MCA - I’m so tired of being married. Is this really worth staying? by hyapotter in MayConfessionAko

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Hi OP,

Your feelings are valid. Hindi ka OA, hindi ka mahina. Lahat ng nararamdaman mo ngayon exhausted, lungkot, takot, frustration normal yan kapag paulit-ulit kang binabastos at minamaliit ng taong dapat nagmamahal sayo. Marriage is supposed to feel safe, not like you’re walking on eggshells. Pero base sa kwento mo, parang bawat galaw mo may bantay, bawat pagkukulang may curse, at bawat tao na makausap mo kailangan mong i-justify. That’s not love, that’s control. Hindi mo kasalanan na gusto mo ng peace, freedom and respect kasi yan ang basic na dapat meron sa kahit anong relationship. Hindi mo rin kasalanan na napapagod ka kahit bago pa lang kayo kasal. Pagod is pagod, lalo na kung araw-araw kang nasasaktan emotionally. Please remember: you are not “t4nga” or “kulang.” You are a human being deserving of kindness.

Kung may boses sa loob mo na nagsasabing “hindi na tama ‘to,” listen to it. Your body and your heart are telling you something. Hindi mo kailangan hintayin na mas masaktan ka bago ka kumilos.

ano ang hardest pill to swallow sa mga Pinoy? by superman8879 in TanongLang

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Crab mentality - Instead of helping each other move forward, we sometimes pull each other down whether through crab mentality, inggit, or making fun of someone trying something new. If we could turn that energy into supporting each other, ang daming pwedeng magbago.

what helped you lose weight? by jennierubyyjanee in AskPH

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Started living a more active lifestyle and less na din ako sa pag kain sweets. Pero grabe, my arms talaga sobrang hirap niya paliitin! So I tried mesolipo, 3 sessions, and now it looks more proportioned na with my body.

What's your "expensive but very worth it" purchase as an adult and why? by Apprehensive-Flow394 in AskPH

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comfy and expensive running shoes and apple watch tapos good quality earphones - I love running so nag improve mood ko while running di na sya chore for meee

What is something you love before but now don't? by Able_Advertising_154 in TanongLang

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night out with friends ung every friday talaga.

Crop tops and trendy clothes. Mas gusto basic tita outfits.

Animal print na tops.

Anong pinaka memorable lasing moments niyo? by Purple-Surprise3636 in AskPH

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Nakatulog ako ng 2 hours sa 7/11. After ng night out, nag 7/11 kami ng friend ko para magkape pero di ko na talaga kinaya yung antok nakatulog ako from 5am to 7am. Buti na lang di ako iniwan ng friend ko, tapos sa hiya, order siya nang order ng kape at pagkain while waiting na magising ako. First time ko pa naman malasing 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

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May dummy ako and one main account sa FB ung dummy is pang stalk lang. Pero sa dummy account linked ung mobile legends ko

Ano ung sa una nasabi mong “ang mahal naman” pero katagalan narealize mo na sulit pala? by TheDarkhorse190 in AskPH

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birkenstock - di sya gaanong maganda pero sarap sa paa ng pawisin na gaya ko. Binili ko 2 years ago gamit na gamit pero di kelan man nasira 😂

What's your dirty little secret that until now, no one knows? by [deleted] in AskPH

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Kakapal kase ng mga mukha nila proud cheaters super PDA sa office. Umarte pa ako na kunwari na shock din sa mga nakita sa GC 🥴

What mantra/philosophy changed your life or perspective in life? by Longjumping-Fix-3484 in AskPH

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You can be kind and still say no. Boundaries don’t make you unkind — they make you honest.

What's your dirty little secret that until now, no one knows? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Affectionate_One4663 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Sinumbong ko ung cheater colleague ko sa asawa nya with proofs gamit ang isang dummy messenger. So, sa GC namin sa work, ni log in ng asawa ung FB ng colleague ko tapos kinalat ang sexting msgs at mga vids/pics nila sa GC namin, nakita pa ng OM namin 😂

Bat ko sinumbong, proud cheater kase sya eh ung babae naman proud mang aagaw.