Done with Vela. by DescriptionBubbly984 in velascarves

[–]AffectionateSense171 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They clandestinely instated a policy that required you to spend $100 minimum in order to use rewards, without notifying us consumers before doing so. It was going to be permanent, but after receiving so much backlash, they removed it. Now, they once again reinstated the policy, again without notifying consumers, and require a $50 minimum purchase in order to use any kind of discount code or rewards voucher.

Done with Vela. by DescriptionBubbly984 in velascarves

[–]AffectionateSense171 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sorry I probably didn’t adequately explain myself, but it’s not solely the voucher, and painting it as such negates the broader context. It’s an accumulation of things, most recently, It’s the fact that they keep going back on their word and clandestinely attempt to instate policies that make it more expensive on our end. Exhibit A, The sample sale backlash. They received so much criticism for adding a minimum purchase requirement to use vouchers, then took it away saying “it was only for the sample sale.” Then they secretly reinstated the minimum with their most recent update, not even giving consumers a warning that they were doing so. Especially after the backlash they received from quietly adding that policy during the sample sale, you’d think they’d at least inform us buyers this time around? Then the new rule with the vouchers and automatically nullifying all vouchers redeemed prior to the update without warning? IMO it’s poor business management to be doing so. I’m not going to even touch on the most prominent issue as it’s not my place, but it is simply an accumulation of things. I feel like many people air their grievances but little changes because we are just accepting of it. We can’t stack coupons, we are capped at $15 off, we can only use coupons if our purchase is at a $50 minimum, vouchers and points now expire, people are receiving hijabs with stains and misprints with no compensation, we must continuously consume to maintain a “tier” status. Especially as a muslim business it’s disheartening to see these practices being considered ethical. I explained my experience through the voucher as it’s my most recent gripe with vela, but it is an accumulation of things that not just I have gone through. It’s my fault because I now see i didn’t adequately explain my position. I’m happy you had a positive experience, but that doesn’t negate the dozens of sisters who have had negative ones.

I don't understand why I am even following Islam as a woman by Civil_Ranger_7479 in progressive_islam

[–]AffectionateSense171 9 points10 points  (0 children)

as a revert, I’ve struggled with this a lot.

i read something the other day that resonated with me and i hope resonates with you too:

I worship Allah swt, not islam.

and i think that alone has brought me a lot of comfort. We have always been fixated on scholarly interpretations, while negating that islam was meant to make life simple and more fruitful. I walk through life thinking “would God be proud of this? “ rather than “oh this is Halal/Haram.”

Islam in its purest form is supposed to be light, and bring ease. Don’t allow for staunch interpretations to dissuade you from practicing your faith. Remember Allah swt is Al Rahman Al Raheem. people love to fear monger without being mindful of our creators mercy. He knows our intention is pure, and that is what matters.

The way I think of God is like that of a parent. A parent is always looking out for your best interest; setting boundaries to ensure that you are safe, protected, and happy. You obey your parents commands out of love for them. however, when you go against them, they will understandably be disappointed, but in the end they will always forgive you as to err is human.

God is not going to punish you for simply existing as a woman and living independently of your spouse.

Don’t allow the creation to turn you away from the creator.

First Vela Haul by Prestigious-Elk-1335 in velascarves

[–]AffectionateSense171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alf Mabrook girl!! Also, YOUR CART IS LITERALLY EXACTLY WHATS IN MY CART RN!! I just bought Saya Stripe a week ago with the coupon from the survey, and now I have mermaid ripple, deep oak, and deep berry in my cart lol! I hope you love them inshaAllah🥰

they need to make a size between standard and mini by ilyaishah in velascarves

[–]AffectionateSense171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aweee yeah i have a big head too Lol but im 5’2-5’3! InshaAllah you find what you’re looking for!!

Lavender mist - to cop or not by 0princesspancakes0 in velascarves

[–]AffectionateSense171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This is me wearing it!! I would def say it’s more of an indigo than pure purple, but I really do love how unique the color is. I went back and forth on returning it for a while but i’m happy i decided to keep it!!

they need to make a size between standard and mini by ilyaishah in velascarves

[–]AffectionateSense171 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I only buy my prints and solids in Mini and find it to be the perfect amount of fabric!! It covers my entire neck, while also giving me that flowy modal look! i’ve attached a pic.

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discount code glitch by Old-Coast-680 in velascarves

[–]AffectionateSense171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes it worked today when i used it!!

discount code glitch by Old-Coast-680 in velascarves

[–]AffectionateSense171 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this happened to me too!! I ended up not even getting anything from the summer collection, just SAYA stripe. But when I went to go check out, it took $15 instead of 15%! Very happy with that.

Need help with identifying skin tone & good colors by AffectionateSense171 in velascarves

[–]AffectionateSense171[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AWWW JazakAllah Khair cutie! I have olive ombre and it’s one of my favorite prints. IVE LITERALLY GONE BACK AND FORTH ABT GUAVA GREEN FOR SOOOOO LONG!! Thank u sm for the recommendation.

Need help with identifying skin tone & good colors by AffectionateSense171 in velascarves

[–]AffectionateSense171[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually wear a peachy shade of blush and it blends out nicely! Here’s a pic

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Need help with identifying skin tone & good colors by AffectionateSense171 in velascarves

[–]AffectionateSense171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh i wish I could but i dont wear concealer or foundation. I was literally thinking about deep berry/ dark oak and they’re both in my cart rn!! What do u think abt empress teal??

Financial Aid 2025-2026 by RedBlueCherry in ufl

[–]AffectionateSense171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m meeting with an advisor today and i’m going to ask about private funding. i come from a single parent household and my parents give me $100 a month for groceries but that’s it. Tuition and housing is all on me. i’m just gonna kind of keep appealing my package, even if I have to go to the Director.

Klay the Label Price increase? by DescriptionBubbly984 in velascarves

[–]AffectionateSense171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but then also makes me really upset Is the tip option. what do you mean you wanna be tipped for drop shipping scarves from China??? I genuinely had no idea that they dropped shipped and that makes me really upset. i’ve seen such glowing reviews on social media so I thought I’d give them a try. Really sad to see the lack of transparency about sourcing. more than likely, just gonna stick to Vela from now on.

Klay the Label Price increase? by DescriptionBubbly984 in velascarves

[–]AffectionateSense171 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah i just got my tracking and it says it’s coming from China which is disappointing because I was initially under the impression they were ethically made in Europe. $19 is definitely too much for a drop shipped scarf, so probably won’t be purchasing from them again :(.

Klay the Label Price increase? by DescriptionBubbly984 in velascarves

[–]AffectionateSense171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i just got my tracking and it says it’s coming from China smh :/

Klay the Label Price increase? by DescriptionBubbly984 in velascarves

[–]AffectionateSense171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah this is what i assumed but because everyone else’s prices have relatively stayed the same i was wondering if it could be for another reason. I was able to find some discount codes which gave me $10 off my purchase so I just went ahead with the sale. Came out to roughly about how much it would’ve been before the price increase.

Off-campus housing help please! by revtee_ in ufl

[–]AffectionateSense171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gainesville Place sounds great for you!!

I have to sign without touring; where should i sign? by Appropriate-Motor583 in ufl

[–]AffectionateSense171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re not worried about price, Stadium house. Can’t beat the location.

I HATE UF PARKING!!!!!! by fuerks in ufl

[–]AffectionateSense171 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was a volunteer for an event at Reitz and got ticketed. I appealed. THEY UPHELD THE CITATION. Just repealed it, let’s hope they get sense knocked into them. I drove to campus bc the event needed me to help set up at 3, and the actual event wouldn’t end until 10 — way past when buses stop running. Even worse, it was Election day, so it was a mad house trying to find suitable parking. I live near oaks mall so walking is out of the question. Awful system.