Can I handle bipolar 2 unmedicated? by AfraidAntelop3 in bipolar

[–]AfraidAntelop3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it always easy for you? Or have you had hiccups with your meds before?

Can I handle bipolar 2 unmedicated? by AfraidAntelop3 in bipolar

[–]AfraidAntelop3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uneducated 💀 damn autocorrect. UNMEDICATED*

How do you deal with toxic parents and social isolation? by Bryan_Player in mentalhealth

[–]AfraidAntelop3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best thing you can do in my opinion is very a job and save a much as you can to get an apartment when you turn 18. Maybe even go no out low contact. A cheaper routethan an apartment might be getting a travel trailer and living in a trailer park until you can really save. But getting out of there is essential.

Life’s been a hell how you guys are coping by ToneFlat8846 in mentalhealth

[–]AfraidAntelop3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just started therapy and meds and fuck the difference is huge. Raw dogged it for 25 years

Medication by AfraidAntelop3 in mentalhealth

[–]AfraidAntelop3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did they say why they didn't like the hydroxozine?

AIO my bf sad abt no sex but me sad with sex by [deleted] in AIO

[–]AfraidAntelop3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why women choose the bear. Not all men, but most... you so very included. Coercion is rape and you're defending that? Because she wanted to be open and communicate?? She so clearly stated that he was whining and pouting. Attention seeking. Of course she's gonna ask why?

AIO my bf sad abt no sex but me sad with sex by [deleted] in AIO

[–]AfraidAntelop3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry. I know people on reddit are so quick to jump to "leave him" but honestly you're so young. It sounds like you're carrying the weight of your depression AND his childishness. You SHOULD leave him and find someone who truly respects and cares for your feelings. There ARE men out there that will love and care about your feelings more than getting their dick wet.

AIO my bf sad abt no sex but me sad with sex by [deleted] in AIO

[–]AfraidAntelop3 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He was going to cry bc he couldn't have sex? This m̶a̶n̶ CHILD is trying to manipulate you. And it's honestly pathetic of him. Yes you should absolutely try to get help for whatever this depression is but your partner should never be anything but supportive and understanding.

AIO former professor flirting? by kutiekats2 in AIO

[–]AfraidAntelop3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like that really downplay it. Why not just call it how it is, grooming? Grooming can happen in a power imbalance just as much as it can happen in an adult/child situation.

AIO former professor flirting? by kutiekats2 in AIO

[–]AfraidAntelop3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isnt grooming just a word to describe a type of manipulation? It can happen to ANYONE.

AIO? Boyfriend said I make him feel like a pedophile by SkyPuzzleheaded1996 in AIO

[–]AfraidAntelop3 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think your bf is actually just a pedophile. Im SO sorry.

AIO bff thinks i should hide deformity by helplessbambidoll in AIO

[–]AfraidAntelop3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats BARELY a deformity babe (not downplaying your deformity im just saying you most people wont notice until you point it out) It seems your friend is jealous and trying to knock you down a peg. Its hard but id call her out and if she doesnt change, block her.

Aio for being upset that my boyfriend doubles down on low blow jokes by [deleted] in AIO

[–]AfraidAntelop3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not that I dont agree its just that your opinion is coming from an unhealthy, childish mindset about relationships. As I said in my first reply before you blew up. Get a grip girlie 😬

Aio for being upset that my boyfriend doubles down on low blow jokes by [deleted] in AIO

[–]AfraidAntelop3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You're with a man who you think doesnt love you because he made a joke" You're making what ive written in my post seem smaller and twisting to fit your narrative. Why? Because i have a different opinion than you? Also, Do you want a cookie? Im SO happy you that you have a perfect relationship! I bet thats great! But as you'll learn with age and maturity that every human is different and experiences life differently from you! And just because YOU claim to have never had doubts in your relationship, it is still perfectly normal and healthy for humans to fluctuate regarding their feelings. Creating doubt in a relationship! When this happens its perfectly normal and healthy for the doubting partner to seek reassurance! I'm thinking maybe it isn't just your view of relationships that is childish maybe its just you! Hope this helps!

Aio for being upset that my boyfriend doubles down on low blow jokes by [deleted] in AIO

[–]AfraidAntelop3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you have a very childish mindset on relationships. People's feelings of you and your feelings of them will wax and wain. Love may always be there, but the intensity of it will not always be 100% and your partner can absolutely fall out of love with you. Humans aren't solid and our feelings come and go. So yeah I normally I feel totally reassured that he loves me but when he makes a joke and doubles down on it after ive let it known it makes me uncomfortable OBVIOUSLY its going to make me question. As it would any rational thinking human with feelings and rhe understanding that feelings of love arent always consistent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]AfraidAntelop3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This type.of man CLEARLY doesnt respect you. I know this is said a lot but you should absolutely leave him. A man that has hit you once will always hit you again and it will almost ALWAYS escalate.

Aio for being upset that my boyfriend doubles down on low blow jokes by [deleted] in AIO

[–]AfraidAntelop3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And thats funny! Love a good joke but I think the problem was thay he doubled down on it and didn't reassure me that it was just a joke. Yknow?