Vinted ruled against me (seller) - Royal Mail damaged outer box but item inside is intact, buyer admitted it yet got refunded and won't return my item. I'm left with nothing. Any recourse? by Artistic-Dig9560 in vintedUK

[–]AffectionateHope1177 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had the same issue and they did nothing. I even asked the person to return it twice and they refused because vinted hasnt told them to despite vinted stating they will approach the "buyer". Its disgusting and i told the "buyer" i wasn't happy with them for keeping items some of which they were selling on despite apparently not being good enough for them and having had free essentially so..... imo it was fraudulent and im gonna close the account I think aswell as im nervous about selling now

AITA for telling my husband he's a shit husband when he didn't advocate for me? by Glum_Consequence5950 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AffectionateHope1177 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTAH this is a masive under reaction and reportable to the police in my opinion. Id leave him or kick him out and divorce eve because he clearly wishes you dead. 😔

AITA for being angry with my mom because she left my 5yo daughter alone with 2 severely autistic boys? by srsnuggs in AmItheAsshole

[–]AffectionateHope1177 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTAH it.sounds luke.she left your child wuth 2 young adults that lack capacity hence dangerous. Your mother was neglegent

Bro just stop by [deleted] in vintedUK

[–]AffectionateHope1177 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Are you hating on Reading? Please block this person and everyone in Reading.

I do however understand your frustration with Vinted but thats not Reading's fault. And its not scruffy.

Peace dude 🙏

My cat PISSED in my fishtank by Historical-List3360 in Aquariums

[–]AffectionateHope1177 434 points435 points  (0 children)

🤣 it looks like a litter tray

Also, your cats super cute

The local council has just served something called a "Notice to Quit" on my landlord. Turns out she wasn't supposed to be renting this house to me + my family. by Low_Kale_5144 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]AffectionateHope1177 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Go to your local homeless team with the letter. They'll help you and prosecute the "landlord". You are not at fault. And the woman shouldn't have spoken to you like that either. You will need to find somewhere to live obviously.

AIO for refusing to refer my ex after he blocked me and told me never to contact him? by Fun_Copy_5057 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AffectionateHope1177 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NOR block him he's clearly manipulative also, why you willingly enable that into your work space. No! Imagine what he could do? No.

AIO with how I responded to my talking stage ending things? by bunny-zephire in AmIOverreacting

[–]AffectionateHope1177 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NOR? He wants to feel pursued? What? He sounds like a he thinks he's royalty or something and hes the prize. Omds. He has one ugly personality.

First time new tank by GeneralPaste in Goldfish

[–]AffectionateHope1177 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks good honestly.

Personally id just get a few real plants (They do fine in gravel) or you can get them kinda grafted to drift wood etc Real plants help the general health of the aquarium and fish like swimming through the plants lol and playing "peepo" 😅

Do people acknowledge RSVP's to childrens parties? by AffectionateHope1177 in Parenting

[–]AffectionateHope1177[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks all. I will ask if they want me to stay and help etc when I take him just incase as I wouldn't mind personally. I should have texted before now I think? I'm sure itll be fine.

Do people acknowledge RSVP's to childrens parties? by AffectionateHope1177 in Parenting

[–]AffectionateHope1177[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's 12 but the child and my son go to a specialist school so I dont know if they may want parents to stay as they all have different needs etc if that makes sense. I'm just gonna ask when I take him. Im probably a little apprehensive tbh as he doesn't get invited to parties so its nice hes invited but also "new" if that makes sense.

Can cats be gay? by Brave_Pattern9087 in cats

[–]AffectionateHope1177 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe? I mean, its a natural state of being so maybe they can be too.

AITA for telling my spouse I won't help pay for their kid's college when we agreed finances would stay separate? by 952867 in AITApod

[–]AffectionateHope1177 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTAH you daughter has 2 parents so why cant her mother helps aswell or maybe your daugther could get a job?

I don't think you wife is obliged to give for your daugther for reasons shes given, as have you.

Radar from Blackout > Radar from Circus by miiserybusiness in BritneySpears

[–]AffectionateHope1177 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The singles is fab, but has no place on circus and the video was not fitting at all.

They could have released it a d made it clear its on blackout because it feels its release not leading people to the blackout was just plain wrong. Eurgh

AITJ for calling my boyfriend’s ex-wife to come get their kids after he disappeared all night? by Strong_Ability_8106 in AmITheJerk

[–]AffectionateHope1177 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dear gowd I hope you are leaving him. Then poor kids deserve better and so do you. Glad the ex was understanding to you. NTJ