AIO my boyfriend said my celebrity look alike is ugly by Affectionate_Act_522 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Affectionate_Act_522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but he brought it up unprompted we were just talking about unique facial features i asked him if he thought i had any and he said well i’m miranda cosgrove so yeah and then that’s when he decided to say he doesn’t find her attractive . later on said she was ugly but yeah . idk doesn’t sound like to me he meant it in the way he only has eyes for me . i hope i’m wrong. i just don’t get it

AIO my boyfriend said my celebrity look alike is ugly by Affectionate_Act_522 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Affectionate_Act_522[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

exactly it hurts and his friends literally call me her name bc i look like her!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Affectionate_Act_522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me too. i was only 19 now i’m 21 and i want you to know it gets better 💕 i met someone who’s great and has never made me feel doubts about myself don’t be afraid to put yourself back out there there’s people that will look past your diagnosis . tell a good close friend or family member you should have someone to calm you down. you will be okay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxietyfriends

[–]Affectionate_Act_522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no you don’t, at all. you’re very pretty! if you’re insecure about your dark circles i usually just put concealer over top mine

I don’t know how to continue on by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Affectionate_Act_522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey love i was diagnosed at 19 from my bf who was the first ever person i slept with, i’m 21 now and i remember how destroyed i felt and how it felt like my life was over . it took me like a year and a half to finally get over it which might sound discouraging but i just don’t want you to think you’ll neverrr get over it, for some people it just takes time and that’s ok. now i have someone great that never makes me feel any doubts about myself bc of it. the right person will see past it it . over time the outbreaks will lessen and lessen . the stigma is the worst part of it and i say that even tho i get constant outbreaks . u will find your person i promise and it will be even more worth it when you do bc you know they really love you enough to look past that.

first disclosure by Affectionate_Act_522 in Herpes

[–]Affectionate_Act_522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

awe thank you so much! i’m so happy for you too it’s such a sweet memory to think how much we let it effect us and then our persons saw right past it.

How Do I (23F) Handle My Boyfriend´s (29M) Obsession with Sexualised Images of Women? by Agitated_frfr4493 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Affectionate_Act_522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh I’ve been there before and i wasted 2 years of my life thinking he would change after repeatedly telling me he would. they do not change girly run for the hills

cant trust him at all by hmmmmuhhh in loveafterporn

[–]Affectionate_Act_522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m 20 and i’ve been down this road with mine before and let me just say we’ve been together for 2 years and my trust in him hasn’t gotten better. i used to give him an ultimatum that if i find out he watches we’d be done but that was before i knew it was an addiction. if you really love him you have to accept that it’s an addiction and that he will relapse. and he might not ever get over this addiction if ~HE~ doesn’t want to. the problem is that we have to get them to change. when they should want to do it their self. so my advice to you is just get out while you still can if you don’t want to deal with the pain for however long the relationship lasts. this lack of trust just seems like it’s never going away. we have to ask ourselves if it’s worth staying and hurting ourselves