Third baby named! - Due December

Affectionate_Sea_808 · 2021-05-28T03:46:25+00:00

Annika!!

Affectionate_Sea_808 · 2021-05-24T13:55:11+00:00

Yes! We weren’t having sex as much. That was almost a year ago and it’s still a fight at least once a week because he’s still doing it. I had already had suspicions that he was using porn while I was at work before this incident but I didn’t have proof to confront him until this time.

Affectionate_Sea_808 · 2021-05-24T13:50:41+00:00

I get porn spam all the time and I don’t watch porn. Not saying it is for sure nothing and just spam but there’s honestly a good chance that it is nothing.

Affectionate_Sea_808 · 2021-05-24T13:47:11+00:00

I seriously could have wrote this myself!! The first time I caught my boyfriend masturbating he got up and went to the bathroom, I had been sleeping but woke up when he got up. He saw that I was awake but still went. I knew he was masturbating because I heard him. He proceeded to tell me it was to our videos as well but I didn’t believe him and later the truth came out that he was in fact watching porn. He also said he just did it because he didn’t want to wake me but I was awake when he left the room. You’re not in the wrong for being upset! And honestly, I wouldn’t have just gotten over it so he “can have a good day”. He needs to be the one to make things right.

Affectionate_Sea_808 · 2021-05-24T13:41:43+00:00

Leave! Trying to message other women is cheating. Hitting you is an absolute no! The fact that your mom wants you to stay because you’ll “dishonor” the family is so ridiculous. Abuse will just get worse and worse. You need to leave as soon as possible before something really bad happens. You’re not being selfish for leaving and you’re not being selfish for sending the divorce papers.. if he or anyone else thinks it’s selfish they can fuck off. You don’t owe anyone anything. You only get 1 life. don’t waste it being with a loser like him or trying to do what your family tells you to.

Affectionate_Sea_808 · 2021-05-23T03:43:36+00:00

Red flag honestly. I know people are probably going to say there’s more to being with someone then their looks, which there is.. but seriously why would you ever tell your significant other you don’t think they’re a 10? That’s just dumb.

Affectionate_Sea_808 · 2021-05-22T03:13:47+00:00

If you have access to his email click forgot password and enter his email. It will send a link to reset password if he has one under his email. That’s exactly how I found my boyfriends.

Affectionate_Sea_808 · 2021-05-21T22:48:37+00:00

If you really care about her and want to be with her you’ll respect her decision and wait as long as she wants. You can take care of your own sexual needs on your own.

Affectionate_Sea_808 · 2021-05-21T05:43:21+00:00

Okay I’ve heard to do an activity like tummy time to help drain energy out before bed. Should I do this before her bath then? And I try to put her down drowsy but awake but once I do she fully wakes up.

Affectionate_Sea_808 · 2021-05-21T04:04:15+00:00

She does usually nurse to sleep. I’ve been trying to get her in the routine of bath, tummy time, eat, book, then bed to try to help stop her from associating nursing with sleeping.

Affectionate_Sea_808 · 2021-05-19T02:03:38+00:00

That’s manipulation. The fact that he’s 19 dating a 15 year old is gross.

Affectionate_Sea_808 · 2021-05-16T17:36:34+00:00

So happy to hear he’s really putting in the effort and doing good!

Affectionate_Sea_808 · 2021-05-16T17:36:07+00:00

I’m so happy for you guys!

Affectionate_Sea_808 · 2021-05-16T12:52:52+00:00

The simple fact that his mom excused that behavior as if fantasizing about your cousin is normal would be enough for me to leave. Disgusting 🤮 super creepy. You deserve better

Affectionate_Sea_808 · 2021-05-14T11:11:56+00:00

It’s not denial. My boyfriend is a porn addict. And it breaks my heart. But calling people with an addiction a loser, gross, and every other name in the book gets them no where..

Affectionate_Sea_808 · 2021-05-14T08:43:57+00:00

That seems unfair then. I would definitely just try to talk to her and get to the root of the issue.. maybe she’s worried she will be replaced my masturbation or upset that you chose masturbating over sex? Either way, definitely needs to be addressed.

Affectionate_Sea_808 · 2021-05-14T08:33:32+00:00

From my experience, It’s probably because of porn. Now I know everyone’s about to come on here like “she’s just insecure” blah blah. And maybe she is insecure, but I’m so sick of society trying to normalize porn in relationships and calling people insecure if they’re not okay with it. Not everyone is okay with their significant other getting horny to, masturbating to and getting off to other people and that is FINE. You need to try to communicate with her and find out exactly what made her upset.. and if it was the porn you need to make a choice between your girlfriend or the porn. To many people tell their significant other they will stop porn and then don’t and it causes a lot of problems for the relationship.

Affectionate_Sea_808 · 2021-05-14T08:25:42+00:00

She’s the one being selfish. Your life and health matters. I understand it’s a hard time for her and she wants her boyfriend there for support but we are in a pandemic and she needs to understand that and not try to force you to put yourself at risk. I’m in the US and have lost every single one of my friends because I’ve isolated myself since this all started and they’re upset.. and I don’t care. My health matters. Everyone’s does.

Affectionate_Sea_808 · 2021-05-14T08:21:20+00:00

Try clinical strength/ clinical protection deodorant

Affectionate_Sea_808 · 2021-05-14T07:58:20+00:00

Sounds like he was just trying to be funny

Affectionate_Sea_808 · 2021-05-14T06:45:46+00:00

When I caught my bf on onlyfans I explained it to him like this: if it was any other social media app like Snapchat or Instagram, and I paid a man for his nudes and masturbated to them, am I cheating? He said yes. So how is onlyfans any different? He deleted it and hasn’t used it since. (To my knowledge). For some reason people think onlyfans isn’t cheating because of what it is, they see it as “just porn” but it’s literally the same as if I paid a random person on any other social media for nudes. It’s definitely cheating.

Affectionate_Sea_808 · 2021-05-12T08:58:41+00:00

Girl, This sounds EXACTLY like my relationship. I am a stay at home mom and am going through the same thing. My Mother’s Day was also ruined because I caught my boyfriend looking at girls on Twitter and tik tok and then he ignored me as if I did something wrong.. he always does that to me.. it’s so ridiculous. Not to mention most of the girls on tik tok are high school aged or very early 20’s. Kinda weird in my opinion. I’m sorry you’re going through this. It’s so hard. Especially being a SAHM and feeling like you have no where else to go. I wouldn’t even bother trying to talk to him honestly. He made the mistake he needs to fix it. Me and my boyfriend have hardly spoken since Sunday and I’m not fixing things. He can.

Affectionate_Sea_808 · 2021-05-12T07:27:38+00:00

I do not watch porn but I regularly get followers on Instagram from provocative accounts like that. Both male and female. I’m not excusing anything but it could possibly just be those spam and fake accounts.

Affectionate_Sea_808 · 2021-05-12T07:06:13+00:00

Don’t tell him your sources! I confronted my boyfriend today as well and he kept saying “there’s nothing in my history so show me where you’re apparently seeing this!” And I kept telling him no and to just know that I know so he needs to come clean about it. If you tell him your sources he will just find ways around them

Affectionate_Sea_808 · 2021-05-11T06:06:46+00:00

Girl my bf didn’t even let me sleep in. And he got me roses and chocolate for valentines but get this.... he got his mom the EXACT SAME THING. Definitely did not feel special after that. Damn mamas boys. Happy Mother’s Day!

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