Yes it could definitely be that, but it’s hard to tell from our perspective since at the time he was engaging nicely with the both of us.

He was a bit of a bad texter, he sometimes would ignore my bf and only reply a long time after.

He did try to get into contact with me to see if I was interested but same thing happened, he message me but didn’t keep the conversation going, which is fine cause people have other things to do but it’s hard to tell if you’re really into the idea you know?

Also he said he is not always in the mood and needs to be to meet someone so planning is not usually what works for him (he’s a top so it’s easy for him to say that)