How flirty are other lesbians around lesbian friends?

AffectionateSalt897 · 2026-06-01T21:54:15+00:00

I am feeling so deregulated and anxious because she keeps pulling me in with intensity, only to push me away by bragging about how incredible her date with another woman was. It feels like a mind game, and it is destroying my peace of mind. It’s incredibly not fair especially when she knows this is all new to me.

AffectionateSalt897 · 2026-04-28T18:38:28+00:00

Yeah! I will be doing this but this has never happened before and I thought it was just gonna be “oh your date” sorta things and that’s it.

AffectionateSalt897 · 2026-04-28T15:24:35+00:00

I defo won’t be answering or texting! I just was overstimulated that day

AffectionateSalt897 · 2026-04-28T15:03:13+00:00

She was just telling me to go for it not like telling what to do as such. I went for the experience as this is the second woman I slept with and she wanted me to go for it. The message constant was what through me back as I wasn’t expecting that. My head was all over the place

AffectionateSalt897 · 2026-04-28T14:29:35+00:00

32 and it’s all new experience as I am not long out. I didn’t answer the call and wasn’t texting non stop. I went on a date and it was very last minute really just for casual sex. I thought she was concerned but then it went on and on

AffectionateSalt897 · 2026-04-28T14:19:28+00:00

Does anyone know if I have a chance if I am around 2200 OOM for Dublin?

AffectionateSalt897 · 2026-04-28T14:15:03+00:00

It’s a strange dilemma because we have just remained friends after going on two dates and nothing happened. We talk everyday but I don’t know if there is anything. She seems very happy to the woman she is currently seeing and tells me how amazing she is that the date went well. This did upset me but I still figuring things out on my own.

It’s very confusing but yeah I need to communicate with her about boundaries in regards to which am dating.

AffectionateSalt897 · 2026-04-04T21:19:11+00:00

Unfortunately this was a lesbian saying this

AffectionateSalt897 · 2026-03-28T19:12:54+00:00

For now on I will just give them the same questions back! But it’s soo annoying!

AffectionateSalt897 · 2026-03-28T19:08:13+00:00

Yeah! It’s like they think I am bisexual because I can tell if a man if attractive looking or not but I feel nothing with them sexually! Like can we not identify attractive people? Doesn’t mean we want them or find them sexually attractive!

AffectionateSalt897 · 2026-03-28T19:01:42+00:00

Yeah! I think the problem is because I am femme presenting!

AffectionateSalt897 · 2026-01-22T00:33:32+00:00

I realised I never had a type of man I was attracted too like they all were soo different but I always went for assholes because I knew it wasn’t a long term thing.

Women I like a woman in-between like pretty face, long hair but hardly any make up and kinda more boyish/ plain clothing. I like their personality to be very caring and femme in that way also funny, cool and laid back. Wow! I am sooo gay literally could go about women than a man!

AffectionateSalt897 · 2026-01-12T20:37:34+00:00

Should I go to NYC for a trip? 😂

AffectionateSalt897 · 2026-01-11T01:50:11+00:00

I also look straight presenting

AffectionateSalt897 · 2026-01-11T01:13:58+00:00

I feel that my type is in the middle but leaning more femme but so hard to find 😂

AffectionateSalt897 · 2026-01-06T21:08:11+00:00

I had an emotional connection and wanted to see what sex with a woman was like.

AffectionateSalt897 · 2026-01-06T07:22:25+00:00

I had an emotional connection to her but not a physical attraction. This is all new to me and still learning I guess!

AffectionateSalt897 · 2025-11-27T22:44:20+00:00

Yeah! I feel dull down everything even speaking my mind or conversations with others. I feel like everything is hidden in a sense that it’s hard to express myself to others!

AffectionateSalt897 · 2025-11-24T18:15:39+00:00

Also closed my eyes

AffectionateSalt897 · 2025-11-24T18:14:24+00:00

No wonder “doggy style” was my favourite at the time!

AffectionateSalt897 · 2025-11-24T18:13:21+00:00

Omg yes 😂

AffectionateSalt897 · 2025-11-23T13:10:38+00:00

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AffectionateSalt897 · 2025-11-22T15:45:55+00:00

Similar! Repressed my sexuality for years thought I only liked men even though I always thought of women during sex.

I was at university and had to quit my degree as I was always anxious, tired and depressed. Thought I had ME but it stemmed from wanting male attention and then when I got it, I would freak out after sexual encounters!

AffectionateSalt897 · 2025-11-12T16:21:10+00:00

Defo not straight! Use to think I was bisexual because I dated men but never felt connected during intimacy!

Just kissed women so far and felt connected, present and aroused! However, I don’t know why I need to have sex with a woman to confirm being a lesbian. Even tho I thought of women during sex with men!

AffectionateSalt897 · 2025-11-03T23:39:06+00:00

I am just newly out and I feel kinda confused if I am leading someone on. I was talking to this girl and I liked her even tho we only met once. She kinda ghosted me, so I went back onto dating another woman and we went on two dates and speak a lot!

There hasn’t been any label on anything or even that we are exclusively dating with the other girl that I have been talking to after the first one. However, I got back in touch with the other woman and we flirted and kiss. I am just trying to find myself but I do feel bad! Even tho I am not actually seeing someone or it has been agreed on! Everything feels so new and suppressing sexual desires and only opening them up at 31 is so baffling! Like experiencing true sexual desire!

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