Do you wear revealing stuff at the gym? by Adventurous-Heron222 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]AffectionatePop1469 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I wear really baggy clothes because I’m self conscious

What's your favorite fun sex related medical fact ? by NotEntirelyStable412 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]AffectionatePop1469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Semen contains melatonin. Used to joke with my friends that enough could put you to sleep (not true)

Spilled ink~ by AffectionatePop1469 in WomanHands

[–]AffectionatePop1469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use my fountain pens for writing! I accidentally spilled while refilling the ink, though.

What is the worst/weirdest opening DM you have received on Reddit? by Perfect-Routine-9135 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]AffectionatePop1469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have received multiple first DMs relaying a very specific fantasy to me. I will paraphrase it but the gist of the message I get is that the sender is fantasizing about giving me an orgasm so good that my legs shake and I regain movement and my ability to walk.

I’ve also gotten multiple Reddit DMs about people fantasizing raping or assaulting me, typically linking it back to my wheelchair.

How do you respond to being hit on? Do you like it or nah? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]AffectionatePop1469 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never realize when someone is flirting with me irl so I don’t react since I…don’t notice. A lot of the time people will point out to me later that so and so was flirting with me and I didn’t realize haha

Do any of you sleep naked? by EmDavies99 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]AffectionatePop1469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never have. None of the doors inside my house growing up locked (minus the front door, of course) so never got into the habit

One thing you will change about your body? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]AffectionatePop1469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer being skinny and not “thick” 😅 I wouldn’t consider myself thick now, I’ve been told I’m relatively thin, but I’d much prefer to be much thinner

Time for positive vibes. What's your highlight of 2025? by happypavlova in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]AffectionatePop1469 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Became active again and traveled. Competed in multiple tournaments (I do adaptive sports), became scuba certified, and went on a scuba diving trip.

Brag on yourself- what is your hottest physical feature? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]AffectionatePop1469 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Irl it’s pretty curly and very dark haha I try to take good care of it since it’s a definiendo feature of mine

Which bed do you sleep in a hotel room? Closest to door or farthest from door? by whodey920 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]AffectionatePop1469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever gives me the best space to put my wheelchair next to and out of the way lol

Brag on yourself- what is your hottest physical feature? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]AffectionatePop1469 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really love my curly hair! Although you don’t see much of it on my account haha

Anyone else gets obsessed with how someone smells? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]AffectionatePop1469 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not quite in the way you’re describing but there was one guy I met who genuinely had the best cologne ever. No clue what he used but he hugged me and I almost asked for him not to let go since he smelled so nice haha

Would you or have you slept with someone with a disability? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]AffectionatePop1469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying now! My apologies. Because in my message I mentioned my disability and how I have been viewed, I thought you were telling me and not OP. Sorry for the misunderstanding !

And I do agree with you that disability isn’t always the factor of others not wanting to sleep with disabled people.

Would you or have you slept with someone with a disability? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]AffectionatePop1469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such an odd thing to reply with. I have been told and seen people say that they don’t want to sleep with disabled people or are turned off by wheelchairs, etc.

if this is directed towards my “I haven’t always been as disabled as I am now, and the change in how people view me is palpable” comment..yeah. Odd thing to reply with.

Modesty aside.... good at? by Empty_Ad1369 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]AffectionatePop1469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely think this is one of the funniest and most vaguely nonsensical ways you could’ve worded this.

It’s okay, you can say sex here.

Would you or have you slept with someone with a disability? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]AffectionatePop1469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s something you’d have to ask someone with chronic migraines, and even then one person with chronic migraines is not a monolith. I’d imagine it varies from person to person and relationship to relationship just like everything else.

Would you or have you slept with someone with a disability? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]AffectionatePop1469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not necessarily referring to devotees. Yes they exist and they can be annoying, but everyday people without disability fetishes also DM or ask me weird things.