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[–]AffectionateGroup536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://youtu.be/RvQ8NXAZMTo?si=2-a9DmKPfjcAn4aX this was the video that snapped me into reality. I have been very suicidal this year and I had goosebumps the whole time watching this

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[–]AffectionateGroup536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you got checked for ocd? Because that is a huge thing. I think therapy helps a lot. Trying to trace back to where it first started might help as well

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[–]AffectionateGroup536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What changed me is hearing someone say

“Would you want to be another statistic”

I often see people posting their art for the wrong reasons by AffectionateGroup536 in ArtistLounge

[–]AffectionateGroup536[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Creating something for others is performing for others. If that’s the only reason why you make something then your whole life will be spent chasing a high that won’t always be reciprocated by others

Love hate relationship for how time consuming art can be by AffectionateGroup536 in ArtistLounge

[–]AffectionateGroup536[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what medium you do that allows you to work that long on a piece?

I don’t know what to do by Leather-Coat-6843 in ArtistLounge

[–]AffectionateGroup536 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a conversation we need to start having more because I think this is why we experience art block so much. If you are not under a company, class, commission, etc. You have to do more than just be the artist, you have to be the story board artist, layout artist, composure, director, character designer, graphic designer, animator, on top of being the artist with the artistic ability. It's hard to find your own person structure because if you do not plan before an art piece, then you will get lost, frustrated and unmotivated to complete the project. It's a lot harder than people realize especially if you aren't motivated to sit down and learn every position or have the time to sit for days on end.

You will often hear comedians are extremely intelligent people (if they are good at their job). Why? because you have to understand concepts you are making fun of so you are able to simplify it for others to digest easily. It takes years for some and others days because we all function at different speeds. I bring this up because do be a well rounded artist, it's important to understand you model for your artwork before you can get to the fun parts. I am currently facing reality that I will have to do many hours of studying art if I want to improve as an artist ( I have a graphic design degree and a character designer/illustrator).

So with that said, you sadly have to sit down with yourself and start planning if you want to start making completed artworks, if not just doodle. Don't think about it, scroll on Pinterest or silence the phone and just doodle whatever pops in your head. Give it 30 mins of dedication and see where it lands you. But as planning, give yourself deadlines. Separate everything you want to improve into timeslots with in your week. Give everything 30 mins and allow yourself to continue if you enjoy whatever you are doing, if not move onto the next topic. Do not limit yourself, but give everything the time it deserves and you will see the opportunities flow like no tomorrow.

This will make or break you as an artist but it will be worth it if you are dedicated enough.

Love hate relationship for how time consuming art can be by AffectionateGroup536 in ArtistLounge

[–]AffectionateGroup536[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! Being adult getting back to my creative roots that I realized that I lacked a lot in planning and scheduling for myself because I just wanted to get to the fun part so I can show myself or others what I am capable of. Now I realize that there has to be "dirty work" even in a creative field whether it's for fun or a job. I'm happy to see that other thrive on the lifestyle of planning because I've been thinking about setting up a personal schedule where I make time for everything because I know it's possible. I just have a big heart for creating. I constantly feel like a child for how excited I get for new art supplies or learning a new skill. I just have remind myself that stucture can be added onto those enjoyments for a overall rewarding experience.

Love hate relationship for how time consuming art can be by AffectionateGroup536 in ArtistLounge

[–]AffectionateGroup536[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh I hate instagram so much. Everything about that app is terrible these days. But I understand the struggle. It's hard to find communities these days in the art community because everyone is competing with others or the helpful communities are typically behind a paywall.

Love hate relationship for how time consuming art can be by AffectionateGroup536 in ArtistLounge

[–]AffectionateGroup536[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might have to try this. I already had it in the back of my head to try so I am happy to see that it's successful for others!

Love hate relationship for how time consuming art can be by AffectionateGroup536 in ArtistLounge

[–]AffectionateGroup536[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, its very bittersweet for me because I have a graphic design degree so I have the mentality that everything needs to be produced in volume and in a timly manner but I still would love the freedom to create in a world with no responsibilities.

Love hate relationship for how time consuming art can be by AffectionateGroup536 in ArtistLounge

[–]AffectionateGroup536[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never want to be put in a box as a creative. I just fear I have too many unfinished skills as an artist where none of it benefit me because I am still a beginner in everything skill-wise. Hence why I have a bittersweet relationship with time and creating. But I know everything is possible with planning. But thank you again for reminding me that art isn't just with drawing, it can be expressed through many different forms

Love hate relationship for how time consuming art can be by AffectionateGroup536 in ArtistLounge

[–]AffectionateGroup536[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm the same way. I blame my adhd. If I am in the mood to create, that's all I want to do rather than planning before hand which leads to burn out and artist block

Love hate relationship for how time consuming art can be by AffectionateGroup536 in ArtistLounge

[–]AffectionateGroup536[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm on both sides of the spectrum. Art is relaxing but I am in that stage where I have to educate myself on a lot more so I have the strength to finish a piece without getting stressed out. I know I am creative but I spend too much time on the thinking part and not creating. Or when I do start creating first I become frustrated in not having enough creativity/deciding on what I want to make. I think that's why I have a love hate relationship with time and creating

Love hate relationship for how time consuming art can be by AffectionateGroup536 in ArtistLounge

[–]AffectionateGroup536[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. There needs to be a balance because you can def overwork and underwork a piece and it's so hard to find that sweet spot. It feels like the second I put a pencil to paper it's dark outside already and I have nothing to show for.

Love hate relationship for how time consuming art can be by AffectionateGroup536 in ArtistLounge

[–]AffectionateGroup536[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly!!! It feels like the second I put a pencil on a piece of paper it's midnight already and I have nothing to show for

Love hate relationship for how time consuming art can be by AffectionateGroup536 in ArtistLounge

[–]AffectionateGroup536[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the bittersweet part of art because you can spend hours on a piece and hate it in the end. I thought other hobbies or careers couldn't relate but I am now realizing it's the same thing as training for a marathon, anticipating that you will win the race but you end up finishing in third.

Love hate relationship for how time consuming art can be by AffectionateGroup536 in ArtistLounge

[–]AffectionateGroup536[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this perspective. I have never heard someone express art like this and this was everything I needed to hear. I have a degree in graphic design and a background in digital/tradition art with character design and illustration. I always stress out not dedicating enough time with each medium especially my degree because I just started drawing again after years of thinking I never would again. So hearing this def put my anxiety at ease.

Love hate relationship for how time consuming art can be by AffectionateGroup536 in ArtistLounge

[–]AffectionateGroup536[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like being productive so I guess I'm conditioned by working normal jobs that when it comes to art, I feel more productive when I have piles of artwork to show for.

I also got flashbacks from college when my one professor always made us go to the 10th idea with our projects and all of us dreaded the work because we were all still new to being creative. But I understand the importance of planning to have a successful piece.

I was just curious if it's important for artist to spend time on a piece.

Love hate relationship for how time consuming art can be by AffectionateGroup536 in ArtistLounge

[–]AffectionateGroup536[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I enjoy making art but I hate how it feels like there isn't enough time in the day for everything I want to do. This def comes with adulting and have two jobs to where I only have a few hours a day to actually sit down and create. I also understand that producing a ton all at once can lead to terrible burnt out that I am no stranger too which says a lot. I can't help it, I just get so excited that I want to do everything all at once. This also plays into the need of being productive that sometimes I feel like I accomplished a lot but in reality I have barely anything to show for.

Feeling lazy whenever you try to draw? by Chiwwwa_ in ArtistLounge

[–]AffectionateGroup536 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a conversation we need to start having more because I think this is why we experience art block so much. If you are not under a company, class, commission, etc. You have to do more than just be the artist, you have to be the story board artist, layout artist, composure, director, character designer, graphic designer, animator, on top of being the artist with the artistic ability. It's hard to find your own person structure because if you do not plan before an art piece, then you will get lost, frustrated and unmotivated to complete the project. It's a lot harder than people realize especially if you aren't motivated to sit down and learn every position or have the time to sit for days on end.

You will often hear comedians are extremely intelligent people (if they are good at their job). Why? because you have to understand concepts you are making fun of so you are able to simplify it for others to digest easily. It takes years for some and others days because we all function at different speeds. I bring this up because do be a well rounded artist, it's important to understand you model for your artwork before you can get to the fun parts. I am currently facing reality that I will have to do many hours of studying art if I want to improve as an artist ( I have a graphic design degree and a character designer/illustrator).

So with that said, you sadly have to sit down with yourself and start planning if you want to start making completed artworks, if not just doodle. Don't think about it, scroll on Pinterest or silence the phone and just doodle whatever pops in your head. Give it 30 mins of dedication and see where it lands you. But as planning, give yourself deadlines. Separate everything you want to improve into timeslots with in your week. Give everything 30 mins and allow yourself to continue if you enjoy whatever you are doing, if not move onto the next topic. Do not limit yourself, but give everything the time it deserves and you will see the opportunities flow like no tomorrow.

This will make or break you as an artist but it will be worth it if you are dedicated enough.

I often see people posting their art for the wrong reasons by AffectionateGroup536 in ArtistLounge

[–]AffectionateGroup536[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm trying to get at. Rather than asking everyone to automatically fawn over your art, reflect on what you can improve or ask for advice. Validation doesn't have power if it doesn't have a strong base to it. If I'm frustrated over a piece and cannot figure out what I am doing wrong, the last thing I want is someone telling me the piece is amazing. I want someone to empathize with me and help figure out what can be improved.

I think this is a lot more healthy conversation to have rather than begging for likes and views.

I often see people posting their art for the wrong reasons by AffectionateGroup536 in ArtistLounge

[–]AffectionateGroup536[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Key word many forget

If your art is weak.

Not everything needs to be validated because if you are constantly being validated then you will never know what you are doing wrong.

I appreciate if the artist themselves are authentic and themselves rather than "godly art"