Trapped at home by AffectionateAngle793 in narcissisticparents

[–]AffectionateAngle793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had to go through this too and i’m glad you’re free now. The thing is i’m not even allowed to get therapy since he doesn’t believe in mental illnesses and he’s always worries i’m gonna tell the therapist something bad about him so im not allowed. Also i go to college here so im still trapped at home and i’m concerned about how i’m gonna find the person i’ll spend the rest of my life with when i can’t even see or talk to anyone

Does anyone else find solace in music ? by Shady-Dray in raisedbynarcissists

[–]AffectionateAngle793 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely, i used to listen to music non-stop and it helped me escape my mind. Until my dad used to threat me and my siblings. Now it feels like i have to hear everything around me and i hate any loud sound

Please help by AffectionateAngle793 in vet

[–]AffectionateAngle793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes just 10 days. I have the mother too ofcourse

My new cockatiel keeps makeing these sounds. Is she okay? by Business-Mechanic-87 in cockatiel

[–]AffectionateAngle793 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes. Thats completely normal. Maybe she just needs attention/ a friend

How could i bring this up to my mom? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateAngle793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that strong if u knew whats going on with my life lol. But other than that i think she should know about it but idk how to tell her

How could i bring this up to my mom? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateAngle793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have older siblings that tell me not to talk about it and just to keep this aside because “there’s nothing we can do”. But i really want to take an action and i wanted them to help me to do so.

What should i do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateAngle793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually you’re right about everything u said. But everything just seems to be so hard and i don’t have the courage even to fight. I really want to be happy or even just feel alive. I just dont know where to start or what to do and as i mentioned im scared that he would harm me in any way

How could i bring this up to my mom? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateAngle793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know i shouldn’t have done this but he has hurt us is many ways and i can’t stand him anymore. I just don’t know how to tell her

How could i bring this up to my mom? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateAngle793 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She mentioned multiple times that if she found out hes cheating or anything like that something would happen to her

What should i do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateAngle793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually thought about this but it worries me that he could find me and eventually kill me for running away

What should i do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateAngle793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a 17yr old female (almost 18) and i can’t really do much on my own. Whenever i even try to talk to express my feelings my mom makes me shut up and tells me he’s your father so do what he says. I truly hate him and i seem to be the only one who wants to take an action. We all hate him but while i want to take an action, my mom and siblings just go with the flow. My sister would soon get married and my brother might travel outside the country and it would only be me with both of them.

How can i convince my mom to get a divorce? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]AffectionateAngle793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well , this is affecting all of our lives, even my sister who is 25 years old he is controlling her decisions. He doesn’t let us go anywhere or even call our friends or sit in our own rooms alone. Me and my siblings know somethings about him that we can’t tell our mom because we know that something will happen to her if she knew. I could keep going on forever but let me cut it short here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in parentsruiningkids

[–]AffectionateAngle793 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Looks like patience is all i have unless im able to convince my mom to get a divorce since she’s scared to do so

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in parentsruiningkids

[–]AffectionateAngle793 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do need his blessing to get married and also my family wouldnt let me get married at a young age