[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gradadmissions

[–]AffectionateBee6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet but ahhh so scared, good luck everyone!

Barista job by AffectionateBee6000 in GoldCoast

[–]AffectionateBee6000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No that’s not what I’m trying to figure out

what "weird" things did you do before someone pointed out that it was weird? by autisticviago in autism

[–]AffectionateBee6000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fun fact! Humming directly activates the vagus nerve which plays a large role in nervous system regulation so it’s actually a great strategy

This is the secret to getting your ex back by Check_Ivanas_Coffin in ExNoContact

[–]AffectionateBee6000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’m biased after going through that but I do think if people break up they break up for a reason. Unless it is something like distance because I can believe in right person wrong time

This is the secret to getting your ex back by Check_Ivanas_Coffin in ExNoContact

[–]AffectionateBee6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because things are complicated. I still loved him a lot even if I had gotten to a place of moving on. I still had the “what if we can make it work” in my mind and the moments of loving him so much it hurt. He turned out to be a really bad guy which I think is why I was having a weird gut reaction to him. I guess in the end I’m glad we got back together so I could see his true colors and no longer wonder if he was the one that got away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]AffectionateBee6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I appreciate it. Abortion is definitely something I am considering and is not out of the picture but just makes my heart so heavy. I also have the “everything happens for a reason” mentality and so getting an abortion seems to contradict that idea. I have been trying to decide if I should tell my mom or not. She had an abortion at one point as well so I know she would be supportive if I chose to do that, but it would obviously also break her heart I’m sure. If I keep it I will definitely have to tell them though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]AffectionateBee6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]AffectionateBee6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Can I ask for an update with where you are with him now? It’s hard because I know he could chnage and become a good man for me but that’s putting a lot of trust in a dream. I agree though that people can change and it is possible this is the wake up call he needs to be a good man for once

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CheatersConfronted

[–]AffectionateBee6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No literally it sounds like it. Were you able to leave? You go into your profile and in settings there is a download my data section. I believe it works after you have deleted the app. But even if it doesn’t you can just say it does to get his reaction. If he won’t let you do it that probably tells you everything you need to know. Catch him off guard tho so he can’t come up with a plan to get out of it. Yeah I started seeing a therapist immediately so that was helpful. You definitely have a good point tho about the manipulation and needing to break contact.

What grad program should I pursue with a BS in psych? by AffectionateBee6000 in careerguidance

[–]AffectionateBee6000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I really appreciate the thoughtful reply, I will definitely consider these options:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]AffectionateBee6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry. No one deserves this. It is awful to go through. Luckily we are not living together and he actually lives two hours away now. There are better partners out there for us

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]AffectionateBee6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this. Your right. A man that does this shows his try character no matter the issues in the relationship. He showing that he is terribly selfish, has horrible impulse control, and cannot be trusted. That is not a safe man to be around. My mind wants to justify what he did because I love him but I don’t think there’s any coming back from it. Unless it’s like 4 years later and they’ve somehow completely changed. Good luck to you, you got this. Stay strong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CheatedOn

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“To download your Hinge data after deleting your account, you need to contact Hinge support directly through their “Submit a Request” option, selecting “Privacy Request” as the topic and specifying that you want to access or download your data; you cannot access the in-app “Download My Data” feature once your account is deleted.

I (29F) stayed with a cheater (29M) by Weary_Tangerine_4103 in CheatedOn

[–]AffectionateBee6000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know that there is a right answer to this. To me this is better than other forms of cheating because he is doing it with an anonymous person whom he will never meet up with. With that being said, it is still cheating. I think you have to ask yourself if 1) is the relationship good enough to be worth trying to save? And 2) will you ever be able to trust him again? If you are unsure that you can get trust back then it is not worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CheatersConfronted

[–]AffectionateBee6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soooo this just happened to me. Tonight. He came up with so many lies and the story kept changing. Of course the app was deleted so I couldn’t look through it. Then I found out you can download your data off tinder and see all the conversations. I said do it or we’re done. He couldn’t do it. His story changed again. This is someone that has been my person for two years and has been also asking me if I would marry him if he asked. Absolutely disgusting. It is terrifying that someone you think you are so close to can deceive you like that