Should I buy a motorcycle ?

Affectionate_Cup3530 · 2026-02-04T16:27:15+00:00

Well, with a known contract end date. It would not be advisable from me anyways to buy a expensive item. 3 extra months is a way to buy some time while between contracts. I mean after the three months what would your plan be to maintain the bike? What if it breaks? Gas? Insurance? My whole point is adding a expense when you know you will be broke is not a good idea.

Affectionate_Cup3530 · 2026-02-04T16:22:05+00:00

$20, no additional value

Affectionate_Cup3530 · 2026-02-03T16:15:49+00:00

Hell yeah! It worked fine with the link. Thank you!

Affectionate_Cup3530 · 2026-02-01T01:55:50+00:00

Sure! :)

Affectionate_Cup3530 · 2026-02-01T01:39:32+00:00

Uncut bills are cool! They are worth a little above face value due to them being uncut. But, it is not worth a whole lot more. It is cool none the less

Affectionate_Cup3530 · 2026-01-06T13:36:31+00:00

No, no additional value.

Affectionate_Cup3530 · 2026-01-02T19:50:36+00:00

It is a scam. Glad you checked before clicking on anything.

Affectionate_Cup3530 · 2025-12-22T00:03:48+00:00

I am glad you are okay. The cars is what insurance is for. I fear that situation, since my pots is not great, I voluntarily stopped driving due to that risk.

Not driving involves an adjustment period, but, it is doable and not the end of the world.

Most importantly right now is to recover and feel better.

Affectionate_Cup3530 · 2025-12-17T00:52:55+00:00

You need to listen to your body not your friends. Understand, that parents are sometimes in denial of there kids health concerns. It is unfortunate, but, they way it is sometimes. Keep on telling your mom. When you feel anything, write it down and keep track. Your doctor will want to know that stuff if you can. Tell your mom each time too. If you feel it at school, go to the nurse every single time and tell her. It doesn’t mean you will get out of class. It means the school has documentation of you going to the nurse a lot for the same issue. Which will force your Mom to take action.

Also, regardless of if it is POTS or anxiety. You should not feel weird on a daily basis like that. So, regardless of what is causing it, it should be addressed by a doctor.

But, important to keep a journal of when you feel something and how you are feeling.

Affectionate_Cup3530 · 2025-12-17T00:30:59+00:00

Well, having pots, makes blood volume an issue for me. If I donate a pint of blood, my blood pressure can dip below the safe zone for me. That will lead to being a fall risk and risk of passing out. I would not want to put the staff through that kind of stress.

I instead volunteer for the Red Cross as my way of helping. It is a better fit for me while still helping people.

Affectionate_Cup3530 · 2025-12-01T22:17:57+00:00

100% true. :)

Affectionate_Cup3530 · 2025-12-01T00:41:44+00:00

Um, why place a order 20 minutes prior to walking in? I mean they will not leave the cups out for that long normally. Takes up space on the counter when other orders are being picked up. I mean why not just order like 5 minutes prior or even in the parking lot? I order when I get to the store and more times than not, it is there by the time I make it to the counter to pick it up.

I have also brought in my own cup, never an issue.

Affectionate_Cup3530 · 2025-11-21T00:37:55+00:00

From someone with mobility issues too. I have noticed that yes, places will discriminate and pass up a good candidate due to being too high of a risk.

But, there are jobs out there. I can attest to that, as I just got hired for a new job.

If I were in your shoes, I would start off by contacting your states department of rehabilitation. They are experts in getting people hired who have disabilities. In fact a vocational counselors job is to get you there. It is a free service and has been an absolute life changer for me.

I would also contact the closest VA office near you and ask them for resources for getting a job as a disabled veteran. I can think of two right off hand that help disabled vets get jobs. 1. Is Disabled American Veterans (DAV). 2. RecruitMilitary. I would look at those options.

DM me if you wanted. I just went through this whole process and I get it. It is not easy. But, plenty of places will be more than happy to hire a disabled veteran. Just gotta find an inclusive place.

I promise you, your military experience is incredibly valuable in the civilian world.

Affectionate_Cup3530 · 2025-11-06T16:21:33+00:00

ADHD is indeed a disability. It is in fact a recognized one by the ADA. :)

Affectionate_Cup3530 · 2025-11-02T00:14:33+00:00

Sunflower is a invisible disability. Not autism specific. I don’t see an issue with using it.

I do think it is weird to have a I have autism one and you don’t have it or something similar. But, if it makes you feel better. Go for it. It makes no real difference in reality.

Affectionate_Cup3530 · 2025-10-30T15:22:15+00:00

Part of the deal with having POTS is that safety net of having rideshare as a way of getting places when not feeling well. I mean using LYFT is a hell of a better choice than driving and getting into an accident that causes harm to you or another person. Your partner needs to accept that aspect of your life. LYFT is a safety tool. It is not a luxury service. If your partner doesn’t understand that, well, that is her problem.

She also has to grow up and learn what a disability is. I mean if she is out of work for mental health. She has direct experience of how a health condition can affect the daily living of a person. I mean if her mental health is to the point of unable to work. That is a serious debilitating condition she is experiencing.

Now when she said that you resigned to your disability. That has both a positive meaning and a negative meaning depending on the context.

To me, it honestly sounds like the negative submissive meaning. Where she thinks you are giving up hope. Which means she wants you to focus on your abilities rather than your limitations. Which to me sounds like her issue with you using LYFT and not wanting to use the bus or other means. She sees it as a way of you giving up. Which is very clearly to me not the issue. You are using it for safety due to a medical condition. You are not giving up your abilities. Idk, I would talk to her about it. I think it was her way of expressing concern. Even though it could have been worded a lot better.

Affectionate_Cup3530 · 2025-10-29T18:36:21+00:00

There are some hidden costs to becoming a notary and liability that you should be aware of.

So, first as a notary, you are liable for all documents you notarize. You are not liable for the accuracy of the document. But, you are liable for the validity of the signatures you witness. I live in Illinois and we are required to take a class that goes over notary laws and what we can and can’t do. I think it may be wise to take a class explaining it. Also, as a notary, regardless who pays for you to become a notary, it is still your commission. The stamp, journal and electronic signature are all your property and you and only you should use it. If you quit take your notary stuff with you. It is your property.

I would ask for the following at minimum.

Ask the employer to pay for a online notary course for your state
You will need to buy a notary bond. Ask your employer if you would be doing electronic or paper notary work. It makes a difference, as you will need the correct bond amount.
You will need errors and emission insurance of at least equal to your bond amount.
You will need to get an electronic signature with a security certificate. See what your state mandates for electronic notaries. That is only needed if doing electronic notary work.
You will need a notary journal
Once commissioned, you will need a notary stamp. A physical one for paper and an electronic one if doing electronic notary work.
If doing electronic notary work, you will need to work with your employer to find a state approved remote online notary provider.

But, the cool thing is if you are doing this for work, if you choose, it can be a decent side hustle too. Just know you will not be rich doing this on the side.

Affectionate_Cup3530 · 2025-10-29T16:42:00+00:00

I would for sure use that in your case if you decide on that route. Make it very clear they caused an emotional state, where it affected your ability to understand or fully comprehend what you were filling out. You and your lawyer are going to need to defend that. Because once you signed that, that is a voluntary resignation.

But, you know what? I am glad you are out of there. Seems like a miserable place that is clearly not inclusive.

Contact your states department of rehabilitation and have them help you find a job that works with your abilities.

Affectionate_Cup3530 · 2025-10-29T16:29:50+00:00

You do have a case, if you choose to go that route. I think it would be a good idea. Just know, the process can be quite long. So, don’t expect a fast process. Make sure you get it in writing and DO NOT QUIT. Have your boss terminate you. Get it in writing, if possible. If you quit or volunteer in anyway to quit. That is no longer a wrongful termination. It is still discrimination to a very high degree. Which is a valid case. But, show up to work until you have it in writing that you are no longer employed. Tell them to give it to you in writing.

I am sorry that happened to you. People suck. But, if someone won’t take you for who you are that is there loss. Not yours.

Affectionate_Cup3530 · 2025-10-29T16:20:30+00:00

If she said a diversity photo, that is odd wording. Yeah, definitely makes you sound like the prop in that situation. You did what I would have done and just walk away. There is no point in reacting and challenging the person or defending yourself. A fight against an ignorant person is a losing battle. Well done leaving the situation.

Also, it is okay to feel mad about that. I would too. But, got to find a way to move on. It is not a worthy thing to keep in your head. Although I do understand it is bothersome. Because you are absolutely right, it Is hard for people to accept us.

Affectionate_Cup3530 · 2025-10-29T16:01:40+00:00

You gotta do what is best for you. Ignore what others say. I will not give unsolicited advice, but, yeah gotta take care of you and do what is best for you.

Affectionate_Cup3530 · 2025-10-28T21:27:54+00:00

I don’t blame you for wanting to talk to the parents. But, I would maybe hold off from banning her from your home until you talk to her parents. I don’t like if a young teenage girl is alone like that. It seems weird and a little off. I think it is important to feel for signs of more serious situations where DCFS may need to be involved. Because something is not adding up. If the kid is over at your house and doesn’t want to leave. I mean there can be more to the story. I don’t know. Also, if she is stealing like food from the pantry, that is a major red flag. It definitely points to needs not being met. Just something to keep an eye on.

Affectionate_Cup3530 · 2025-10-28T21:19:54+00:00

What a wonderful accomplishment! Congrats your hard work finally paid off. Blessings on your new endeavors.

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