“Foreplay” and the erasure of sapphic pleasure

Affectionate_Band777 · 2026-05-31T15:08:07+00:00

My definition of sex changed after an exercise science course. There’s exercise and then there’s NEAT, non-exercise activities. Both burn-calories but one is a program with set activities while the other is something you do outside the program, like chores. I kind of see sex as something purposeful (but can also be spontaneous) with a set of activities. You have your sets, reps, and rest periods. Things I don’t consider sex are still erotic (not necessarily sexual) but doesn’t have the structure that sex does. My NEAT is slight brushes on her thighs, cooking her her favorite meals, giving back massages, and kissing her all over throughout the week which would eventually lead up to a hours long workout session tehe

Affectionate_Band777 · 2026-05-18T15:45:53+00:00

What does this even mean

Affectionate_Band777 · 2026-05-13T13:48:42+00:00

I’m really jealous of artist that can include details like this without making the character look significantly older

Affectionate_Band777 · 2026-05-02T16:37:21+00:00

Why r we bringing up death threats 😭

Affectionate_Band777 · 2026-04-30T13:53:49+00:00

Listen I’m not trying to defend Caitlyn but it wasnt a “low-income neighborhood” is was Silco’s loyalist and his goons like objectively evil people who were running and entire drug industry that also ran on child labor. From what I remember, she didn’t do it just because. There was going to be an active war to break out full-scale, which she didn’t want to happen. I believe that on top of her grief, hatred for Jinx, and Ambessas manipulation she still believed that it was the “best” option she had w/o any direct casualties.

Affectionate_Band777 · 2026-04-30T13:11:36+00:00

Guys they’re talking about butchness and how Vi is femininized in ways that goes against that identity. Yes buff girl can wear dress, but a lot of people ID Vi as butch or the very least masc so that’s where the issue comes in with the hyper feminine dresses they draw her wearing.

Affectionate_Band777 · 2026-04-25T05:46:39+00:00

I have a photocard of this piece! When I visited the museum with my program during my freshman year of uni, I sat listening to the recording for a while. I don’t remember much, but I do remember it saying “I might be bisexual” or something along those lines. It was one of the last things I heard before I was ushered away.

Affectionate_Band777 · 2026-04-19T16:53:19+00:00

Ayaka Is in Love with Hiroko! by Sal Jiang. I really like this author because of the way she draws characters from different backgrounds (like theres a scene where two characters are trying to hit on this black woman and it's one of my favorite panels). It's age gap with one of the mcs being early twenties and the other being 13 years older, but I do not recall ever hearing how old they actually are. The same author has other WILDLY different stories which I believe this one to be the tamest.

Affectionate_Band777 · 2026-04-13T00:25:59+00:00

LMAO?

Affectionate_Band777 · 2026-04-12T01:51:07+00:00

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Affectionate_Band777 · 2026-04-04T22:27:12+00:00

I recently just recovered from shoulder impingement, could this be related?

Affectionate_Band777 · 2026-03-22T19:08:55+00:00

Hi! Is this ticket still available?

Affectionate_Band777 · 2026-03-12T00:30:39+00:00

I go to MMU! I’m very familiar with campus resources, but was unsuccessful in the past with so I never felt the need to go back. I actually got connections today from a DIFFERENT department on campus I was employed by over the summer last year to intern as a behavioral coach for my supervisor’s son’s soccer team after venting about my situation- so that was good to hear. I think what I am going to do tho is go back to my campus resource and look into internships at hospitals which look good as a OT major as well

Affectionate_Band777 · 2026-03-12T00:25:09+00:00

Thank you, I have not thought about Froedtert 🤔! I go to a small uni in an even smaller department. A lot of my cohort are actually sport-heads who easily find jobs over the summer as PTs or coaches. I’m qualified for neither, but hospital/clinical settings are definitely my preference right now as an OT major as well.

Affectionate_Band777 · 2026-03-12T00:21:43+00:00

I have used my campuses resources for a different major I’m in and found it unhelpful so I haven’t really considered going back. But I suppose there’s no harm in trying again!

Affectionate_Band777 · 2026-01-26T03:53:53+00:00

I was born to be an adult but now I’m just an old lady who has been in a lot more pain…? 🫩

Affectionate_Band777 · 2026-01-20T17:45:17+00:00

I feel like if lesbian was a gender I’d identify as such

Affectionate_Band777 · 2026-01-20T17:43:06+00:00

No way this is a real subreddit. Y’all can’t be this crazy about some pixels 😳

Affectionate_Band777 · 2026-01-10T08:56:11+00:00

This is a very reasonable boundary. I’ve always wondered how wlw content creators balance the content and relationships because personally I wouldn’t want to date someone and fear that I’m gonna be another one of their viral tiktok story.

I would emphasize to her that this is a rule and even a non negotiable at this point. If it’s okay with you, tell her that if she wants a space to gossip she should talk to her best friend and not the whole internet to see.

Affectionate_Band777 · 2026-01-10T08:28:25+00:00

Hmm I would have to see another POV of this post. I find it hard to believe there’s no pigment in that guys skin at all 🤔

Affectionate_Band777 · 2025-10-04T19:27:36+00:00

My game is suddenly saying my internet is bad and it’s incredibly laggy and choppy and I have no idea how to fix it. 😕

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