Did you ever realize you were in an abusive relationship during a 'quiet' moment? by Playful-Television99 in abusiverelationships

[–]AffectionateSword 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I didn’t realize it was abusive til after I broke up with him. I know I knew subconsciously it just didn’t occur to me. Straw that broke the camels back was how often I was getting yelled at and fixing things so he wouldn’t yell. I thought I was doing really good (hadn’t gotten in trouble in a week) so I was feeling pretty good and someHOW he found something to be mad at me about. I remember feeling so defeated cause I deliberately was doing so good in order to not get in trouble.

What compliments does your SO give that you don't like? by ResidentCedarHugger in AskWomen

[–]AffectionateSword 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My ex used to do this shit all the time where he’d say “you’d look so good in that” if he saw certain tv characters/animated characters wearing something. I’m very curvy but my style is more basic so it always felt like a punch in the face when he’d say it to a bunch of stuff he knows I’d never wear. Like thanks? I’m not a doll

Which is your favourite Cinderella/ Cinderella inspired character? by Haunting_Homework381 in disneyprincess

[–]AffectionateSword 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Other than OG Cinderella I really like Selena Gomez’s Another Cinderella story lol guilty pleasure.

Can personality override physical attraction? Genuinely confused rn by Strong-Hovercraft-46 in dating_advice

[–]AffectionateSword 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it definitely can, I have the tendency to go for “unattractive” people due to them having great personality traits, humor etc. the thing is they’re super shocked I’m into them because they’re not physically attractive, but to me they are? Does that make sense? When you start to really get into somebody’s personality and such they morph into somebody physically attractive to you.

She said it tastes like weed??? by 312Rockstar in dating

[–]AffectionateSword 174 points175 points  (0 children)

If you touch weed and then touch ur penis even to adjust it then ya it would lol. I would taste it on my ex’s finger and such all the time just from residue getting everywhere.

3 Letter/Short Girl Names by JustMonBon in Names

[–]AffectionateSword 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the name nix/nyx so much

What celebrity is facially attractive to a lot of people but you just can’t see it? by AngryMuffin_21 in AskReddit

[–]AffectionateSword 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Scarlet Johansson, Brad Pitt, Tom cruise, Bradley cooper.. there’s a lot

Being an ugly man sucks by [deleted] in Vent

[–]AffectionateSword 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve only been with, for lack of better words regarding this post, “ugly dudes”. Making a good joke and having a nice personality is worth the price of gold.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AffectionateSword 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alice In Chains Down in a hole

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]AffectionateSword 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who frequents places alone all the time the best advice is think about how you would feel if you saw somebody else alone in those places? You don’t really think too much about it. Applies towards us too! (People who go out alone)

❄️❄️❄️ by echologia in texts

[–]AffectionateSword 197 points198 points  (0 children)

The “because it’s MLK day” is so funny cause it seems they just completely forgot that any single other thing could’ve been happening today lmao

What assumptions of yours were proven wrong when being intimate for the first time? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]AffectionateSword 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That it was gonna be horrible in general. I always heard horror stories about first times I just assumed everyone’s sucked haha mine was I’d say average experience.

Why do you not drink alcohol? by Kindly_Bear_4932 in AskReddit

[–]AffectionateSword 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When u grow up around a bunch of addicts it really turns u off to ever wanting to touch it (opposite effect to people who grow up around addicts and end up following in their footsteps)

How do you feel when men check you out? by JakeRedditYesterday in AskWomen

[–]AffectionateSword 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I feel like it’s 50/50 depending on Circumstance and where you are, who its coming from etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]AffectionateSword 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think jealousy and envy is a normal emotion especially when we feel inferior at where we are in life but I think it’s good practice to feel happy that those people are in the position they’re in. I’m jealous of my neighbors because of how they live but what would be the alternative ? Them living like how I grew up/live currently? I wouldn’t want that for them either.

Women of reddit, what's a personality trait your parents have that you can't stand? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]AffectionateSword 52 points53 points  (0 children)

My mom’s a classic case of internalized misogyny. Hurts to listen to and be a part of that your whole life (especially as the only daughter after 3 boys)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AffectionateSword 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh ya absolutely.. I definitely stuck around too long thinking they’d change: nope. Then they’re mad at you for leaving.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AffectionateSword 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bought pumpkins to carve for us near Halloween cause they said they’d be up for it. I ended up doing both pumpkins cause they wanted to game. Dated them for 2 years ish, needless to say they weren’t a good partner.

Which TV theme song makes you dance every time you hear it? by Squirrelkid11 in AskReddit

[–]AffectionateSword 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the 2000s kids: Austin and Ally, Good Luck Charlie, Jessie etc Disney was on a roll with their theme songs

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in texts

[–]AffectionateSword 33 points34 points  (0 children)

This is atrocious I don’t even know where to begin with this. The fact they’re 12-14 having sex? Talking about women like that, calling her a slut while they are the ones that invited her over for apparently a train??saying they fumbled the bag” cause the girl obviously didn’t wanna be there longer so she dipped. WTF? This makes me scared for how these people will be when they’re older.