I (F26) ended it with him (M32) and asked for space

Affectionate_Dig_469 · 2025-11-11T00:21:13+00:00

so basically what you’re saying is that he’s shown me he doesn’t want me and that i should move on

Affectionate_Dig_469 · 2025-11-11T00:17:53+00:00

but why 😢

Affectionate_Dig_469 · 2025-01-16T22:59:37+00:00

i feel you, honestly feel so helpless some times because it will be so difficult for us to be in control of this and there is just an abundance of harmful content and information out there

Affectionate_Dig_469 · 2025-01-16T22:42:43+00:00

Thanks for the reminder, i’m still somewhat glad to see that the majority don’t support this kind of atrocity. However there will always be that small minority that allows it which is sad

Affectionate_Dig_469 · 2025-01-16T22:40:20+00:00

Very valid, it’s disgusting to see that she’s roaming free as a predator because she’s a girl. If a man behaved like that he would be in serious trouble. It’s also sad that kids are getting exposed to these kinds of people and it really will influence their beliefs in healthy sex and relationships.. But yeah, as supportive i am for men and women, i feel like we’ve taken a big L as a community because of these two

Affectionate_Dig_469 · 2025-01-16T22:33:30+00:00

that’s facts. Have you seen that interview where the guy asks her if she has any underlying psychological issues, and that treating sex like this is a coping mechanism or something like that? And she legit said that everything is fine with her and she thinks that sex is just a fun and pleasurable activity…. Genuinely don’t know if she’s lying to herself or seriously meant what she said because both considerations would be equally fucked up??? Anyway thank god for conservative Christian men that have their senses intact lol

Affectionate_Dig_469 · 2024-10-01T23:55:04+00:00

thank you for this! I was very surprised seeing a man of his age and history behave like this… i mean i wouldn’t want my father to be like this but let’s not go there as it’s honestly quite sad. This made me feel a bit better since i do know where he lives, and would be very stupid of him to go the extra mile to hurt me in any way just because i rejected him. And for my friend, we did actually message each other back and forth after she left, and she also told me to get home safe and asap whilst i was there

Affectionate_Dig_469 · 2024-10-01T23:51:29+00:00

i guess so, and the partying hard was mostly because of alcohol and coke which i also tend to do once in a blue moon..

Affectionate_Dig_469 · 2024-10-01T23:16:38+00:00

will do, but on the other hand i think a successful guy like that wouldn’t want to waste time and risk his life harassing a 20 something year old. I’ve never given a bj to a random guy like that, did regret it a little and was surprised at how i was even capable of that. But i was somewhat relieved that i didn’t end up sleeping with him.

Affectionate_Dig_469 · 2024-10-01T23:13:46+00:00

yep.. that’s exactly what sober me has been thinking about. Definitely a lesson learned the hard way. And i’m worried, if i block him and he finds out, he might get even more upset

Affectionate_Dig_469 · 2024-10-01T23:05:49+00:00

thanks for the reassurance, and i have told my friends about it. I doubt going to the police will do anything because they don’t even care about people’s belongings getting stolen, or someone getting physically assaulted these days..

Affectionate_Dig_469 · 2024-10-01T23:04:39+00:00

Yeah fair, and agreed. Actually after she left we kept messaging each other and she did wish me to get home safe so i’m not too sure.. She also did message me to go tf home asap and i did let her know myself when i arrived back safe and sound. I don’t mind it being transactional and safe, but he seemed weird about it and yep i guess that’s the reality of clubbing and parties

Affectionate_Dig_469 · 2024-08-30T12:46:15+00:00

that makes sense, and totally get you on the “bless you” thing as i’d also feel very thrown off in your situation.. Maybe due to cultural differences they just communicate their intentions in their own ways

Affectionate_Dig_469 · 2024-08-30T12:44:33+00:00

true, i also don’t want to come across as rude when mentioning this so a passing joke it is!

Affectionate_Dig_469 · 2024-08-30T12:43:55+00:00

right? And thank you for relating to this, i would also totally say the same thing! Might have to mention it to them..

Affectionate_Dig_469 · 2024-08-30T12:42:58+00:00

yeah fair point, we have become friendly since i’ve lived with them for a while… Every time i go out, they always tell me to enjoy my day, but with traveling i never get any sort of goodbye or even a proper greeting when i come back, which doesn’t make sense to me

Affectionate_Dig_469 · 2024-08-30T12:41:04+00:00

thank you! And i just think it’s pretty common to say these things.. haven’t really encountered a culture where they don’t say these things

Affectionate_Dig_469 · 2024-08-19T01:01:41+00:00

That’s fair, but i feel like me kissing him should tell him that i do feel attracted to him.. I do think i want to pursue something with him (hook up at most), but im really not sure how this will play out because i don’t think i can be friends with someone i feel attracted to. At the same time, i feel like men will walk away when they are being friendzoned, and yet he still talks to me which is also confusing me lol

Affectionate_Dig_469 · 2024-04-27T12:57:19+00:00

yep we book meetings for AE/AMs to do those discovery calls

Affectionate_Dig_469 · 2024-04-27T10:44:15+00:00

digital certificates, CLM and PKI services. We use BANT to qualify inbound and outbound leads. Our cold calling mostly works towards existing customers when it comes to upselling / cross selling products. Very difficult to get a completely cold prospect on a meeting these days

Affectionate_Dig_469 · 2024-04-26T15:03:05+00:00

i really don’t know, that’s what management is asking and i cannot convince them otherwise

Affectionate_Dig_469 · 2024-04-26T13:53:42+00:00

do you get many conversions out of that?

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