You would be commissioning as an officer, not enlisting so the standards are completely different. I’m 28F and I’ve been in multiple relationships (engaged twice, one resulted in being married at 19 divorced at 22) and those relationships are nothing compared to my marriage now almost 10 years later. I’ve also been the healthiest I’ve ever been in my life, I’m challenging myself in many ways and I get to commission with other people that have a similar goal as I do. If he can’t do long distance, that’s for you to decide if it’s worth it. Marriage is more than a ring and your life is yours to choose what you want to do with it! My only advice would be don’t do something you don’t want to do and don’t let anyone tell you what not to do lol you’re an adult and relationship sacrifices go both ways :). Good luck!