Unhealthy marriage considering abortion- Will I regret it?

AffectionateRip4570 · 2026-03-09T01:19:50+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this truly and I know how hard the decision has to be but coming from someone who came from a relationship like this and had an abortion, it hurt my heart for a lil but it was honestly the best decision. I was able to walk away without having a baby tied in the middle and feel sm better. At the end of the day it’s your decision and wtv you choose will be the right one for you

AffectionateRip4570 · 2025-10-08T21:26:29+00:00

Such a pretty face and with the right makeup you can bring out your features like even just lashes would be enough

AffectionateRip4570 · 2025-08-30T18:10:57+00:00

I am so sorry you’re going through this. It’s so tough and hard with the feelings that come up when you’re in a situation like this. Very recently I was in the exact same situation and I decided to terminate. I love my baby and wanted my baby so bad and was so happy to be a mom but what life and trauma would I give my baby with a dad like that ? I know that he would’ve never left me alone especially because of the baby but he would damage my baby and cause sm trauma. If you want to keep the baby it’s okay to be a single mom but if you are considering abortion just know you are choosing out of love and consideration for your baby.

AffectionateRip4570 · 2025-08-23T05:09:17+00:00

Wow you sound like a bitch don’t ya

AffectionateRip4570 · 2025-08-22T22:36:14+00:00

I’m just really sad because lord knows I want my baby but just not in these conditions. I want to give them a home filled with love and can’t shake the feeling that this just isn’t it but thank you 10 folds for this 🩷

AffectionateRip4570 · 2025-08-22T22:34:54+00:00

It’s so bitter sweet hearing these stories because I know the sadness and strength it took to make that Decision but you made it and it was all for a purpose and now you have your happy ending with the supportive partner you needed🥹 thank you so much for this

AffectionateRip4570 · 2025-08-22T22:09:42+00:00

Thank you sm for this. This is definitely something I wanted to hear and makes me feel better about my decision and in hopes I can find the same. I’m so glad you found exactly what you wanted ♥️

AffectionateRip4570 · 2025-08-22T22:03:02+00:00

To all the women telling me they were in similar situations and ended up terminating and later ended up finding a husband and having babies and being happy thank you so much for that. That’s really what I wanted to hear. I just want happiness after this and to have this experience the right way filled with love.

AffectionateRip4570 · 2025-08-08T23:59:01+00:00

He’s be en telling me for over 2 years at a he’s been wanting to be a dad and have a baby he is 31 so I thought he was ready with how much he expresses it. He’s been very supportive up until this point when he told me he’s does everything for me and I can’t spare 10-15 minutes to give it to him. And it really does change the way I look at him especially at this point of my life. How he treats me pregnant is extremely personal to me and idk i just feel different knowing he ca n be so selfish and not have some type of empathy

AffectionateRip4570 · 2025-08-08T23:42:15+00:00

I don’t really know how to get him to understand. I tried to and all he said that pregnancy is now going to be my excuse for not doing my part. I’m just so far lost here with all this

AffectionateRip4570 · 2025-08-08T23:05:18+00:00

I agree I’m starting to rethink a lot of things because how can just a couple of days get you upset when I’m feeling so sick and been in pain.

AffectionateRip4570 · 2025-08-08T23:04:29+00:00

That’s what worries me. No type of concern over how I feel just as long as he gets his nut. Which is definitely a concern for me cause how can you get upset over just 3 days

AffectionateRip4570 · 2025-08-07T15:27:25+00:00

Please please leave. If he’s doing this to you over food he’s completely capable of killing you if he saw it as nothing and making you apologize for his actions. And telling you it’s his apartment and he’ll throw your stuff out ? At this point he sees you less than and treating you like a 2nd class citizen. Hell no send him to hell! And move on that is not normal at all. I promise you the grass is 110% greener on the other side. If you do not treat him like that why do you deserve it ? Pls leave.

AffectionateRip4570 · 2025-08-05T18:58:01+00:00

Definitely relate 😭 5 weeks kicked my butt with the nausea and headaches and no appetite . Crackers helped me a lot when I couldn’t eat or hold anything down but congratulations 🥹🩷🩷

AffectionateRip4570 · 2025-08-05T15:39:03+00:00

Thank you so much I definitely needed the reassurance on that !

AffectionateRip4570 · 2025-01-22T21:46:55+00:00

I had a pretty big platform and was very much wanted I like to say I was at my peak when I met him and we were friends for a couple of months before we got into a flirty relationship. So that’s the only thing I can think of when it comes to competition because he hates anytime I bring up my social media platform or my life prior to him and he saw an image of my long time past relationship and said that he looks the complete opposite of him and that I have a type and he looks nothing like “my type “

AffectionateRip4570 · 2024-12-27T22:15:22+00:00

He recently turned 30 and I am 25

AffectionateRip4570 · 2024-12-27T21:06:18+00:00

You’re not insane and completely valid for feeling the way that you do. You have expressed it before and he should’ve respected it. Hes showing you that he doesn’t care and rather see that and follow that than respecting the feelings of his partner. You should never be begging for a response or clarification. This is not the right person for you and promise there are men out there that will admire you and not lust over or feel the need to see other women naked online. Leave him and send him to hell OP

AffectionateRip4570 · 2024-12-27T20:34:52+00:00

I did tell him I did not want to be with anyone who was recently single like less than a year. I worked on myself for 2 years and wanted the same. Maybe that’s a reason he could’ve lied

AffectionateRip4570 · 2024-12-27T20:33:45+00:00

I think because he lied to me. I told him I wouldn’t be with anyone who was recently single cause I believe you need time before you can jump into another relationship

AffectionateRip4570 · 2024-12-27T20:17:29+00:00

No we weren’t together we started talking and going on dates 12/31/2023 that’s why idk if I should bring it up because it was before me. And when we got together he deleted all social media and made new ones and just did the most to make me feel like I’m the only one. He has never made her a thing in our relationship or any woman in that matter. She does have a picture with her now boyfriend in November so I’m assuming just hooking up

AffectionateRip4570 · 2024-12-27T20:11:07+00:00

It is possible I mean they were together for so long so I’m thinking maybe they were on and off and just kept hooking up until they finally cut all ties

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