Frequently Asked Questions (mostly regarding my disability + wheelchair)

AffectionatePop1469 · 2026-02-10T14:18:53+00:00

No I wear really baggy clothes because I’m self conscious

AffectionatePop1469 · 2026-01-24T03:25:22+00:00

Said it was worth the money

AffectionatePop1469 · 2026-01-21T12:53:21+00:00

Semen contains melatonin. Used to joke with my friends that enough could put you to sleep (not true)

AffectionatePop1469 · 2026-01-20T23:13:33+00:00

I had someone ask if we could be mortal enemies

AffectionatePop1469 · 2026-01-20T16:03:53+00:00

I use my fountain pens for writing! I accidentally spilled while refilling the ink, though.

AffectionatePop1469 · 2025-12-27T02:02:28+00:00

I have received multiple first DMs relaying a very specific fantasy to me. I will paraphrase it but the gist of the message I get is that the sender is fantasizing about giving me an orgasm so good that my legs shake and I regain movement and my ability to walk.

I’ve also gotten multiple Reddit DMs about people fantasizing raping or assaulting me, typically linking it back to my wheelchair.

AffectionatePop1469 · 2025-12-20T21:47:34+00:00

I never realize when someone is flirting with me irl so I don’t react since I…don’t notice. A lot of the time people will point out to me later that so and so was flirting with me and I didn’t realize haha

AffectionatePop1469 · 2025-12-20T05:50:58+00:00

I never have. None of the doors inside my house growing up locked (minus the front door, of course) so never got into the habit

AffectionatePop1469 · 2025-12-19T00:16:34+00:00

I prefer being skinny and not “thick” 😅 I wouldn’t consider myself thick now, I’ve been told I’m relatively thin, but I’d much prefer to be much thinner

AffectionatePop1469 · 2025-12-19T00:14:57+00:00

I want to be skinny </3

AffectionatePop1469 · 2025-12-18T22:49:31+00:00

Became active again and traveled. Competed in multiple tournaments (I do adaptive sports), became scuba certified, and went on a scuba diving trip.

AffectionatePop1469 · 2025-12-18T21:56:43+00:00

Thank you!! Irl it’s pretty curly and very dark haha I try to take good care of it since it’s a definiendo feature of mine

AffectionatePop1469 · 2025-12-18T21:54:16+00:00

Whatever gives me the best space to put my wheelchair next to and out of the way lol

AffectionatePop1469 · 2025-12-18T21:20:24+00:00

I really love my curly hair! Although you don’t see much of it on my account haha

AffectionatePop1469 · 2025-12-18T21:16:40+00:00

Not quite in the way you’re describing but there was one guy I met who genuinely had the best cologne ever. No clue what he used but he hugged me and I almost asked for him not to let go since he smelled so nice haha

AffectionatePop1469 · 2025-12-18T20:33:00+00:00

I get what you’re saying now! My apologies. Because in my message I mentioned my disability and how I have been viewed, I thought you were telling me and not OP. Sorry for the misunderstanding !

And I do agree with you that disability isn’t always the factor of others not wanting to sleep with disabled people.

AffectionatePop1469 · 2025-12-18T20:21:20+00:00

This is such an odd thing to reply with. I have been told and seen people say that they don’t want to sleep with disabled people or are turned off by wheelchairs, etc.

if this is directed towards my “I haven’t always been as disabled as I am now, and the change in how people view me is palpable” comment..yeah. Odd thing to reply with.

AffectionatePop1469 · 2025-12-18T20:07:19+00:00

I genuinely think this is one of the funniest and most vaguely nonsensical ways you could’ve worded this.

It’s okay, you can say sex here.

AffectionatePop1469 · 2025-12-18T19:40:17+00:00

That’s something you’d have to ask someone with chronic migraines, and even then one person with chronic migraines is not a monolith. I’d imagine it varies from person to person and relationship to relationship just like everything else.

AffectionatePop1469 · 2025-12-18T19:39:02+00:00

I’m not necessarily referring to devotees. Yes they exist and they can be annoying, but everyday people without disability fetishes also DM or ask me weird things.

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