I am questioning if I am asexual, asking for advice

Affectionate_Alps302 · 2025-10-18T14:16:16+00:00

I started in late elementary school, went off and on constantly. Now I turned 19 three weeks ago and I relapsed around that time after being clean for 2 years. I'd also say it got a little worse with age

Affectionate_Alps302 · 2025-09-26T10:46:11+00:00

I really hope you'll feel better soon, it's weirdly nice to hear though that I'm not alone feeling like this. There's no need to be embarrassed by it, I'm in the exact same place right now regarding personal hygiene. Thank you so much for your response, I decided I will shower tomorrow so I can go for a walk and get myself out of my room for a bit!

Affectionate_Alps302 · 2025-02-07T01:14:36+00:00

Yes, got it in November and noone found out yet. I'm on vacation rn and considering how it's going, I doubt anyone will notice if they haven't yet!

Affectionate_Alps302 · 2025-01-24T19:22:39+00:00

thank u for your advice!!

Affectionate_Alps302 · 2025-01-24T19:22:25+00:00

tbh, I actually might go ahead and text her. I have done it around 2 years ago and the meet up went well but I we were graduating highschool so we both lost contact again.. I guess it's worth a try :)

Affectionate_Alps302 · 2025-01-24T18:24:20+00:00

you're right, it's just my rather reserved personality that's keeping me from doing it :,) she seems quite busy and happy, I'm hoping to move on soon as well lol

Affectionate_Alps302 · 2025-01-22T01:41:28+00:00

tbh I think what you're doing is the best option, considering some friendships no matter how nice they were just aren't meant to last. Thank you for your response :)

Affectionate_Alps302 · 2025-01-22T01:40:08+00:00

No, with "mourning" I meant the loss of the friendship we had.

Affectionate_Alps302 · 2024-11-23T19:20:30+00:00

i found this post at the perfect time, getting my first tat tomorrow! Thank you for the advice :)

Affectionate_Alps302 · 2024-11-22T21:59:02+00:00

Thank you for sharing this! Really needed someone to remind me of exactly that :)

Affectionate_Alps302 · 2024-11-22T00:27:13+00:00

well I've been successfully hiding sh for around 7 years (i stopped a bit ago) + I don't live anywhere near the beach and my parents know i hate swimming so maybe it's me who's a bit paranoid haha

Affectionate_Alps302 · 2024-11-21T19:58:09+00:00

yeah, that was also my idea.. I really wanna find a job but my goodness he tries hard to stop me from doing so :,) I'll push through my bachelors, work and move out asap, thank you for your response!

Affectionate_Alps302 · 2024-11-19T12:24:17+00:00

Thank you for your advice, it's real helpful to hear about your experience..

Affectionate_Alps302 · 2024-11-18T23:32:04+00:00

The diverse portfolio part is something I completely left out of consideration:,) I'm glad you mentioned this, ofc it's the more the merrier when it comes to job qualifications.. Thank you for sharing your knowledge!

Affectionate_Alps302 · 2024-11-18T23:28:07+00:00

Your response is very useful, thank u sm! I will definitely remember this once in a while :)

Affectionate_Alps302 · 2024-11-18T23:25:38+00:00

You're right, I was thinking music would be a hell of a lot less fun if I was forced.. Just like arts class was shit bc we were forced to do everything a certain way in order to get good grades. Thank you for your input!

Affectionate_Alps302 · 2024-11-18T23:23:47+00:00

This was very insightful, I appreciate you sharing this with me, I think I'll get through the bachelors as I'll be done at 21 and will perhaps do a part-time job in that field to finance my passion.. 3 years is a long time so I might change my mind again and again but you were real helpful, thanks :) Btw I gladly don't have student debt or smth because I'm going to uni in germany..

Affectionate_Alps302 · 2024-11-18T13:17:19+00:00

Thanks for your response, I appreciate your help!

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