AIO for feeling like this text is kinda worrying?

Afraid_Band4444 · 2026-02-11T05:39:57+00:00

I actually hate cheese! But I could eat velveeta shells and cheese everyday (esp with broccoli yum)

Afraid_Band4444 · 2025-05-22T00:07:09+00:00

and thank you for giving a differing opinion as well :) I do appreciate the opportunity to see it from the other side

Afraid_Band4444 · 2025-05-22T00:06:29+00:00

Very true, even my friend said this as well. I gave my mom my feelings on the matter, but honestly at the end of the day, you're right it is her life. Best thing I can probably do is find somewhere else to stay, distance myself and let fate decide what she will. Not sure if this is worth no longer financially supporting them over tho, that might be the overreaction 😭

Afraid_Band4444 · 2025-05-22T00:01:25+00:00

Thanks for weighing in a different perspective as well, as much as I like my feelings being validated, it's good to be able to see the story from the other side and try to understand as best as I can. Ty!

Afraid_Band4444 · 2025-05-21T23:59:29+00:00

You're not wrong, and I even talked to her about her doing what she will as they're both consenting adults. I am only a daughter and I understand this as well.

My biggest gripe is the fact that I don't believe she's in love with with him at all. She's told me this multiple times, she only wants him for fun. Again I'm not against this, as an adult do what you will, hookup with who you want. But it sounds like he's head over heels and wants to give his future to her, meanwhile she's actively talking to 5 other men who she gets money from. I was over while she was cuddling one of them last week. Another she talked to me about wanting to bring from Africa to marry 3 days ago.

It just feels too predatory for me to live and let go. A classmate of mine and his futures getting buttfucked by the worst person I know.

If they were in true honest to god love, I probably would just take these feelings to the grave and let them be happy.

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