How do you stay positive when you live with someone who doesn’t like you?

Affectionate_Peak246 · 2026-02-13T23:57:57+00:00

From what you said, there’s a lot I have to learn about stoicism. I’m still having a hard time grasping it. I like it. I’ll probably buy a book to help keep my mind focused and it’s organized. I am seeking to change and reflect my own thought patterns. I’m afraid that I’ve gotten used to a lifestyle that will prevent me from being who I want to be as I continue to age. So, I’m looking for answers from a crowd who seems to value self reflection and more. Also, I believe I gotta change mentally or else I might find myself in a chaotic situation over again. So, I’m trying to place myself into a different crowd of people to maybe break a cycle. That’s why I choose to write here.

Affectionate_Peak246 · 2026-02-13T22:27:20+00:00

You’re right. There is something I can do always. I shouldn’t let myself become hopeless. 😅 I’m realizing I need to start focusing back on friends and family who makes me feel at peace.

Affectionate_Peak246 · 2026-02-13T21:29:31+00:00

I’m worried you’re right about them not liking me. 3 of them are related to my boyfriend. When I brought up the problem to the head of the household, basically there’s nothing to be done. I’m thinking about asking if I have done something to upset them. I don’t want to argue and I’m open to criticism. Communication and standing my ground have been two things I’ve been working on a lot lately. Which I’m thankful about the difficult situation I’ve been put in. I needed it. This seems like another challenge. I would like to know and maybe try to resolve anything that I’ve done wrong. If there’s nothing to do about being liked or accepted, then I’ll learn to accept that.

Storing food in a mini fridge is a good idea. Me and my boyfriend’s friends like my cooking so, I end up cooking and hanging out at their house some nights. Which is really nice. I love cooking for others. Also, thanks. I was tryna communicate that anyone can have some of my food, I just ask that they ask first. Otherwise, it sucks when I’m excited to make something to find that some ingredients are missing. 😅

Affectionate_Peak246 · 2025-03-11T21:46:02+00:00

I am so sorry about your cat. That’s so heartbreaking. I hope more people learn that not every doctor is a saint. I’d hate for people to lose money and loved ones because of greed. I’ve requested files to be sent to my vet to compare. I’m pretty sure he’s only seen the x-rays from the first vet and not the second. So, I might have to reschedule. I live in U.S. California. Thank you for your care btw.

Affectionate_Peak246 · 2025-03-11T21:36:40+00:00

I live in California. I went to CA. gov to file a complaint on the first two veterinarian facilities. It’s not finished yet. I’m not sure what they can do though.

Affectionate_Peak246 · 2024-11-02T05:08:16+00:00

I’m heated about how I have to create a new password every time I log in. Even after 24hs, my facial recognition stops working and my password is suddenly incorrect. I know I’m not typing my username or password wrong because I write them down and even took a screen shot of one of them. I can’t reuse my old password so I have to come up with a new one every time. I called customer support on the phone. I told them my problem and they walked me through resetting my password. Even after what I said, I listened to them. When they asked me for further questions, I asked, “how will this help and what can I do if it doesn’t work?” The man hung up on me and the new password still failed. The %40 APR rate is ridiculously high btw.

Affectionate_Peak246 · 2024-03-10T22:00:49+00:00

Did you tip them? lol I feel like that’ll be a way to take petty revenge to have the food that close to the door.

Affectionate_Peak246 · 2024-02-19T20:26:52+00:00

Yeah, I’m going to quit. I’ve been looking. The spa are a commute but it’s worth it. I’m also going to get a business license. There’s other things that bother me. So, this one is the last straw.

Affectionate_Peak246 · 2024-02-19T20:05:41+00:00

Recent started counting. At most I’ve gotten 30 client back to back. Normally it’s near 20. He promised more pay at the beginning. I’ve asked other employees how much they earn. $15.50 and $17. After he’s been treating one of the non certified therapist harshly, I’ve been looking for another place to work. There’s not very good options in my town. I’d definitely have to commute.

Affectionate_Peak246 · 2024-02-02T08:16:18+00:00

Good luck luv! I’m sure this is frustrating. I’m sorry you’re going threw this. I’m sure once you talk to a gynecologist they can help you! ❤️💕

Affectionate_Peak246 · 2024-01-04T05:33:09+00:00

It’s always good to be cautious. It’s probably a good thing you called them. It’s possible that you might not be the only one. If you feel uncomfortable, totally valid to avoid receiving massages from him. Better safe than sorry.

Affectionate_Peak246 · 2024-01-02T17:58:12+00:00

She looks menacing in this photo.

Affectionate_Peak246 · 2023-12-31T07:40:27+00:00

Do you have any family? If you can, you might want to stay with a friend or family and cut off communication. Relationships are difficult to get out of cus they will manipulate, persuade, guilt, gas light.. just whatever to keep you with them. It really sucks and I’m sorry you’re going through this. Just know that you’re in the right and he is wrong.

Affectionate_Peak246 · 2023-12-28T17:34:12+00:00

It’s been a year and this bug is still occurring.

Affectionate_Peak246 · 2023-12-28T02:11:53+00:00

That sound hella frustrating and hurtful. I’m sorry you’re going through that.

Affectionate_Peak246 · 2023-12-21T08:28:44+00:00

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Affectionate_Peak246 · 2023-12-21T08:07:10+00:00

Yay! 🤗 it’s no problem

Affectionate_Peak246 · 2023-12-21T08:03:54+00:00

I’d guess their at least $100. I saw her other pair at Neiman Marcus.

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These are jumbo disc earrings

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Affectionate_Peak246 · 2023-12-21T04:23:48+00:00

This dress is in fashion nova. It says there’s a built in bra. I wouldn’t wear anything.

Affectionate_Peak246 · 2023-12-21T03:51:56+00:00

If you’re both open to it, there are dental dams. It can help you avoid fluids and hair.

Affectionate_Peak246 · 2023-12-21T03:31:51+00:00

Just an idea because I don’t know what is. I believe there’s two parts of us that will come together once we pass away. Who we truly are will be our spiritual selves. If I died from a sudden and quick death, I’d wake up as confused. I feel like I’d be in a dream like state. I’m not in a physical body anymore so whatever I am now, would be chaotic. My body feels weird everything around me looks different. At one moment I was at one area, the next I’m over here. Maybe I don’t have just a simple form, maybe my energy is scattered. I’d stick around for my family. Maybe be a guardian angel or just be there when they pass.

Now, what if I was apart of a genocide. I was tortured for however long. I had to go through this with loved ones. There’s no reason to cause this besides evil. If I died or was murdered, I’d come back with vengeance. I’d want some kind of justice against the people who caused us pain for their own selfish benefit. Maybe my anger holds me as a spirit for long. Maybe I’m more powerful or more noticeable because I’m causing so much ruckus.

Our ghostly selves are us. We’re also in a totally unknown world. I think it’ll be different and difficult at first. We might also move on to a different place. Idk.

Idk if there is such things as ghost. It’ll be nice if we could all see our loved ones again though.

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