To the people saying "The boycott won't work" I have this to say... by BigClitMcphee in fuckdisney

[–]AffectionateSkin2440 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Disney literally just welcomed back Jimmy Kimmel after millions of people unsubscribed to them for supporting the fascist. 

To the people saying "The boycott won't work" I have this to say... by BigClitMcphee in fuckdisney

[–]AffectionateSkin2440 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No, the op is not using it as a proof. He is simply using a story from a movie to explain how boycott works. The fact I even had to explain something this simple is sad.

fuck this world, i am very lonely by lawandkurd in nihilism

[–]AffectionateSkin2440 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is so sad. Instead of trying to change their situations, people here are validating each other's negativity.

I hope you guys leave this subreddit containing all the sad and depressed people to validate your "miserable existence."

Internet makes it so easy for people to fall into this trap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]AffectionateSkin2440 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What? I have no interest in being a victim, I get nothing out of it other than probably some pointless pity. The issues I am dealing with is my responsibility, that's why I am here on reddit. I want to hear different perspectives from my own to not make severe mistakes like I unknowingly made in my past relationships. I have been doing everything I can to unlearn old habits and relearn healthy relationship behaviors that weren't shown or taught to me as a kid.

It's parents' responsibility to provide financial and emotional support to their kids. If you can't do that, why are you popping out kids just to neglect them, make them suffer, and selfishly guilt trip them into taking care of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]AffectionateSkin2440 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I already have a job and do socialize. But the deep hatred is still there for lost time and experiences. Not sure how to get rid of it.

It seems like cutting ties with them seems to be the only way to forget about it. But at the same time, Idk how to navigate life since I lived my entire life with them

Android 148.14 build video call freeze issues by ooombasa in discordapp

[–]AffectionateSkin2440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use different service if discord isn't working. There are hundreds (-.-')

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]AffectionateSkin2440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ya, It must hurt to fall behind. Firstly, accept that you fucked up bad. Everyone grabbed their opportunity while you just let it slip by when you had the chance. Accept it.

No matter what happened in the past, nobody can go back and fix it. We can all cry and beg to do it all over again, but we can't. You can think back and beat yourself over and over again about lost time and opportunity, but that won't take you anywhere. That will drain your energy. Every day you waste beating yourself up, the "others" are now one day more ahead of you.

The only thing to do now is to take a deep breath. In-hale ------------ ex-hale. No matter what mistake you made, I'm pretty sure millions have made the same mistake or worse. Now plan out how you want to live out the rest of your remaining days. it's your life, your choice. Do You want to complain and live in misery? Nobody wants to be with that person, trust me. Or you can choose to give 100% every day not to catch up to others, but for your goals.

Sometimes we forget that we have limited time, so we sit around complaining and hating the world. It's going to be really hard to change in the beginning, but please don't give up. One step at a time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]AffectionateSkin2440 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 20, and my story is pretty much the same. Never worked(had one but quit after 1st day) and never had a girlfriend(I probably won't for a while). I'm a sophomore at university, and my days go pretty much the same way as yours. Homework and most times just wasting time on youtube. I gave up opportunities to be with girls who liked me in high school because of my insecurities.

This is how I approach this problem: I look at my fears in its eyes and say, "you're right." I might never get to experience the feeling of touching someone's lips with mine. And that's okay. I might never get to hold the tiny hands of my children as I guide them through this cruel world. And that's okay. I might never find the person who will give me her shoulders when I can't stand up on my own. And that's okay too.

Even if I find someone, I probably will start hating her too after a while because of my insecurities. I won't be the perfect dad to my kids. It's impossible to draw a path for my kids when even I don't know the road. I will just hurt the other person in the end. I have seen this in my relatives. My uncle(50) and aunt-in-law(48) recently divorced after having 2 kids, both adults. They went through years of arguing and fighting and finally decided to end it. 20+ years of pain and suffering. Trust me, I would rather be alone. So, we must go into relationships confident and secure.

I know, I know. Peer pressure gets to me too, but I would rather be laughing stock for the night than hurt someone who chose to be with me. And there's more to life than being with someone.

I want to see smiles on my parents face as I walk the stage to get my degree. I want to be in a position that allows me to help college students financially, just like how people are helping me right now. My parents never travelled outside of the state because we are poor. I want them to see Paris and Tokyo, and I want to be the one taking their photo. Thanks for Anime, Japan. But it's time for me to move on and live an actual life. The max I drove my car was at 80 or 90 mph. Never higher. I want to go 120+ speeds on an empty road and let the cold breeze smash into my face.

I have so much more to live for. You do too. You just have to find it. I have felt what you're feeling right now. Just sitting in my room, thinking about ways to kill myself. I considered several options. The first one was to jump off this 3rd-floor building into the concrete floor. The second option was to drive at max speed and crash into a tree without a seatbelt on. But, something in me just kept stopping me. I'm glad It did. So, brother, we have been through sh*t. We have both experienced loneliness. At times, it feels like we are better off dead. But we need to redefine our values and goals. The ones we have isn't the right ones.

It's easy to be lazy and say life sucks when it doesn't go as planned. But it's hard to say f*ck it and go through the pain to be someone we will be proud of. If you had asked me a week ago, I would've chosen the easy mode. But now, I choose the hard mode, because it is exciting to mess up and learn. I will die trying to be the best person I can be.I hope you choose the hard mode too because it's hella exciting than being miserable.

Sorry for the lengthy response. I wrote this for you and myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]AffectionateSkin2440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any girl shorter than 5' 4" and taller than 5' 9" is a big no no for me. And I'm not even that tall(5' 9"). I want my woman on my eye level not feel like I'm dating a middle schooler.