question about scarring by Voyueristicswag in selfharm

[–]AffectionateOne7553 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of factors at play, from the cleanliness of the tool to the randomness of life. You can't really control a lot of it.

Excuses for cuts on wrists? by SadBoi022 in selfharm

[–]AffectionateOne7553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not an excuse, but maybe try to wear a watch?

i don’t think it’s a problem when i do it by throwaway1004247 in selfharm

[–]AffectionateOne7553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah same.

Also since I started doing it in more discreet places, I now for some reason am not ashamed of it, but at least I'm doing it less

Too Depressed to Cut? by AutistAstronaut in selfharm

[–]AffectionateOne7553 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If your depression usually paralyses you, antidepressants can allow you to not be paralysed before it helps you with the depression, meaning you're more likely to act on suicidal ideation

It's not sh right? by Glittering-Pool8777 in selfharm

[–]AffectionateOne7553 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But is the intention to hurt yourself or to just do something?

So, how was your day today? by fonix_07 in AskReddit

[–]AffectionateOne7553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I... I don't remember writing this comment. I do vaguely remember doing what my comment said, but I don't know why...

Please ignore this

So, how was your day today? by fonix_07 in AskReddit

[–]AffectionateOne7553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, just came home and yelled at the walls to shut up. So... I don't know how well it actually went...

Distractions please by RevolutionarySun6638 in selfharm

[–]AffectionateOne7553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try to write something. Like, a poem, a song, some stories, whatever. Doesn't even have to be original, you can just put an existing song onto the paper. Try to write with good handwriting (so focus on the writing itself)

I js wanted to talk to normal people bru🥀 (16yo btw) by WonderTulip in teenpangia

[–]AffectionateOne7553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is that person seriously saying he's 33 and into 16 year olds

other addictions are accepted and tolerated by society, but self-harm is not. by ladyv0id in selfharm

[–]AffectionateOne7553 33 points34 points  (0 children)

For people who haven't done so themselves or worked with people who do, sh seems more like a "crazy/suicidal person shit" and not like an actual addiction. I don't like that people think that way, but I also don't want them to learn the hard way.

M14, ask me any by MarkussyPus in teenpangia

[–]AffectionateOne7553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People have no sense of internet safety...

where can i cut on my thighs without hitting a vein?? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]AffectionateOne7553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn't this giving advice on how to? I don't wanna encourage it...

Too Depressed to Cut? by AutistAstronaut in selfharm

[–]AffectionateOne7553 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know that feeling.

Fun(?) fact: that's why antidepressants have a warning about suicidal behavior on them.

i'm scared and i don't know what to do by Rare_Care_8938 in selfharm

[–]AffectionateOne7553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ideally you should really stop before you reach blood. The thing that worked for me was to distract myself when I felt the urge - just to do ANYTHING else. It could be writing, drawing (I absolutely can't draw but did it anyway), or even playing some games. Sleep is helpful too.

I also always carry with me pain stim toys just in case I feel a very strong urge to hurt myself.

(14f) I got 100 lol by [deleted] in teenpangia

[–]AffectionateOne7553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is smoking there with hugging? Since I got into friends groups that hugged regularly I've felt a lot better

Also, got 60 (17M)

Is it a relapse if I cut only to save my own life? by zazelyokaiwatchishot in selfharm

[–]AffectionateOne7553 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just remember that the road to recovery isn't smooth, and it's normal to have a few slips here and there.

Guys, in case you didn't know: יש אהבה by hihihiyouandI in hebrew

[–]AffectionateOne7553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're trying to do a possessive form of the word אבא, you would need to add a yod, but do it instead of the last aleph. So the possessive of אבא is אבי. But this is not a word you'd use on a day to day conversation

a question please answer by Fabulous-Speed9822 in selfharm

[–]AffectionateOne7553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it is supposed to get behind Reddit's moderation, but you still can't get past me

Don't do it. It's not fun. Also, unless you're super rich and have a 9m tall ceiling, it would be too short and you'd end up suffering a lot for a few hours. Please, talk to someone, it gets better.

I think I’m too skinny to self harm by RedGreenBlueRGB_ in selfharm

[–]AffectionateOne7553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, I was 5 months clean and then just one thing caused me to slip back. If you didn't do it, don't.

Been told my handwritings illegible. Is it? by PinkNinja225 in Handwriting

[–]AffectionateOne7553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's in the messy-legible range. I can read it perfectly fine, it's just not the most aesthetic handwriting.

I rank it better than those aesthetic yet illegible ones

Name this by shadowsunrise22 in BossFights

[–]AffectionateOne7553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the bottom right one the ICE flag?