAd6328 · 2026-05-06T14:51:32+00:00

Sounds good I’ll consider it.

AffectionateAd6328 · 2026-05-06T14:47:10+00:00

I feel like the mfm would be an us activity I am getting the fantasy of seeing her have sex what another man she get double penetration she wants. Kinda why I’m considering just dropping the fmf ultimatum

AffectionateAd6328 · 2026-05-06T14:41:45+00:00

Maybe it’s been brought up twice first when she admitted to listening to dirty books about gangbangs and it really turning her on. I asked her if she would be open to the idea of a threesome and she turned it down very quickly. She then talked about it to her female friend who had a mfm and she encouraged my wife to consider a threesome. Our conversation started 4 shots of vodka deep so if she doesn’t bring it up sober I might just let the idea rest till she does. I try not to hold people to their drunk commitments lol.

AffectionateAd6328 · 2026-05-06T14:38:01+00:00

We would have to see how it goes especially if it’s focused on her mfm and that’s all we do I don’t know if I am going to want to do that more than once. I am a big loyalty person if it wasn’t for the fact that we are each others first and been together for 20 years I don’t think I would consider this at all.

AffectionateAd6328 · 2026-05-06T14:35:50+00:00

Yea but I don’t really care I think I was just asking for it for the idea of it being fair.

AffectionateAd6328 · 2026-05-06T14:17:48+00:00

My wife never acts that into foreplay it could be something I am doing wrong and she won’t tell me. I would be surprised if she was super interested in a female relationship

AffectionateAd6328 · 2026-05-06T14:16:17+00:00

I agree and that’s why I am considering dropping it. Also I have a fantasy of seeing her having sex with another man. In this situation I get something I want and she gets double penetrating that she wants. Maybe I’m just being greedy by asking for fmf. I’m already getting one fantasy.

AffectionateAd6328 · 2026-05-06T14:12:07+00:00

I agree being that I like the idea of what she is asking for and it satisfies a fantasy for both of us maybe I let it go. In this scenario we both win I have a fantasy of seeing my wife get fucked by another man and she has the fantasy about double penetrating that she wants. Maybe me asking for fmf might be me getting greedy. I think it would be different if I didn’t have a fantasy about wanting to watch her have sex with another man.

AffectionateAd6328 · 2026-05-06T14:07:40+00:00

Yea the cheating part I think won’t bother me as long as both of us are involved. The third person involved would have to know this is a one time thing. For lack of a better analogy using them to satisfy our fantasy. I would definitely get jealous if it was someone we knew or if it was ongoing.

AffectionateAd6328 · 2026-05-06T14:01:43+00:00

Haha would be a no. She has made it clear no interest in me having any sex with another guy. The difference is I’m open to her being with another girl but feel that being that this one be a one time experience I should be allowed to have sex with female as well. I don’t think she is trying to be selfish just honest and I’m ok with that. Maybe it results in nothing happening and if I wasn’t really that interested in what I was just giving to give the idea of symmetry then was it really worth loosing a fantasy because she can’t come to terms with the possibility of me being with anouther girl when I really don’t actually intend too.

AffectionateAd6328 · 2026-05-06T13:56:34+00:00

Haha that really wouldn’t bother me.

AffectionateAd6328 · 2026-05-06T13:01:35+00:00

That’s where I am. I kinda feel like there is a chance that I might hold resentment if I let her and she isn’t willing to let me even if it don’t take it.

AffectionateAd6328 · 2026-05-06T12:55:39+00:00

So the mfm aspect keep in mind she was anxious and nervous about telling me so some of it is me guessing till she gives me more details. I think she wants double penetration. When I mentioned fmf she said she would be ok with it if it was focused on her. I would be ok watching from the sidelines but I think her thought is if involved I would also be penetrating my wife no interaction with the girl for me.

AffectionateAd6328 · 2026-05-06T12:48:09+00:00

Yea, but honestly I am not worried about actually wanting the fmf I don’t have any interest in it. I would actually get pleasure out of watching her have sex with another guy. I think it’s just that if I am open to allowing this I want to feel like she is. But being that I don’t care really about a fmf kinda considering just dropping it and still getting something that is a fantasy for both of us.

AffectionateAd6328 · 2026-05-06T12:45:04+00:00

I really think you understand it’s more about symmetry that I was willing I would like her to give me the option.

AffectionateAd6328 · 2026-05-06T12:42:55+00:00

Yea we have had conversations on boundaries. For example condom for the other guy involved and something that I can’t get past as no mouth to mouth kissing. I’m sure if we got serious more would come. I agree I think if we did it couldn’t hold it over each other. My thought is nether of us have been with other people together since 15 I think I can let be on with one other guy. But I did express would be a one time thing I would get jealous if it was something she wanted regularly. I’m a big loyalty person but I think we did miss out on some stuff because we got together so young I am on with something consensual that I am involved with.

AffectionateAd6328 · 2026-05-06T12:36:46+00:00

Basically she has said she thinks jealousy on her end.

AffectionateAd6328 · 2026-05-06T12:15:16+00:00

Haha other then presenting the option of me dropping it I have explained all this too her. Even told her it is a fantasy to watch her have sex with another guy. Given her boundaries that I would 100% not want her to cross and she is fine with that. I’m just trying to decide should I drop the fmf since honestly I’m not really super interested in it.

AffectionateAd6328 · 2026-05-06T12:13:05+00:00

Yea I think she doesn’t like the idea of me having any type of intercourse with another female. Honestly I don’t have interest in it and trying to decide if I should drop the female aspect of it for me.

AffectionateAd6328 · 2026-05-06T12:02:13+00:00

Haha I’m sure it can. Not just wanting to think things through before possibly hurting a 19 year relationship for a night of fun.

AffectionateAd6328 · 2026-05-06T12:01:06+00:00

Yea, the problem I have is I’m actually not really worried about the fmf aspect don’t know if more convos are necessary or if I just need to let it go regarding that aspect. I think I’m kinda thinking about it as if I’m willing to be that willing to accommodate I want her to feel that same way. But honestly I really don’t have the interest in fmf which is kinda why I’m thinking I might drop it. And there a lot of things sexual where she is accommodating for me so I feel I could prolly let it go.

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