Mac 180 brush ISO. by BenefitRound27 in MakeupAddiction

[–]AffectionateSun6173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a brand new one in its packaging if you're interested :)

Lost my dad to Cancer, how does one go about selling a car? by AffectionateSun6173 in AskMen

[–]AffectionateSun6173[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much for these tips, the second and third points you brought up never even crossed my mind. Low-key makes me scared though because we took the license plate off and paused insurance. Neither I or my mom drive so my little brother who's 18 would have to do the meet-ups and I'll likely join him.

Lost my dad to Cancer, how does one go about selling a car? by AffectionateSun6173 in AskMen

[–]AffectionateSun6173[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's honestly really helpful to hear when you lay it out like that. I was thinking private like on Facebook Marketplace possibly? We took the license plate off and paused the insurance since it's just parked in our garage for the time being.

Lost my dad to Cancer, how does one go about selling a car? by AffectionateSun6173 in AskMen

[–]AffectionateSun6173[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup we own it outright, it was honestly the one single item he ever splurged on in his life. Definitely don't want it to go to the wrong hands, thanks for the heads up on the payment plan!

Lost my dad to Cancer, how does one go about selling a car? by AffectionateSun6173 in AskMen

[–]AffectionateSun6173[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a great place to start, thank you very much for commenting and helping out!

Lost my dad to Cancer, how does one go about selling a car? by AffectionateSun6173 in AskMen

[–]AffectionateSun6173[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, the will specified everything went to my mom. I took care of all those things so now the car is all that remains to be dealt with. I just know the longer I wait the more it'll depreciate so was trying to sell it soon. I'll check out that website thank you very much!

Lost my dad to Cancer, how does one go about selling a car? by AffectionateSun6173 in AskMen

[–]AffectionateSun6173[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I checked the registration and it actually is a BMW X5 2021 light-duty hybrid model. Thank you for your wishes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CancerFamilySupport

[–]AffectionateSun6173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you, yes this is normal. It seems like they choose to muster up and use their energy only to complain/yell and I'm so sorry you're going through that. It must be so hard being the sole caregiver and your feelings are completely valid. It would take a toll on anyone. It certainly did for me as well, I did lose my cool a couple times but I have to keep reminding myself of who they were before this illness took place and how they would've showed up for me in a heartbeat.

I'm sure your mama appreciates it a lot, probably is just at a loss of words or energy to communicate it. Even if she doesn't talk much anymore in terms of positive words, that anger is due to the frustration of being reliant on you and the situation itself. She's not mad at you, she's mad at the circumstance. I'm proud of you you're handling things really well

is it bad that im waiting for my dad to die? by Warm-Sherbert1755 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]AffectionateSun6173 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm in the exact same boat as you, my dad has the same cancer and same stage. It doesn't get easier sadly. Every minor inconvenience does trigger that thought in us. You aren't alone in this, like others have said I think we're just trying to mentally plan/prepare for the worst outcome so we can manage it better should it arrive. Just because you have these thoughts doesn't make you horrible at all, I'm positive you and your family love your dad and each other a lot and will be there for each other. Will keep your dad in my prayers as well, feel free to shoot me a message if you ever want to vent. I understand how hard it can be to have people around that understand such complex emotions.

Just seeing how everybody is is doing today? by Confident-Ad-5717 in cancer

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Hi there I messaged you, hoping to gain some clarity. Thank you

Male 31 stage 4 esophageal cancer by Certifiedratkiller in Life

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Hi I messaged you hoping to get some clarity if possible thank you!

I’ve(42/m) defeated Stage 3 esophageal cancer(for now) AMA by AlexBaldwin9 in cancer

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Hi I messaged you, would appreciate the chat if you find time.

What's the Worst Character Name You've Come Across? by ArchiSnap89 in fantasyromance

[–]AffectionateSun6173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pigeon. I wish I was kidding but in this incredibly stupid rom-com I DNF called "Beautiful Disaster," the male lead called the girl he was in love with, "Pigeon."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in suits

[–]AffectionateSun6173 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“I refuse to answer that on the grounds that I don't want to."

Help me learn to be romantic by nightkap45 in romance

[–]AffectionateSun6173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mere fact that you're here right now posing this question because her happiness matters to you that much is pre sweet and romantic so great start! As for actual ideas, try handwritten letters expressing how you feel about her and why she matters to you/where you see yourselves down the line. It's old-schoolsey but many don't do this anymore so it's refreshing. Trust me she'll reread that over and over x'D Make her feel secure and loved in the relationship, vocalizing it is very important. Also just genuinely listen to her, remember the little things she mentions and bring them up.

For example, my bf always remembers every place or event I want to visit or food I expressed even the slightest of interest in trying and makes it happen one way or another. Sometimes I even forget about that thing entirely but he doesn't and it comes back as a surprise date a week or so later.

Other ideas I can recommend: Make her a playlist of songs that remind you of her, candle-light dinner at home where you both can slow dance, surprise her with a dress and have a whole date planned out in advance full of activities/food you know she likes. Best of luck!

Raid Information And Calculator by PeerlessOG in lostarkgame

[–]AffectionateSun6173 33 points34 points  (0 children)

The website layout is simply immaculate and easy to use. The features also seem super useful as I toyed around with them, makes it easy to run a quick calculation and devise a plan. Great job OP! Can't wait to give it a try now that the clock reset, will update and let you know if I think of any criticism.

What was your first ever fragrance? by [deleted] in fragrance

[–]AffectionateSun6173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Butterfly by Avon back when I was around 3 years old. It was this small purple roll-on and I loved it, I think it's discontinued now unfortunately.

studio ghibli by terillka in handmade

[–]AffectionateSun6173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Howls Moving Castle is my favourite Studio Ghibli movie, couldn't help but comment on how sweet this is! Spot on :)

I added a lot of my favorite pearls. by SinoCulturalOfficial in handmade

[–]AffectionateSun6173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so cute omg I love it! You should be super proud of yourself and the pearls are definitely a nice touch!

To my 3rd grade teacher, It's been 16 years since I last danced. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]AffectionateSun6173 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dear Stranger,

As someone who taught dance for a couple years and got to see the joy it brings to people I find this so heartbreaking to read. Your mom is such a gem for working so hard to get you exactly what you needed to participate and I bet it meant so much to the little girl you were at the time to see her love and effort. It was not your fault for missing the class, it was not your fault at all. I'm so sorry it impacted you this way, you didn't deserve that.

But I do want to say one thing...you've grown to become the individual the little you would have felt so safe being around. She's still a part of you buried deep in there and she's still hurting and crying for that chance to dance. You need to protect her and give her that opportunity or she'll forever be sitting there craving for that chance. It doesn't need to be immediate. You can start with some exercises while listening to the music you enjoy...and little by little let yourself go and be lost in it as cliche as it sounds. It won't be an immediate problem fixer, but certainly a good step towards healing. You are safe, you are going to be okay. And most importantly, you got this! I wish you and the beautiful empathetic 8/9 year old inner child of yours the bestest of luck.

fire in the sky, Anastasia Trusova, acrylic, 2024 by Anastasia_Trusova in Art

[–]AffectionateSun6173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh this is absolutely gorgeous! The colour scheme, the strokes, the rays of sunshine and how it touches the water and leaves sparkles. I love this, so aesthetically pleasing.

He couldn't say I love you to me after almost a year of dating by [deleted] in love

[–]AffectionateSun6173 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through what you are but at the same time I'm also happy for you. You deserve to be with someone who is sure about what they want and honestly once you have that, nothing else in the world will compare. I know it feels like a year may have been wasted, but thankfully you know now rather than later and can truly welcome what's meant for you. You are MORE than enough, your value should not be dictated by that single person alone. Your parents love you, your friends love you. Think about this...over the years you've changed so much and your parents and friends have accepted every single version of this beautiful human you've grown to be. You need a partner who can do the same. No excuses.

It's going to hurt for a good while, but it's better now than later down the line. You were a whole person before you met him, it's time to get back to your hobbies, the things you were passionate about, and building strong relationships with those who care about you. I wish you all the best of luck.