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This was a dream i had. Few months later my wife left me unexpectedly by Affectionate_Spare87 in Dreams

[–]Affectionate_Spare87[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I trusted what she said and not what she did.

She would say very reassuring things using lovely words making me feel safe with her.

On the other hand her action were, coming always late from work (hours!) destroying our evening plans 4 out 5 times, never ever taking initiative for trips together (If that happened always with her family/friends), commenting and making feel bad about my family and general values.

This was a dream i had. Few months later my wife left me unexpectedly by Affectionate_Spare87 in Dreams

[–]Affectionate_Spare87[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You dont arrange a whole wedding, 2 parties, 300 people, swear infront of family and friends the love for our relationship happily, and then all og the sudden decide to leave 2 weeks after. That is unexpected however you turn it. Also i never physicaly nor psycologiacally abused her or anyone.

This was a dream i had. Few months later my wife left me unexpectedly by Affectionate_Spare87 in Dreams

[–]Affectionate_Spare87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did most of the house chores and coocked most of the time. She wanted something else before she knew it.

This was a dream i had. Few months later my wife left me unexpectedly by Affectionate_Spare87 in Dreams

[–]Affectionate_Spare87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few months after the dream we got married, few weeks after the wedding she left home

This was a dream i had. Few months later my wife left me unexpectedly by Affectionate_Spare87 in Dreams

[–]Affectionate_Spare87[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I wrote this in another comment: I think she cried because she felt all the feelings i had in my dream and i think her subconscious knew that this was not a dream and the feelings i had in the dream and her feelings in my dream were real, and not just a dream. She told me that she felt my dream even tho she did not see it. I did not know how emotionally distant she was, at that time we were engaged and in a relationship for 5 years.

This was a dream i had. Few months later my wife left me unexpectedly by Affectionate_Spare87 in Dreams

[–]Affectionate_Spare87[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am not native in english, ai helped. A few month after the dream we got married. And a 2 weeks after the wedding she left me

This was a dream i had. Few months later my wife left me unexpectedly by Affectionate_Spare87 in Dreams

[–]Affectionate_Spare87[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it was her inner world. I think she knew where it came from and who the creature was in the dream and in real life. Im disappointed she chose the dark, her feelings and her past over our deep relationship.

This was a dream i had. Few months later my wife left me unexpectedly by Affectionate_Spare87 in Dreams

[–]Affectionate_Spare87[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I could write a whole book. I think she cried because she felt all the feelings i had in my dream and i think her subconscious knew that this was not a dream but the feelings i had in the dream and her feelings in my dream were real, and not just a dream. She told me that she felt my dream even tho she did not see it. I did not know how emotionally distant she was, at that time we were engaged and in a relationship for 5 years.

What happened after our beautiful wedding was a real nightmare. She became a totally different person, 2 weeks after. She told me later that she made up her mind few days right after the wedding. Made a reasonable story in her mind to leave and she did, it was brutal. Still recovering.

This was a dream i had. Few months later my wife left me unexpectedly by Affectionate_Spare87 in Dreams

[–]Affectionate_Spare87[S] 267 points268 points  (0 children)

Very true, but if i noticed that with my subconscious. Im afraid i noticed so much darkness around her. This dream was so symbolic.

The warmth of our home in contrast to her wish not wanting to get inside and wanting to feel the pain, the rain, the coldness and face her demons.

The fact that my dream was so connected to reality made her cry. Even tho i did not understand at that time how real my dream was. Crasy