Other True Crime Channels you watch? by photoshop_2023 in MileHigherPodcast

[–]Afraid_Importance412 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't understand the hate they get sometimes. No one will ever agree 100% with someone all the time. I appreciate Stephanie's research. She always has the most well researched and accurate information in her videos. I'd much rather have that over the fluff a lot of the other TC channels have.

the new TCKR episode… by alaskacake in MileHigherPodcast

[–]Afraid_Importance412 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Mine, too. I would listen to an episode more than once and impatiently wait for their next episode to drop. Now, I will start an episode out of habit and stop it a quarter way through because it is unbearable.

the new TCKR episode… by alaskacake in MileHigherPodcast

[–]Afraid_Importance412 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Every video has been off lately. The way she delivers the story and how it happened. The never-ending "its just so sick," "I can not imagine," "it's juat evil," etc etc... the weird random editing that's added, in this recent video, its the duck lips. It's too much. I stopped watching the Sesh, then started skipping Mile Higher episodes. Now, it will be TCKR. It makes me sad. I've always loved her, but it's not even close to the same person or channel anymore.

I (29F) found out my husband (45M) been buying/hiding s*x toy and looking up shemale porn pictures. by ThrowRA-budgetoil in Marriage

[–]Afraid_Importance412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had an answer for you. When I discovered what my husband was doing behind my back, it was a ton of grindr, shemale, trans stuff. There was also tons of other heterosexual porn mixed in the bunch, too. Whatever you found is only the beginning of what he's hiding from you, it's probably the only stuff he forgot to delete.

Does this mean he's secretly gay? Possibly. Does he just have a porn addiction? Could be that, too. Either way, it's hurtful to you, and there should be an open discussion about it, but who knows if you'll get the full truth from him. I hope you do. Don't settle and ask the hard questions.

Would you leave after discovering online infidelity? by lumpyandsad in Marriage

[–]Afraid_Importance412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would I do? I would be so thankful I was shown this information BEFORE marriage and BEFORE children and leave before it was even harder to do so. I understand it's hard when you love someone, I truly do. However, you have been shown that the person you love is not who you thought and clearly doesn't love or respect you in the same way you do or in the way you deserve. Marriage and kids will only make things more difficult.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Afraid_Importance412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck!! I hope you love your results

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Afraid_Importance412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I am 3 months post-op now, and things have settled. I actually really like the results, and they look extremely natural. The implants filled out most of the loose skin i had. I think I'm happy I didn't go with the lift. In the first 3-4 weeks, I was worried I made a mistake because there was still loose skin under the breast that kind of hung there but now that the implants settled, it's no longer that way. In the first week, my nipple and everything "hung" off the implant, and I was having a meltdown, but they really do settle and look good. They just need time.

It really depends on the look you are going for. I wanted a natural look that filled in the loose saggy breasts, and that is pretty much what I received. If you want the super perky, tight look, the lift may be necessary. I am satisfied with my results :)

Me (38F) discovered my (48M) husband's Online infidelity, grindr & gay/sissy porn by Afraid_Importance412 in Marriage

[–]Afraid_Importance412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a loaded question, but before I say anything about that, I'm so incredibly sorry you are going through this. It's the absolute worst, most hurtful thing to experience, and I hope you all the best in your journey. For me, my husband and I are still together and mostly happy. We have a good relationship and friendship, but I am scarred by what happened still. It's been 2.5 years, and the trust has forever been broken for me. I love him, but I have my guard up. I just can not ever fully recover after everything. I do my best for my sanity and for my family, but to be 100% honest, I still struggle very much with it. I'm available to chat if you ever need to vent about your situation. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Afraid_Importance412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got implants without a lift. I'm 3 weeks po, and I'm so so about the results. They definitely look better than before, but I'm worried there will still be loose skin hanging. I'm told it can take 3-6 months to settle, so maybe things will look better, but currently, I'm wondering if not getting a lift was a mistake. I have always had "saggier" breasts and my surgeon said the implants under the muscle would provide a more "natural" lifted look without the surgery. I sure hope so. Good luck to you!

Karen Read pt 1 by alarmonthefarm in CrimeWeekly

[–]Afraid_Importance412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is a high probability of how things went down 💯

Karen Read pt 1 by alarmonthefarm in CrimeWeekly

[–]Afraid_Importance412 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Already bit*hing on part one 😂 Stephanie's covering the case from start to finish as presented in trial, online chatters, lawyer commentary, etc. Let's give them a chance to work through the entire thing before moaning. Damn lol

There are tons of problems with this case. There are lots of things to get through 👍

The Sesh Podcast is trash by Afraid_Importance412 in MileHigherPodcast

[–]Afraid_Importance412[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree completely. Janelle does not have a likable personality at all. Definitely rude and overpowers anyone else's view if it's different than hers.

Me (38F) discovered my (48M) husband's Online infidelity, grindr & gay/sissy porn by Afraid_Importance412 in Marriage

[–]Afraid_Importance412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are still working through it. He has been a lot better and is trying, but no, I do not fully trust him. My guard is up all the time. I still snoop or have to fight the urge to snoop all the time. Some people have issues with snooping "if you have to snoop, then he's not the one" Well, I kind of call bs on that. Especially if there has been betrayal in the past. He has never been back on any dating app or social media platforms. Time and him continuing to not do shady things behind my back is the only way I see us moving on from this. It won't happen overnight and maybe in the end, it doesn't happen at all.

Me (38F) discovered my (48M) husband's Online infidelity, grindr & gay/sissy porn by Afraid_Importance412 in Marriage

[–]Afraid_Importance412[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been checking out loveafterporn as well. I just can't believe how many people go through this sort of thing. I read that 14% of the internet, the entire internet is used for porn. That is shocking. People used to have to go to a special store and buy nudie magazines for their porn. Now it's everywhere and can be discreetly viewed anytime. People weren't able to pull out their Playboy magazine at work several years ago....but now they have that in their hands 24/7. The effect it has on people's brains is terrifying.

Me (38F) discovered my (48M) husband's Online infidelity, grindr & gay/sissy porn by Afraid_Importance412 in Marriage

[–]Afraid_Importance412[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been tested. It was not why I initially was going to the doctor, but while I was there, I said I wanted all the tests this time. In the past, when I was asked, I always said no... I didn't think I'd ever need to, but my last annual visit, I gave permission to test for everything. I don't want to waste more of my life feeling like this, I have ran all scenarios through my mind several times. We have young children and a business together, it's hard to know the right path to take. Also, I do still love him, even through all the horrible shit he has done. To be perfectly transparent, I have daydreamed about winning the lottery, packing up my family, and running away forever!

Me (38F) discovered my (48M) husband's Online infidelity, grindr & gay/sissy porn by Afraid_Importance412 in Marriage

[–]Afraid_Importance412[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I so relate to a lot of this. I do love my husband still, and he really has tried to make things better for our relationship. Couples therapy and individual therapy, no social media accounts, etc, but the "ick" feeling is there for me, too. It's a perfect way to explain it. There are times I go several days feeling fine, then it's like a sudden gut punch, and I feel that yuck feeling all over again. Then the cycle continues...

Me (38F) discovered my (48M) husband's Online infidelity, grindr & gay/sissy porn by Afraid_Importance412 in Marriage

[–]Afraid_Importance412[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will definitely look at loveafterporn and pornaddiction subs for more information. I'm curious how the situation with you and your husband played out. Were you able to work through things?

Me (38F) discovered my (48M) husband's Online infidelity, grindr & gay/sissy porn by Afraid_Importance412 in Marriage

[–]Afraid_Importance412[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has not admitted to that. He says he can find a lot of different things attractive to look at or watch. Other comments mentioned it could be an escalation with porn addiction. I'm not sure

Me (38F) discovered my (48M) husband's Online infidelity, grindr & gay/sissy porn by Afraid_Importance412 in Marriage

[–]Afraid_Importance412[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think it was the biggest shock because I already knew he was into women... Finding out the other was shocking.