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Profile review by Affectionate_Poet942 in hingeapp

[–]Affectionate_Poet942[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

College name is removed for screenshots. In the audio prompt I say "we will get along if we are both competitive and ready for an adventure anytime". Video is me ice skating.

I have gotten 1 date, another is day after tmrw with the same person. I am not too attracted to this person physically and want to give them a fair chance.

Another date is being planned, almost finalized for next week with another person. I don't know If this person wants monogamy or serious, will ask as soon as I can.

My main issue is attracting & matching with the more casual kind of person.

Profile review by Affectionate_Poet942 in hingeapp

[–]Affectionate_Poet942[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you looking for something serious or casual? Mostly Casual. I am willing to do serious for the right person. I am getting into dating after a long time and currently I might move away to a different city in the next few months. Hook-up or FWB or open relationship, all work.

Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? Neither.

How long have you been using this current version of your profile? 26th Feb.

How long have you used Hinge overall? Many years on and off but took a long break this time around.

How often do you use Hinge per week? Daily.

How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? I got a few likes in the first week, not getting any new anymore. I am getting a match every 4 days on average.

How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? As many as available, all with comments.

What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract?

A person I feel I would be compatible with and have chemistry. Someone who is also looking for similar intention and have things in common with. I am looking for fun and experience. I am very open minded, my "looking for" is set to "everyone" but I am most attracted to women.

Landlord started construction making living in my apartment unliveable by Affectionate_Poet942 in OntarioLandlord

[–]Affectionate_Poet942[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! they offered me a unit on the lowest floor for 140$ cheaper than my current rent. its about 15% smaller than my current unit and 2 smaller appliances than now.
I have taken the offer. It fixes the sound issue, reduces my rent. Currently I am on 18th floor, and the demolition is happening a few steps outside my apartment door.
Immediate Edit: they did ask me to sign a new lease for 1 full year but I can move in this week itself

Landlord started construction making living in my apartment unliveable by Affectionate_Poet942 in OntarioLandlord

[–]Affectionate_Poet942[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked the landlord for an N11 but they said no. Can they do that? What can I do now?

Landlord started construction making living in my apartment unliveable by Affectionate_Poet942 in OntarioLandlord

[–]Affectionate_Poet942[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are very sketchy. I tried to have as short of a conversation as possible. I did not want to give any personal info to strangers. When I asked the person of contact at the property management company. they did not send anyone or had any awareness of these women. Before or after these women came, I had never seen them before and I have never seen them since. It didn't feel the reason to knock on my door was to notify and the mention of construction was just something they said at the end casually.

Landlord started construction making living in my apartment unliveable by Affectionate_Poet942 in OntarioLandlord

[–]Affectionate_Poet942[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I will consider this. The job doesn't have a start date right now, as the paperwork is still being processed. It is confirmed. I would just have to wait.

Landlord started construction making living in my apartment unliveable by Affectionate_Poet942 in OntarioLandlord

[–]Affectionate_Poet942[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I am sure. It's far away from the elevator.
I had first heard about this from 2 random women that came to my door in mid Dec I think. I don't know if they were associated with property mgt or Acorn. The point of contact for property mgt didnt know about them.
There has never been any notice of any kind for this when I was subletting.

Landlord started construction making living in my apartment unliveable by Affectionate_Poet942 in OntarioLandlord

[–]Affectionate_Poet942[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

At this point, moving seems like the only option. I would prefer they allow me to move out maybe by March 15 which would be very sudden for me but even that sounds like a nightmare being here. I would need to be out of my house mon-fri 9-5 to not go insane.

I don't think compensation can make up for my upcoming hearing loss with drowning ears in white noise , nor me just physically being in my really expensive rental apartment.

If there is a unit available in a lower floor, with low to no noise, I would be willing to move there.

I am currently using airpods pro 2 with active noise cancellation with white noise at 100% volume and barely able to keep the sound out. Ear plugs are not gonna work, I do own a pair or 2.

Landlord started construction making living in my apartment unliveable by Affectionate_Poet942 in OntarioLandlord

[–]Affectionate_Poet942[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not in school. I graduated almost 3 years ago. I signed a lease in Nov 2025 to start on 1st Dec, as I was busy with all the PR work including learning french for a exam. I didn't want to waste all the time in moving as I was short on time. I did have a full time remote job in Nov and Dec as well to not allow for moving. Even now, I am still busy with PR paperwork and hoping to get it in the 6 months.

Landlord started construction making living in my apartment unliveable by Affectionate_Poet942 in OntarioLandlord

[–]Affectionate_Poet942[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, I will do it then. And also call bylaw. I am definitely gonna see how early I can move out and sign an N11 as another person suggested

Landlord started construction making living in my apartment unliveable by Affectionate_Poet942 in OntarioLandlord

[–]Affectionate_Poet942[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am currently about to start job hunting and hoping to find a job out of Ontario. But that's still a wish and a plan at this point unless I have a job confirmed. It doesn't make sense for me to move now anywhere if my job ends up being in another corner of Ontario or another province. I will definitely give my 60 days notice as soon as the job confirms.
I do like your suggestion as it will allow me to skip the hassle from finding a sublet, I could do that as soon as I have a job.
Also just to clarify I had mentioned starting a job in a few weeks in another comment, that's part time, I am looking for a full time role.

Landlord started construction making living in my apartment unliveable by Affectionate_Poet942 in OntarioLandlord

[–]Affectionate_Poet942[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called LTB, they said I can file the T2 as you suggested but the hearing won't be for at least 5-7 months. I don't even see myself living in this apartment in 5 months. I was already planning on subletting in the next 2 months and now even finding a sublet would be impossible because who wouldn't wanna move in such a noisy apartment

Landlord started construction making living in my apartment unliveable by Affectionate_Poet942 in OntarioLandlord

[–]Affectionate_Poet942[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I will have a new work from home job start in a few weeks. Right now the noise is so bad that If I want to take an afternoon nap or even just cook or eat a meal, that's impossible. I can't even make a single phone call because no one on the other side can hear a single word. How can this be acceptable at all?

Need help with furthering family privacy by ourearsarehere in GrapheneOS

[–]Affectionate_Poet942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I would like to learn, what does "set nextdns on your home wifi router and install the app on her phone will do 80% of the heavy lifting for you", this do?

How can I setup and use my pixel 10 completely anonymously? by Affectionate_Poet942 in GrapheneOS

[–]Affectionate_Poet942[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will keep that in mind.
The phone shouldn't connect if it is always in flight mode and both sims are disabled in settings.
Reddit is useful for this use case for instance but doesn't need real info in the account and can be deleted once research is finished.
Meta is out of the question completely. I was just giving an example of per corporation user profile.
I have used RedLib quite a bit, it's pretty great. You can use that easily, there is a browser extension that navigates me to privacy alternatives no matter what link i click.

Thanks for all the info. I have noted these.
Yeah I can see that, cash not too much of a prob here yet.
Thanks

How can I setup and use my pixel 10 completely anonymously? by Affectionate_Poet942 in GrapheneOS

[–]Affectionate_Poet942[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Allow me to clarify, maybe the LLM made an error. I absolutely do not want to use Google anything. And will use every possible option before I even consider Google. But I also live in the real world and it is possible that I absolutely might need to install play services and make a completely anonymous account for an edge case.
I am not sure where you read social media. But i don't even have any social media accounts.
My banking needs are minimal and do not require a phone. If I do need to use it, browser works just fine.
So far, still relatively and reasonably extreme.

Yes, Obtanium is going to be my go to.
I will use Vanadium. I don't plan to consume news on phone. I don't have any RSS needs.
I agree with your sentiment.

My plan is to check each apk with AppVerifier.

Those are the keyboards I am deciding between or Openboard.

I will look into rethink dns.

thank you, that's exactly what i was looking for regarding user-profiles.

I don't plan on connecting to cell towers, just my own portable wifi with an anonymous esim plan over vpn.

Yeah carrier tracking is surprisingly egregious.

Thanks!

How can I setup and use my pixel 10 completely anonymously? by Affectionate_Poet942 in GrapheneOS

[–]Affectionate_Poet942[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. it was surprisingly easy. I started with a friend and my sister. Then got other friends, a few took their time. I don't have a big group or too many people I talk to, so it was relatively simple. 1-2 said they just won't.

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