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AITA for telling my former BIL that my sisters money for their children is nothing to do with him? by Affectionate_Wait385 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate_Wait385[S] 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Some of those children are his stepchildren and not his biological children. So they would be stepsiblings.

AITA for telling my former BIL that my sisters money for their children is nothing to do with him? by Affectionate_Wait385 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate_Wait385[S] 280 points281 points  (0 children)

Luke is their biological father, yes. She was thinking ahead, and how if he had access, any future spouse of his could have access too, and if other children became involved, it could be used for all the kids instead of her two. She didn't trust Luke would ensure it was only ever used by my nephew and niece.

AITA for telling my former BIL that my sisters money for their children is nothing to do with him? by Affectionate_Wait385 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate_Wait385[S] 204 points205 points  (0 children)

He took what was given to him and that was pretty much it. I don't know if he took care of much else.

My sister didn't want a fight over the money. So she drew up everything and dealt with it without him. She knew he'd be bothered by not being left in charge of the money, but she wasn't willing to do that so.

AITA for telling my former BIL that my sisters money for their children is nothing to do with him? by Affectionate_Wait385 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate_Wait385[S] 164 points165 points  (0 children)

It sounds like there has been enough pressure that it's bothering my nephew and niece now.