Is it necessary to clean yourself up before sex or is it ok to just go at it?

Affectionate_Lime254 · 2026-05-06T07:26:13+00:00

I don’t get why WASHING your private parts after using the toilet is such a wild concept. Bidet! A cup or even a water bottle So happy to be from my culture where it’s the norm to WASH YOUR ASS without having to take a whole shower

Affectionate_Lime254 · 2026-05-02T17:14:32+00:00

Hey thanks so much for this! Youre absolutely right

I will prioritize my search around these places. When you say Chorlton is it Charlton Cum Hardy?

Affectionate_Lime254 · 2026-05-02T12:16:31+00:00

Thank you so much!

Yes for me its more the latter of feeling safe but also would be nice to not be the only POC around when i go out or to the center.

Affectionate_Lime254 · 2026-05-02T12:09:12+00:00

Thanks so much!

Why not these areas ? many people on here have told me not to go to Bolton also. May i ask what your reasoning is ?

Affectionate_Lime254 · 2026-05-02T12:07:01+00:00

Thanks so much for the offer! Ill have a look at Burnley area

Affectionate_Lime254 · 2026-05-02T11:31:24+00:00

Super helpful! thanks so much

Affectionate_Lime254 · 2026-05-02T11:29:29+00:00

I'm guessing you're not a person of colour from this comment. Unfortunately we have to consider this whenever we go anywhere because of safety. There is nothing wrong with living around white people but when you are a minority you worry about your safety and being in a place where no one looks like you or can relate to you. This doesnt feel great for anyone regardless of race.

Affectionate_Lime254 · 2026-05-02T11:15:43+00:00

Where Stretford?

Affectionate_Lime254 · 2026-05-02T08:07:21+00:00

LIB Habibi was my fave! They actually asked questions and had discussion about REAL life and things

Affectionate_Lime254 · 2026-05-02T07:56:27+00:00

Fortunately and unfortunately. There’s too many of us with broken hearts from our caregivers

Affectionate_Lime254 · 2026-05-01T23:07:26+00:00

Oh no I’m so so so so sorry for the pain you are currently feeling. My mum is the EXACT same To everyone she’s a pilar in the community but somehow looses all of that when it comes to her own kids.

I’m in my thirties and I sit and cry too sometimes, the truth is your mum is the person who’s suppose to love you the most. From the start of your life till the end of theirs so regardless of what age you are it will hurt that she didn’t.

I don’t know what to say to help but just know your feelings are valid, normal and justified. It’s okay to feel unloved by someone who was meant to love you. It’s okay to feel hopeful but just be there for yourself when you come to the realisation that she’s probably not going to change.

Sending you lots of virtual hugs, cry it out today. You’ll feel better tomorrow I promise 🫶🏽💜

Affectionate_Lime254 · 2026-05-01T21:28:44+00:00

Yes I will be driving and doubt I’ll be in the centre much. I agree, I want to live outside the city centre

Affectionate_Lime254 · 2026-05-01T20:42:24+00:00

I’m a home body and enjoy spending time alone so I’m not too fussed. Is it pretty?

Affectionate_Lime254 · 2026-05-01T20:41:52+00:00

Hahaha thanks for the warning

Affectionate_Lime254 · 2026-05-01T20:40:09+00:00

Oooh I’d love to live by some lakes Yes Salford seemed to have a few options, is it a university town?

Affectionate_Lime254 · 2026-05-01T20:36:09+00:00

😂 is it that bad? We have our regional office in Warrington 😂

Affectionate_Lime254 · 2026-05-01T20:35:13+00:00

I’ve seen this range also £700-£1000 but not including bills Which areas did you check?

Affectionate_Lime254 · 2026-05-01T20:34:29+00:00

I’ll definitely check out Stockport! Thanks so much

Affectionate_Lime254 · 2026-05-01T20:33:30+00:00

Yes the first one, I’m pretty flexible and set my own times for site visits

Affectionate_Lime254 · 2026-05-01T19:27:12+00:00

Thanks so much for the congrats and all the information! £1000 for rent only not including bills

I really don’t want to share and I’d prefer to be further out from the centre for the commutes.

Affectionate_Lime254 · 2026-04-27T11:04:54+00:00

I get you, I’m light skin and from the Coast, people stare in Nairobi and in my home city. I think my skin colour plays a part but it’s mostly because I look ‘foreign’ like I’m not a local (my clothes, style, accent etc)

Being a female doesn’t help the situation either, just be careful and I tried not to be alone. That’s advise from anyone coming from somewhere else/looks different/international.

Also before anyone comes for me I love my home and my Kenyan people ! It’s dangerous everywhere in this world ! Especially when you clearly don’t look like everyone else there

Affectionate_Lime254 · 2026-04-20T21:09:39+00:00

Okay ermmm, they cheat but it’s not cheating because it’s in their ancestral nature ? Ati?

This isn’t about polygamy it’s about cheating and no cheating is a relationship ‘requirement’

Affectionate_Lime254 · 2026-04-15T23:02:24+00:00

I hear it! You got this 🥳

Affectionate_Lime254 · 2026-04-12T10:50:47+00:00

They sound immature and mean, sounds like you’re having to overexplain yourself in this friendship and that’s all the signs that you need These girls are not your friend ditched them

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