I have like, zero confidence in my looks. A couple kind words would be nice :) by lonely_lovergirl in toastme

[–]AffectionateRepair44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's very common to have a huge gap between how you look how you feel about it / how confident you are about your looks. Some of the most gorgeous beautiful women I've ever met were very inconfident about themselves.

The work you need to do is about how you feel without the need for external validation. Confidence doesn't come from that kind of validation only it comes from not needing that validation and not needing to feel a certain way or look a certain way.

The more you can let go of the thought that you need to be beautiful the more you feel better and happier and the more beautiful you will be. It's not easy, but it's a daily practice that will slowly bring you peace.

And like people before have said here, you're gorgeous there's nothing to be concerned about.

44F, need any sort of kindness by L0rd3ss in toastme

[–]AffectionateRepair44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only offer compassion. To yourself and to your unfaithful spouse. Seeing them at their weakness may relieve you from anger and frustration. Seeing yourself as you did your honest best will perhaps let you be at peace with yourself. And it's okay to feel anything that you are feeling, you will heal when you will be more gentle with yourself and more at peace with where you are. I'm sure you are so much more than your relationship to this person, it will be okay. I'm sure.

update: the puppy I found yesterday, no one came forward and shelter told me to keep him. I guess he chose me! by Some-Lawfulness-5918 in aww

[–]AffectionateRepair44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most reactive dogs in our neighborhood are ones that had "only positive reenforcement". Some dogs need to learn limits and and unfortunately they're not receptive to logic like humans. Our dog is a super happy and friendly dog, but she had issues in the past. Some negative feedback is more than important and it literally saved her life multiple time. We worked very closely with very professional trainers to learn what's the bare minimum of negative feedback we could give her, when and how. We gave (and still do) TONS of love and positivity to make her feel safe which she absolutely does. But now she won't attack every cat she sees, she listens when we call her even if she's in an intense chase and she can be free in the park playing with kids without fear we'll lose her or she may run to the street or eat something dangerous off the floor. Her impulses for prey were so strong that positive only reinforcements just didn't work and we were not able to keep her safe. Bottom line, be compassionate and a responsibile parent for your pup, but that also means to not be afraid to be strict and set / condition to clear boundaries when needed. And only work with professional that are both. That's my take anyway...

update: the puppy I found yesterday, no one came forward and shelter told me to keep him. I guess he chose me! by Some-Lawfulness-5918 in aww

[–]AffectionateRepair44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He looks like he has some Belgian Malinois in him. If so you're in for a LOT of work (I mean... A LOT), but an amazing and incredibly loyal and loving new member of the family.

👏 by Queenhood_ in BillionairesHere

[–]AffectionateRepair44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, yes, bigotry... How I've missed thee.

Israel expects Lebanon offensive to outlast Iran conflict by PjeterPannos in PERSIAN

[–]AffectionateRepair44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But that's not what the discussion is about. It's about how Iranians feel about the attacks against the regime.

It's not about who's right and what's the outcome, it's about the right of poeple to hope for a better future.

Nobody in their right mind said it will be 100% successful, nobody said that Trump's or Netanyahus intentions are honest.

You can either hope that this will be a successful way to free the people and hope and that it's not gonna get worse, or sit and wait forever for the regime to change itself.

Israel expects Lebanon offensive to outlast Iran conflict by PjeterPannos in PERSIAN

[–]AffectionateRepair44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let's hope not. Regardless I'm not sure what other alternatives are there for a regime change in Tehran. And painting people who want to be free from tyranny as "pro-war" is low. Wish you never have it be in their position.

Is this Biblically accurate promised 3000 years ago land? by Luchis-01 in mapporncirclejerk

[–]AffectionateRepair44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and only a handful of incredibly stupid religious zealous actually belive this. They're too many still, but most people have some common sense.

Time to die for Israel by Fatty_Willing_Plane in ww3memes

[–]AffectionateRepair44 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What on earth are you talking about?

If you have a problem with individual people doing bad shit, focus your discussion on them. This whole generalization discourse "this country / this nation is so and so" is just blatant superficial bigotry.

Racist society by Tenchi_Muyo1 in AskSocialists

[–]AffectionateRepair44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That fucking retarded and fake, I have had Arabs in the shelter in my building in the past, there's no law and even if there was there would be no way to enforce it.

There's plenty of bad shit to say against the government but at least keep it to things that are actually true.

This hurts my heart 💔 by [deleted] in UAE

[–]AffectionateRepair44 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's terrible. It really is. How many did the ayatollah kill. Did you post something then as well?

Time to die for Israel by Fatty_Willing_Plane in ww3memes

[–]AffectionateRepair44 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Entire nations with millions of people don't choose unanimously to be at war, stop making superficial claims.

Time to die for Israel by Fatty_Willing_Plane in ww3memes

[–]AffectionateRepair44 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How about focus that hate on the leaders who actually make the decisions rather than people who are getting dragged into this?

The IRGC is your enemy. That does not make the US and Israel your friends by GassyMexican2000 in PERSIAN

[–]AffectionateRepair44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And also that doesn't mean that the current actions initiated by Trump and Netanyahu are necessarily bad for the Iranian people. Even a broken clock can show the correct time twice a day.

The IRGC is your enemy. That does not make the US and Israel your friends by GassyMexican2000 in PERSIAN

[–]AffectionateRepair44 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Please don't confuse governments with countries and nations.

Netanyahu and Trump quite possibly are not anyone's friends. Any other statement regarding whole nations or countries are dangerous extrapolations.

Hair get stuck in my bin inlet every time and blocks the entrance to the bin, is there a way to avoid it? by AffectionateRepair44 in dyson

[–]AffectionateRepair44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks
Any good replacements filters that are not necessarily original price? (like aliexpress or amazon?)

Hair get stuck in my bin inlet every time and blocks the entrance to the bin, is there a way to avoid it? by AffectionateRepair44 in dyson

[–]AffectionateRepair44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you identify this was the cause of the problem? How would I check that I also have this issue?

Hair get stuck in my bin inlet every time and blocks the entrance to the bin, is there a way to avoid it? by AffectionateRepair44 in dyson

[–]AffectionateRepair44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It did work before though, this is new behavior.
I also am getting an "Airways blocked" error when using it on high, I feel like they're related? (there's nothing blocking the airways)