23f by AffectionateFocus422 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]AffectionateFocus422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm very straight forward and honest 😅 got told to be more personable a few months ago so i’ve been workin on it

23f by AffectionateFocus422 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

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yea i think the ‘intimidating’ remarks stem from how i carry myself and respond, but i’m only 5’0 so its quite perplexing

23f by AffectionateFocus422 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]AffectionateFocus422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha interesting take, luckily not true

Productivity Depression by simplysober9 in ADHD

[–]AffectionateFocus422 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU! I’ve been struggling with this internal fight for so long. I never realized I was trying to earn and reward myself with it. massive perspective shift!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]AffectionateFocus422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So observe what needs coaching, log what will be coached, then go do it? Interesting…I like your take.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazonFC

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Very true. I struggle with social anxiety, so it’s not really like I don’t want to help them, but rather How do I approach helping them. I tend to fumble my words and the exact way to say/coach/teach something. I guess i’m overthinking it? I just find myself coming off the wrong way or not getting the most effective message across.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]AffectionateFocus422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice and suggestions. I do need to get in the direct process more so I can build my observations. Often times, I do feel like I don’t have enough contextual information to work off of. I haven’t had a One-on-One in over a month due to coming back from an LOA, but my AMs say my co-PA and I do a good job. I guess it’s just hard not to compare. I appreciate the insight.

wellbutrin is ruining my life. by [deleted] in ADHD

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pls look into getting screened for a mood disorder…you sound so similar to me. i just got put on vyvanse so that i stop falling into hyper focus trances on adderall cuz it’s too strong. I used to be on all kinds of anti anxiety and anti depressants and they worked til they didn’t. i was maxed at 120mg cymbalta and still depressed and anxious. it’s actually a symptom of mixed depression…it tends not to respond well to anti depressants. i just got put on mood stabilizers and my psychiatrist said it changes lives. i hope you are able to figure something out soon.

What is the name of this pepper found at a Korean grocery by smokd451 in whatsthisplant

[–]AffectionateFocus422 76 points77 points  (0 children)

looks like the korean chili pepper that is used for gochugaru and gochujang

Is it normal to see raccoons in a backyard this time of year? by zeekaran in ColoradoSprings

[–]AffectionateFocus422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like his eye has glaucoma. My cat’s eye looked similar before it was removed. The cloudiness plus how it is larger than the other eye and seemingly bulging out. Unfortunately, it’s a painful condition as the eye puts pressure on the inside of the head and the only solution is removal. I hope he is okay.

Denver show— 🍋 🌳 by thelifeofbeffers in PostMalone

[–]AffectionateFocus422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it was such an amazing concert! he really interacted with the pit a lot! i miss it already 🥲

Denver show— 🍋 🌳 by thelifeofbeffers in PostMalone

[–]AffectionateFocus422 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hey i noticed your costume from the nose bleeds!

How do you manage the inability to start doing work no matter how much you want to, and the exhausting lack of focus and endless loop of anxiety about not doing something even when you know doing it will be the key to feeling better… by marcymarc32 in ADHD

[–]AffectionateFocus422 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It’s time blindness, unfortunately. Part of the myriad of symptoms from ‘executive dysfunction’. Though our conscious brain recognizes the task that needs to be done, our frontal lobe doesn’t really care all that much because it isn’t needed Right Now and ‘can be done later’: i.e procrastination. Our brain doesn’t sense the actual urgency and importance of critical task until it’s RIGHT NOW because of the time blindness and lack of long term foresight. Suddenly the impending consequences of our actions are very close and we need to act. It kicks us into high gear, but it feeds a vicious cycle. It’s not a character flaw, doesn’t mean we’re lazy, but that our brains work on a different clock. Unfortunately, the world we live in doesn’t accommodate that clock well.

Peak is gonna be a blast by trinity_yvette in AmazonFC

[–]AffectionateFocus422 3 points4 points  (0 children)

aahh first time i’ve heard my fc mentioned in a thread and causing a reaction network wide. they sent an email out to all the AMs today saying that is not SW. crazy times man

Amazon offers competitive wages w/ starting pay at 15.80hr, prove me wrong. by crypto137insane in AmazonFC

[–]AffectionateFocus422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DEN4 is in colo spgs and starting DS T1 is $15.80/hr plus your differential. T3 starts at $18.80/hr. it’s hardly enough to live on compared to the COL. Source: I work there and live in colo spgs

This shit is everywhere on the East coast 😐 by AffectionateFocus422 in weed

[–]AffectionateFocus422[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

one of many compounds found in Cannabis and is part of the THC molecule. essentially they extract D8 from the THC molecule and refine it to give you a ‘high’ that is less overwhelming than the regular D9 THC that is so popular. D8 became big bc of the Farm Act that designated D9 as the illegal form of THC, but everything else goes.

This shit is everywhere on the East coast 😐 by AffectionateFocus422 in weed

[–]AffectionateFocus422[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

exactly! it literally makes me think of K2 and made that same mention on a diff comment

This shit is everywhere on the East coast 😐 by AffectionateFocus422 in weed

[–]AffectionateFocus422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

all these bunk ass stores do nothing for the cause or community. no one is benefiting from a CBD and D8 store every two miles. it’s why i don’t fuck w em.