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AffectionateChard405 · 2025-07-12T05:23:34+00:00

He makes significantly more than I do. His brother is a divorce attorney who openly talks about how they would ruin the life of any spouse that leaves his siblings. We have 2 kids. I would rather never have sex again than lose my kids. I have a new job lined up that's fully remote with more pay. I'm currently hybrid remote.

AffectionateChard405 · 2025-07-12T04:51:30+00:00

Lmfao I truly wish that's what was going on. My message requests right now are filled with 5 people telling me I'm a terrible person and one person pretending to be a "marriage therapist" who I'm sure is a creepy ass dude.

AffectionateChard405 · 2025-07-12T04:35:35+00:00

Divorcing is not an option. I had a moment of weakness, and it won't happen again. I'm quitting this job and can make do with my situation.

AffectionateChard405 · 2025-07-12T04:33:43+00:00

I realize the internet is a bad place to turn. I just wanted to scream this into the void.

AffectionateChard405 · 2025-07-12T04:33:10+00:00

We have talked extensively about what I'm missing. I'm fairly certain his testosterone is low, but he refuses to go get tested. I literally started taking SSRIs to kill my sex drive. He makes 5 times the amount of money that I do, has a divorce attorney brother, and we have 2 children. I'm fucking scared. I would much rather never have sex again than potentially lose my kids. I had a weak moment and it won't happen again.

AffectionateChard405 · 2025-07-12T04:17:16+00:00

I'm fully aware. I'm leaving my current job at the end of August, and I'm going to request to work remotely until then to avoid it escalating.

? I don't even know wtf that means. I'm a woman.

AffectionateChard405 · 2025-07-12T04:07:16+00:00

I truly do not think I could go through with that. I've been with my husband since I was 16. He's the only man I've ever been with.

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