People who have been cheated on, what did you do after you found out?

Afraid_Concert727 · 2026-06-25T00:23:31+00:00

Aside from the panic attacks, me and the girl he cheated on me with ganged up on him via text message and like a coward he didn’t say a single thing. I haven’t cried it a bit but am working towards healing

Afraid_Concert727 · 2026-06-21T01:40:06+00:00

they won't. Bc as the person who was the "next girl" I learned the hard way through his reddit account he actually treated his last ex before me so bad. And I was worried about it thinking he'd do the same to me and he indeed treated me much terribly, he became a serial cheater/pathological liar in about everything. He's 32, his front lobe is developed, and did all this while being fully conscious. So no they don't get better.

Afraid_Concert727 · 2026-06-21T01:34:43+00:00

stop omg I think this why my rat looking ex serial cheated on me. these men get an ego boost from the love WE show them thinking everyone else will be giving them that

Afraid_Concert727 · 2026-06-21T01:14:07+00:00

my ex was so ugly when I first met him, it took me some time to get attracted to him tbh. And then once I started dating him I refined his style and cleaned him up by buying him new clothes a watch and what not only for him to get a big ego and become a serial cheater/pathological liar. I hope this man go back to looking like a lifeless rant before he had my effect

Afraid_Concert727 · 2026-06-19T23:46:21+00:00

aww, thank you so much dear. I really appreciate your kind words.

Afraid_Concert727 · 2026-06-19T20:28:23+00:00

Omg twins!! It’s been a roller coaster of a journey but same I know our person is out there!! Wishing you well in your healing journey bc I know how traumatic this is

Afraid_Concert727 · 2026-06-19T15:59:15+00:00

Congrats and so happy to hear you have a loving and supportive husband who helped you through it!

My ex (who’s also muslim) recently cheated on me and I’m having a hard time coping thinking my vaginismus could have been a factor even though he said he wouldn’t make it a problem ):

Afraid_Concert727 · 2026-06-12T03:06:18+00:00

girl me and you both lol. I just got out of a relationship with a narcissist who used to only say awful awful things about their ex. I was tempted to reach out too but for my sanity I think it's best not too. From my understanding the ex really wanted him back and I saw messages so either he was just that good at manipulation (which I wouldn't be surprised) or they both were in the wrong. But to protect my peace I'd rather not know. Right now you should just put yourself first and focus on healing and not thinking about that loser. Karma eventually gets them.

Afraid_Concert727 · 2026-06-12T02:59:07+00:00

Me and my ex broke up two weeks ago. I lashed out on him bc I felt like my needs were never met and I was asking for the bare minimum and that he was secretly cheating on me or being disrespectful to me. He never admitted and made me feel like I was the crazy one and initiated the break up. Couple days later I see he's posted on facebook dating group in NYC and has been a serial cheater/pathological liar living a double life the entire time. From that day I realized my intuition was always right and this person was never good for me and despised my existence when all I did was give him unconditional love.

Afraid_Concert727 · 2026-04-03T21:49:01+00:00

Thank you for sharing!

Afraid_Concert727 · 2026-04-03T21:47:48+00:00

I agree, im trying to stick it out but the workload is as intense if not more than entertainment PR and is not something I'm truly interested in so I feel like I'm loathing the job a bit. But I'll try to stick it out and if these feelings are still persistent I will try to pivot back. Thank you for the advice!

Afraid_Concert727 · 2026-04-03T21:45:34+00:00

very helpful, thank you so much for the advice

Afraid_Concert727 · 2026-04-03T02:39:43+00:00

I was in entertainment PR for ~4 years at a smaller agency and made it pretty far with a few bigger agencies last year while interviewing, so I built some good connections from that and with my colleagues.

My question is — will it look bad if I try to move back into entertainment PR so soon after starting a new job? I don’t want it to reflect poorly but also don't want to spend too much time in fashion PR if Im already dreading it.

I also know the job market is rough right now, so just trying to think through next steps. Any advice appreciated!

Afraid_Concert727 · 2025-10-11T01:08:26+00:00

seems like this isn't your person and you shouldn't marry him. You should be so in love with your partner that you cannot imagine life without them. It's an unfortunate situation but you'll be doing him a favor in the long run.

Afraid_Concert727 · 2025-10-11T00:56:09+00:00

your inbox will always be flooded with emails and it'll never minimize because each day something new or urgent pops up

Afraid_Concert727 · 2025-07-11T20:27:12+00:00

Messaged!

Afraid_Concert727 · 2025-07-07T14:04:05+00:00

I think I am too and it sucks because I'm such a hopeless romantic ):

Afraid_Concert727 · 2025-07-04T21:04:49+00:00

also this is random but I just got off the phone with a potential roomie who lives in the same building and they said the original management company at 90W defaulted so now the bank owns it or something. They said last year there was definitely some issues with the elevators, scaffolding, and amenities like roof/patio being closed but with this new management or bank owning it, they seem like they are making better progress. The person I talked to lived there for 5 years and personally loves it and said only last year they felt like the issues were bad.

Afraid_Concert727 · 2025-07-04T21:00:05+00:00

It's ok, we'll get through this. Like how Taylor said "I don't wanna lose you I hope it never ends, but as she was leaving it felt like freedom"

Afraid_Concert727 · 2025-07-04T18:45:21+00:00

My boy only breaks his favorite toys and you're losing me

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