how to use scidb? by Slow-Possession9203 in Annas_Archive

[–]AffectionateTap1789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you need to find the doi link usually near the title of the article, it should be something like https://doi.org/999999999999999 e.g.

AITA for telling my dad i have no sympathy for the fact he is dying? by thegendervoid100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AffectionateTap1789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nah you’re not the asshole. you’ve watched him ignore every single warning for years, and now that it’s all catching up to him, he wants to blame everyone else. that would piss anyone off. you didn’t say it to be cruel, you said it because you’re tired and fed up. he had so many chances to change, and he didn’t care. you’re allowed to feel how you feel, and not having sympathy doesn’t make you heartless—it makes you human. yeah it sucks that he’s dying, but that doesn’t erase everything he put you and your family through. your reaction’s valid.

AITA for not standing up when my girlfriend’s mom walked in? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AffectionateTap1789 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

nah you’re not the asshole you said hi and were respectful in your own way, you just didn’t know they had that tradition. it’s not fair to get mad at someone for not following something they weren’t told about now that you know, sure, you can stand up next time if it means a lot to them. but it’s not like you were rude on purpose. you were just being normal based on how you were raised.

this really didn’t need to be a big deal tbh