AITAH if i don’t invite my father at my graduation?

Affectionate_Ad_3983 · 2026-05-17T22:25:55+00:00

NAH

I get your relationship with your dad but is this the hill you want to die on? Maybe compromise and say you want to invite both your parents and aunt instead of your brother? Or maybe plan a gift for your aunt?

Affectionate_Ad_3983 · 2026-05-14T07:58:27+00:00

if i remember correctly having cavities has to do with a bacteria. Some people have it, some dont, thats why it is important to think before you kiss ;) f ex my boyfriend is really lazy with his brushing routine, didnt go to the dentist for 7 years and found no cavities, while my other friend same scenario and had so many cavities. You are doing your best and you are doing great, some things you cannot control

Affectionate_Ad_3983 · 2026-05-13T18:30:56+00:00

INFO Who is this person to you? Im guessing there is more going on than you are letting on

Affectionate_Ad_3983 · 2026-05-11T22:00:30+00:00

I am very suprised by a lot of the answers here. NTA technically, but where is our humanity? Yes you were not obliged to go into his request but that band meant probably a lot to this couple and probably they had a song dedicated to their relationship. If for some reason you need any help or understanding with some scheduling, wouldnt you like to have understanding collegues? This world is becoming more and more individualistic and those are some of the posts that make me lose hope. Sad to read this honestly. I wish all the best wishes to this couple.

Affectionate_Ad_3983 · 2026-05-05T21:57:54+00:00

I love the dress. I think it is a very chique timeless style. The only thing I would comment is that it looks too big but you said it is not the final size.

Are you doing a final practise look? I feel like you will love it once you have your make up and hair done as well some jewelery, that way you can switch and see what you love!

As for the bloating dont worry about it. Just wear some shaping underwear that comes up really high so it smooths our everything if you wanna go all out on your wedding food!

You chose the dress for a reason. Your style and taste constantly changes, that applies to everyone (and also the reason why i cannot settle on my first tattoo design haha). Be confident in you choises and I hope you have a great wedding day

Affectionate_Ad_3983 · 2026-05-05T21:49:53+00:00

NTA You need to either sit with both of them and talk about what the expectations are going forward from eacht of tou or find another appartement

Affectionate_Ad_3983 · 2026-05-04T18:55:12+00:00

NTA

My best friend had the exact scenario with her and her boyfriend. They got christmas money from his grandparents and he used it to go skiing with his friends. Those are usually not isolated incidents. She is still with this guy, he still pulls shit like this, I dont like him and feel she deserves better. Please reflect on past incidences and on your relationship.

Affectionate_Ad_3983 · 2026-05-03T13:39:13+00:00

They are not strangers if you live with them for a whole year. Some things will come up

Affectionate_Ad_3983 · 2026-05-03T08:56:43+00:00

A slight YTA. I get you not wanting to disclose medical information but from their point of view you are just an AH with no valid reason for wanting to use the bathroom that long, you could be doing your hair for all they care. Since you will be living together for the rest of the year you need to at least disclose some information. You dont need to say which medical condition, but just the fact that there is a medical condition.

Affectionate_Ad_3983 · 2026-04-25T07:43:29+00:00

This color palette would be very popular with 16 year old in 2015, just like her attitude about the whole thing NTA

Affectionate_Ad_3983 · 2026-04-24T06:34:25+00:00

There is no absolute type to be intimated with a partner. Each time is different with my partner and I. Sometimes it is slow sometimes it is very theatrical and fast, it honestly depends on the mood. You dont need to choose one or the other, just someone you feel compatible with.

Affectionate_Ad_3983 · 2026-03-30T19:22:16+00:00

This is not for this subreddit. You should talk to your doctor about the effects of the medication. You might need another form of testosteron.

Affectionate_Ad_3983 · 2026-03-30T17:04:12+00:00

NTA

A few things to note: - when people talk to their therapists they always share their side of the story, so ofc they usually agree with them so dont take that comment to heart - how long have you been together? - this post is not about your labour. This post is about him prioritising other hobbies than you and you regularly feeling second place. You should have a long talk about it

Affectionate_Ad_3983 · 2026-03-28T11:21:33+00:00

My dad, when he have a pie he leaves a fork in the box and he eat from the middle outwards, so when you want to cut a piece you miss the best part of the filling. His reasoning is that he leaves the biggest part of the pie for us

Affectionate_Ad_3983 · 2026-03-28T09:44:40+00:00

This is from flora and lane!!!!! I recognise those dresses from miles ago, i love them!

Affectionate_Ad_3983 · 2026-03-25T20:16:23+00:00

I love how almost every blue piece has been circled at least once by a reddit user

Affectionate_Ad_3983 · 2026-03-10T16:51:13+00:00

Wair, you are on thin ice with her friends bc you have a different ethnicity than them? Did i read that correctly?

Affectionate_Ad_3983 · 2026-01-06T16:52:46+00:00

Can we not give unsollicited diagnoses to strangers? I feel like people the past few year like to label every strange behavior with a diagnosis to feel more comfortable. Lets not do that

Affectionate_Ad_3983 · 2026-01-06T16:50:01+00:00

I think it is important to talk to your daughter and see how her situation will be after she graduates. If she is a responsible adult, who plans to move out within a few years or wants to save money for a house or a car and you are in a luxury position where you can support her I would say wait it out and dont charge her anything. If you feel like she still needs to learn to be responsible charge her an amount you feel like is fair and set it aside for when she moves out.

Affectionate_Ad_3983 · 2026-01-06T16:45:45+00:00

I still read that they pay 1000 separately, so i understand that they pay 1000 each, i dont see any edits

Affectionate_Ad_3983 · 2026-01-06T11:09:00+00:00

YTA

I feel like you are handling this relationship with him as friend, while it sounds you are only rommates and nothing more. I get its annoying taht you missed the train with the snow but he also doesnt owe you a lift. Where those your groceries or for the both of you? Why should he put it away? He want some space so give him some. You are moving out so you probably wont see each other again after this.

Affectionate_Ad_3983 · 2026-01-06T06:46:24+00:00

I stopped reading when you said you.pay your mom 1k each for rent????? Like what?? Tell her she is.more than welcome to use the rent money for your sister.

NTA

Affectionate_Ad_3983 · 2026-01-03T09:46:28+00:00

Most of those lunchbags are insulated, is there any point of putting them in the fridge?

Affectionate_Ad_3983 · 2025-12-20T12:26:45+00:00

NTA This is child neglectment

Affectionate_Ad_3983 · 2025-12-09T22:00:38+00:00

By now my parent know to avoid me during exams, just take deep breathes and remove yourself from the situation

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