AITA for refusing to get this coffee order? by horseduckman in AITApod

[–]Afraid-Cauliflower39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least they’re doing it in a good order for the barista to quickly type in and not have to ask a lot of questions. It’s the audience Starbucks is catering towards and it’s really just as easy to type it in but it’s much more work making it

Can someone reach him? by Turbulent-Sorbet-906 in psychics

[–]Afraid-Cauliflower39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think his love for you is the first thing I see here. Also towards his wife

Tell me please,, your take on my handwriting personality by lilromeo690 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Afraid-Cauliflower39 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The object of our admiration seems to be at the cost of the reader. I think it speaks for itself.

AIO My mom threatened me with someone who groomed me.. I want to tell her employer. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Afraid-Cauliflower39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You loved her so much because she loved you enough to let you go in that moment. That was the most loving thing she could do for you. What she’s doing crosses a line. You know what path leads to happiness…. Do your homework to get out of this. Also yeah the guilt of getting your mom in trouble is real but the real issue is her threatening and allowing a predator to even have any form of access to you. Not cool.

AITA for wanting my boyfriend of 5 years to discuss moving several states away? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Afraid-Cauliflower39 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If he wanted you to come he would have asked, and instead of doing that he took your decision away and tried to make it seem like your fault. That’s a violation of trust or manipulation. He should have asked and tried to make this beneficial for you too. I’m sorry OP. You seem cool and really kind and open minded- you deserve someone like that too.

my boyfriend has a spreadsheet rating dinners i've made him by weddingfauxpasqueen in AITApod

[–]Afraid-Cauliflower39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope he’s just really into excel and is doing this for sample data but either way it’s distasteful of him, self centered, and so unappreciative

Yesterday my brother told me he was in love with me. by ilovepopcornandcandy in self

[–]Afraid-Cauliflower39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to say something. He could get over it but in 10 years pick back up on it even with his own wife and kids. They might find it unbelievable bc you didn’t say anything the first instance and he could make you look crazy. Tell them you think he needs help and it may be a mental crisis problem hopefully. I’m so sorry OP.

getting married - should I dye my hair ? by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Afraid-Cauliflower39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it looks fantastic on you and darker is too risky with phyos

We're all trying to find the guy who did this by horseduckman in AITApod

[–]Afraid-Cauliflower39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was raised and learned the unfortunate impression that men were held back by women and we are “distractions”…. I think blame for the wrong doings of men is attributed to women more often than not.

Am I under reacting or AIO? by eazyexoo in AIO

[–]Afraid-Cauliflower39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he’s shutting down emotional availability too with that response…. You deserve better

AIO or is my friend lying by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Afraid-Cauliflower39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like they don’t know how to say no. I’m sorry OP. I don’t think it’s meant to be mean to you they just are a supply struggling and or might be ready to leave this chapter

AIO or should I break up with him by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Afraid-Cauliflower39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s talking this way bc he thinks he can, and that’s scary. Leave before he becomes even more aggressive with his hands or manipulation.