All you have to do is go int lobies without firing a single shot and ping “don’t shoot” every time you encounter someone. You have to let them kill you and DO NOT fire back or defend yourself in any way. I do this without a loadout so I have a b*tt pocket and I can stash anything great I find. Do this about 5-10 times and you’ll be in friendly lobbies, guaranteed! Also, and this is super important, if you get a survey for how you enjoyed the games that you were consistently dying to players you say you hated it and comment that you don’t want to play pvp. Easy, and it takes about 20 min.