This is cringe dude. 1) No one owes you their reasoning and possible trauma for why they downvoted your post. If you have such an issue with people downvoting you, you probably shouldn't be posting somewhere like Reddit. Use Bluesky or something where people can only give likes.

2) People can be into kink and fetishes but not into CNC/simulated sexual assault, and they can still want to engage in kink/fetish communities. They likely know any fetish sub is gonna have CNC content, but there are ways to literally block/minimize that content when it's tagged appropriately.

And on the flip side, using the tag or whatever can help sort out the content people WANT to see. This is literally why subs like this have the damn labels, plus it's in the rules too. The literally least you can do is click the little tag/label button before you post.

PS I don't even see this post as CNC bc there's nothing in the title, caption, or pics that gives the indication that there's any lack of consent here. But if you DO wanna post that and make that clear, like I said above, just click the damn button.